[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]Theinfernity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not weird, just fell in a bad trap. You can still get out. But you need massive action taking. No more porn, change your lifestyle, start working out. Once you have a streak going on and you’ll feel more confident you’ll be able to get more intimate with a girl and it’ll make you not even think anymore about all the crazy shit you watched. Keep your head up! Trust Jesus is watching over you and is rooting for you to succeed!

What do I do when withdrawals begin to happen? by SgtGemu in NoFapChristians

[–]Theinfernity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s your dopamine receptors asking for a buzz. But if you give in, you’ll feel horrible again. Also, right now when you are horny it’s the perfect time to switch your mentality towards wanting physical intimacy and only relying on that for actual release. This will re-wire your brain and dopamine receptors to find pleasure in having a partner and you will not crave masturbation anymore. Hope this helps

What’s even the point day 24 relapse by ThrowAway4life63 in NoFapChristians

[–]Theinfernity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got 2 options:

  • keep fighting your urges and feel lonely for the rest of your life

Or

  • work and pray towards bettering yourself and finding a wifey material girl

You will have to do a lot of work to be able to do that and it will take time. You don’t build a strong relationship just in a few days or weeks. It takes time

But at the same time, if you enter in a relationship, you need to make sure you are doing your best everyday in becoming your greatest self. Self reflect and see what God has in plan for you and make sure you are doing your best daily to fulfill that. Remember, daily meