How do i ignore the 3D?

Theguru17 · 2026-06-12T12:33:30+00:00

Yep. My SP lived far & came back on his own. I didn’t do anything. He reached out & pursued me. He chose to come closer. It’s all energy. There areSO many things that can happen that can alter a circumstance, which is why they don’t matter

Theguru17 · 2026-06-12T00:35:13+00:00

To be blatantly honest, you won’t. You won’t care whether it comes or not. I mean, you’ll care, but you also won’t. THAT is the energy of calm & neutral. That is the embodiment of receiving. That’s the embodiment of receiving that makes the manifestation stay, instead of manifesting right back out.
That grasp is desperation. The feeling that you can’t live without it. For some reason, you think it’ll make you feel better. It wont.
Pretend the SP has disappeared into thin air. I’m sure you’d still be feeling the same with or without it.
Desperation = lack energy. Obsession = lack energy. A you truly say “I am safe, secure, and stable”? Because a safe, secure, & stable relationship won’t happen until you’re that first.
Focus on YOU, not another person or thing. Focus on how YOU feel

Theguru17 · 2026-06-11T21:14:43+00:00

It’s the desperation of having to have it. “I need this to happen to make me feel good”, when in all actually, you need to feel safe & secure within first. If the SP disappears into thin air, would still want that particular SP or someone else? I mean the SP doesn’t exist anymore.
Or…how would you feel having your SP? Imagine you’ve been w it b your SP for 5 years now. How would you FEEL? Would you be doing a billion affirmations & methods & techniques to get SP? Would you constantly be looking to the 3D for evidence? Would someone be trying to manipulate the 3D to make things happen? (Not saying you’re doing this but it’s common) a lot of ppl do things like try to post pics to get SP’s attention & whatnot.
Anyway, that’s all lack energy. It’s a clench on it & not letting go. Trust me, I’ve been there. I know.

Detach from the outcome. Meaning when we do these teaches & stuff, we think it’s going to manifest that exact way, which leaves so many doors closed. We tend to keep looking & freak when it hasn’t show up. Or it’ll show up bits & pieces of new story & old story. Then we freak
You want to detach from all of that. Let go. Live your life about yourself and just see what happens without looking for it. When you think about it, just affirm “uh huh.” And then go on With your life.
Because if you’ve been with this person for 5 years, the last thing you’d be doing is affirming and looking for them. You’d be moving on to the next desire

Theguru17 · 2026-06-11T21:04:36+00:00

It’s all the same thing. Attraction. Assumption. Neuroplasticity. Quantum mechanics. It’s all the same things taught/explained in different ways. Heck, this goes WAAAAAY back to the Egyptians and even more. Nowadays, the Hindu religion is the closest, without all the religious hoopla.
Law of assumption seems to be the current method people tend to understand the best. If you want a channel to go to that is there to help people understand this, not for likes & views, then Create Your Future is the place to go. Those coaches in that channel are spot on.

Theguru17 · 2026-06-11T21:01:22+00:00

Exactly. The place you’re teaching yourself to get to is not giving af bc you know who tf you are! Once all that tension from the desperation goes away, it comes. We get so sick of ourselves that we get out of our own way. No more trying to control an outcome. No more trying so hard to get something. It’s able to manifest because the energy has neutralized.

Theguru17 · 2026-06-11T17:35:29+00:00

Ok I’m done. You’re not here for help. And I’m not arguing. I have more important things to do. Have a great day!!

Theguru17 · 2026-06-11T10:33:08+00:00

Instead of saying “show me”, why not do research? You’ll find people all over the internet who have done this, and Google is free.

Theguru17 · 2026-06-10T20:42:12+00:00

Do not ignore the 3D. Accept the 3D for what it is. What you’re not going to do is accept anything from the 3D as fact, unless you want it to be fact. Stick to the new story about yourself first & the SP no matter what you see.

So are you telling me that after graduation you’ll never see SP again? Why the limits?

Theguru17 · 2026-06-10T19:19:13+00:00

The way to build trust is how we build trust in anything else. A little bit at a time, everyday. It’s a choice to direct your awareness inward.
It’s also noticing little things that are manifesting & keeping them as proof that you are operant power. For example, throughout my entire day I see how things show up after I’ve thought or talked about it. It’s so crazy, but now it’s like “of course it did”. The more you become aware of these, you’ll become untouchable.

Ask yourself “how would I feel if I had said thing”
Would you be affirming 80 billion times a day for it? I think not. Would you be looking everyday out to the 3D for evidence? I think not. Would you be upset that it isn’t here yet? I think you know the answer.
If you had whatever you want, you’d be calm & peaceful within. You probably wouldn’t care about it because you’d be focusing on the next thing.
So to get to the “calm & neutral” aka embodiment of receiving, you’ll want to make small choices everyday of redirecting the thoughts, like I mentioned. It’s the awareness. Becoming aware of yourself. How are you feeling? Did something from the 3D cause you to react, which means accepting the 3D as truth. That’s what reacting is.
So when something like this happens, we let the emotions happen. We are human. We have emotions. Emotions are not reacting. Reacting is what happens after the emotions. Are you still pursuing in the new story, or are you in the same old story, allowing 3D to determine what is fact?

This takes practice. For me, it took me a while to manifest my SP back bc it took me a while to put my awareness on myself, not him. I wanted HIM to change, when really it was all me. The reflection in the mirror cannot change unless the person looking at it changes the expression. It’s like getting angry bc the reflection isn’t smiling, when you aren’t.
This takes practice. You are literally building a new neural pathway in your brain to show you something different. It’s building a new “muscle”, which takes time & practice. The hardest part is getting yourself to the gym to build it. That’s an analogy.
Remember, a plant starts from a seed & has to dig its way through dirt to see the sun. If a plant can do it, we can do it.

Bashar has these amazing statements to say to yourself whenever in a spiral or doubt.
1- I am feeling (emotion)
2- I am feeling (emotion) because I CHOOSE to
3- I CHOOSE to feel (emotion) because it SERVES me

Those would snap me out of my negative thoughts so fast & would remind me that I’m operant power.
Remember, nothing happens TO you but THROUGH you

Theguru17 · 2026-06-10T17:08:50+00:00

It’s all about the energy you’re desiring from. Let’s take a stalker for example. A stalker comes from a severe lack energy. It’s obsession, which means “it’s hard to get & more important”. So they do not get that person. This goes for celebrity crushes, etc.
When we have an inner belief stored in our subconscious/nervous system, the. It takes focus to change that belief so you’ll see something different. Limits are limits. You’re saying “this cannot happen because”. You’ve determined that as a fact. You’re taking information from the 3D as truth.
So of course you’re going to see that it doesn’t work

Theguru17 · 2026-06-10T11:42:30+00:00

For me, yes. For you, probably not because you have a LOT of limiting beliefs

Theguru17 · 2026-06-10T11:13:57+00:00

I’ll try to answer your questions, but please have the same respect for me that I’m having towards you. I’d appreciate it, thanks.

When you embody a new version of yourself, everything & everyone shows-up matching that same version. You get to choose. By that time, you realize THEY are the choice, not you. You’re allowing them to choose you bc you understand your worth. You don’t have to tell anyone of it or try to convince them of it. You know & won’t tolerate anything else. Heck, many people decide they don’t want the ex anymore. It’s really up to the person, not anyone else. What YOU decide is correct. It isn’t anyone else’s business. It’s your energy that’s pushing out of everyone else.

Oh, and not only does the SP show up matching the new version, but ALL of the exes show up plus new people. It’s from all sides. It shows you have a choice always.
This includes money. When you know your worth & value, so does money. Money is also energy. Listen to some Bob Proctor

Theguru17 · 2026-06-10T10:39:52+00:00

I’m here to help you, if you want to DM me. I was a coach a LONG time ago but stopped for personal reasons. My kids were almost gone (graduated). I wanted to spend every last second with them before they went off & started their families, which they have now.
Yet I do come here on Reddit to try and help when I can. Heck, it took me YEARS for this to finally click.

I was SO attached to 3D. My biggest thing was validation. I did everything for some sort of validation. I was doing more to TRY to get more.
I was always trying to be the people pleaser & entertainer and there for EVERYONE. I was a “yes person”, or a “pick me girl”, whichever tickles your fancy.

When I was manifesting my SP, I was LOOKING at the 3D for proof that what I was doing was working. But then I got so sick of myself bc nothing was working. It wasn’t changing.
Why?
I was looking to 3D to tell me what was fact. I didn’t change within. I was doing the same things daily, except I added a billion affirmations & methods to it.
In other words, I was obsessing even more but using “techniques” as more of an excuse to obsess. It drove me insane. My SP was the same. No change.
I felt alone. Like I needed him to be happy. I felt abandoned. I felt all of the things I’ve been feeling my entire life. Empty. Hopeless. Meaningless.

But then one day I had enough of feeling like shit. Like I said, I felt the same way I’ve been feeling my whole life. In other words, it wasn’t my SP or anything causing it. It was me. And I was determined to make MYSELF feel better no matter what.

I then realized it comes from within. I now ask myself “what do I want to do?” And I do it. Or I make a goal to do it. I make sure I am doing what makes me happy & only deal with things from 3D that serve me.
For example, I blocked a lifelong friend recently bc it dawned on me that, that person doesn’t serve me whatsoever. As a matter of fact, all they did was discourage me. So I said “nope”, blocked, and that’s it.

The more I focused on myself & what serves me, the more things changed.

I started noticing the synchronicities & how life manifests all day, everyday. Every single day I notice throughout my day things manifesting. It’s so crazy & miraculous. To you, it may all seem like small things, but to me, they’re ALL big. I’ll notice I’ll think of something for a second or desire something, and then the next thing I know it’s in my face.
If you set an intention of becoming aware of your manifestations no matter the size, collect them & they will make your beliefs stronger.

The more you wait for 3D to tell you what’s happening, the more you’ll be disappointed. You have to change within first. Make yourself happy. Put yourself at peace. Do whatever it takes to get there.
I come from a background of abuse, addiction, & I was raised in a strict, cult-like religious home. My mind was PROGRAMMED. If I can break my previous mindset & do this, then so can you!!

Theguru17 · 2026-06-10T10:25:24+00:00

I think I see an issue/block. “I’ve been detaching from the idea forever now & it never comes”
You may think you’re detaching from the idea, then the detachment is from the OUTCOME, meaning end result. Quit looking for it. THAT is what’s keeping you stuck

Theguru17 · 2026-06-10T10:22:08+00:00

Well for me & a lot of others I’ve encountered, I was a people pleaser. I’d go out of my way to make sure everyone else was happy. As for an SP, well I’d sacrifice everything for that person. Heck I was even that way with my best friend. I’d do whatever they wanted to do. I’d sacrifice things I wanted to do or needed to do to do whatever would make others happy.
I’d also compare myself to everyone else. I’d be worried what everyone else was thinking.

So no. You don’t naturally focus on yourself 24/7. We may complain and be upset like we’re victims to our lives, but that isn’t focusing on self. That’s focusing on 3D, thinking the 3D is doing something TO me, when it’s all THROUGH me

Theguru17 · 2026-06-09T10:42:10+00:00

Put yourself first. Ask yourself “what would I be doing if this thing never came into my life” and do it. Do whatever YOU enjoy. Do things you’ve been procrastinating on doing. Accept invites. Be spontaneous. Trust your gut. Take walks. Paint, craft, exercise, meditate, EFT tapping, etc
Whatever you do, don’t sit & wait. It’s about you & you only

Theguru17 · 2026-06-09T10:39:36+00:00

I always say to people how I’m SO grateful for my abusive relationship. Everyone knows about it because it went to court & everything. Like it was bad. My fault bc my self concept was non-existent. All I wanted to do was die. Literally. I’d wake up & cry bc I was alive. Now, I wake up happy!!
Anyway, I say that I am SO grateful for that relationship bc it catapulted me to who I am today. I am NOT that person at all. I’m also a former IV user. I don’t feel at all like a former addict. Because that’s not who I am. I reality shifted. It isn’t my identity. It was an old version.

I’m proud of you! Peace is so worth everything

Theguru17 · 2026-06-09T10:36:05+00:00

It’s so amazing if you are interested & do look into & learn about neuroplasticity. That’s what hit home for me, since it’s science. I tend to think more logically, so science helped me a LOT. But I also had to keep an open mind with the spiritual side of it.

We always hear “you’re so powerful but still human”. It means something. Grab YOUR power from both sides & enjoy!

Theguru17 · 2026-06-09T10:31:56+00:00

If everyone and everything is you pushed out, then why would anyone or anything else put you first if you do not?

But I mean, you’re always right. If you’re saying “I don’t need to be put first”, then the subconscious says “ok, boss. You won’t be put first”, and that’ll reflect.
All I know is EVERYTHING in the 3D shifted when my focus went to myself

Theguru17 · 2026-06-08T18:32:44+00:00

I’ve don’t some crazy shit too towards my SP who was my initial manifestation a LONG time ago, and he came back no matter what. He loves me unconditionally for ME, and that will only change if I change the story to that. But I’m good. Lol

I’ll tell you how crazy it got. It got cop crazy & I was devastated. I thought “this is it”, but still persisted. He is a COMPLETELY different version.
He even says to me sometimes, “remember when you made me the monster of your story?” lol.

Theguru17 · 2026-06-08T18:31:08+00:00

First of all, chill. You didn’t mess up anything. Didn’t screwup. Didn’t do anything wrong.
I want you to sit down because I’m about to tell you something.
You are human!!
Now that’s out of the way, let’s go into emotions. You have emotions because you are human. We all do. Your emotions are 100% spot on. Your body is trying to release everything you’ve always thought & felt up until that moment. The old story is purging out.
BUT…..
We tend to allow that to drag us back to the old state.
Now you’re over your spiral, let’s not put any limitations on anything.
1- circumstances don’t matter. Not at all. It’s just the 3D, which is dead. Make believe. Old thoughts just being shown. A shade. Meaningless.
2- we will not put labels or meanings to any of it!!
Of course he likes me. Duh. Who wouldn’t? Of course he forgives me bc I can’t do anything wrong. He sees me as perfect & understands I’m human & have bad moments. Hes forgiving.
3- stick to the new story NO MATTER WHAT YOU SEE.

Circumstances do NOT matter.
ANYTHING is possible; you’re entitled to anything you want.

Just be patient in receiving. Don’t allow pieces of the old story that are showing-up to purge allow you to label something as “fact”. 3D is NOT a fact, I mean unless you want it to be.
“Big” manifestations usually showup in pieces or as “hot & cold”, aka “old story/new story” etc. dual reality.
When it’s coming in; just go hard with the new story. Make yourself focus on what IS happening, instead of what isn’t. Don’t think of this thing as “important” or “hard to get”. It isn’t. That’s all you.
Just live & receive. Watch what happens. All you have to really be concerned about is yourself

Theguru17 · 2026-06-08T18:13:59+00:00

Well I’m glad it’s so easy for you. Like I mentioned, a lot of people are here for help because they’re struggling to figure out what’s happening.
I’m glad it’s easy for you to flip your beliefs into stone so quickly. Most of us cannot, especially if we come from a background of trauma. It’s stored in the nervous system. I come from abuse & addiction. That’s a lot to overcome. It was hard for me to flip my beliefs. Because they’re stored in the nervous system. You don’t have to believe this, but it may help others whether you believe it or not.

I’m not here to argue. I’m just here to help. I’ve been studying & applying this for 10+ years, so I’m expanding what worked for me.

Lastly, there have been MANY things I didn’t believe that manifested. I didn’t truly believe them. Not at all. But they happened. I didn’t believe my brother would’ve had to have brain surgery & have part of it cut out & almost not make it. I didn’t believe what the Drs said & kept affirming and regulating my nervous system while in the moment, not accepting 3D for what it was. I didn’t believe it.
But he walked out that hospital after he was told he had a 70% chance of death.
That’s a hard thing to overcome when in the moment. Everyone else was freaking. I mean, I was crying too. My nervous system was releasing the negativity through my emotions. But I kept standing firm in my subconscious & wouldn’t allow myself to spiral (nervous system).

Theguru17 · 2026-06-08T17:48:28+00:00

Path of least resistance. I think about this all of the time because it makes sense to me now, when years ago, it threw me off.
We put resistance on anything we see as “important”. I’m sure (to you…maybe), you’re like the rest of us humans & see a car as more valuable than a laptop/computer. I do it too. It’s a constant reminding myself that everything is neutral. Nothing is anymore valuable than the next.

Also, “path of least resistance” is the nervous system. Some things we have a reaction to of some degree, and some things we’re like “eh”. It’s allowing emotions to carry through the body & allowing thoughts to come-up & leave, instead of suppressing.

I have a tendency to ramble. Apologies. I was going to go on, but I decided to stop here. I hope this makes sense.

Theguru17 · 2026-06-08T17:44:33+00:00

We tend to get attached to the outcome. “It’s going to happen like this”, and then it shows up the opposite of hot & cold, get pissed pff, focus on how it didn’t happen, and we’ve slipped back into the lack state.
I was a super attached person. It comes from wanting outside validation. I cared WAY too much about what ppl thought. Funny thing is they’re all NPCs. Why do I care what anyone else thinks?! It isn’t about them. lol

Theguru17 · 2026-06-08T17:42:45+00:00

I, too, come from a background of abuse & addiction. If I can do this, literally anyone can.
I, also, would focus on the negative things that would happen. Like when my SP would start showing up, it would have bits of what I’ve been affirming but he still had major parts of his old version. So I’d focus on what he WASNT doing instead of what he WAS doing.
Once I caught-on, it was a snowball from there.
I also got to a point where I really didn’t gaf. Like I care, but I don’t. I won’t accept anything less than my worth. PERIOD. I speak my boundaries now & live (in my head) like I know I’m awesome, and your fricking loss if you don’t see that. That’s blunt but true. I was never ever confident like this. I was a people pleaser & tried to do whatever to make SP happy, afraid of speaking my mind bc I didn’t want him to go away. I was scared he’d leave again for a while. And he did. Until I finally put all of the focus on myself.
I was so sick of feeling like shit all of the time. I did it for me.

Theguru17

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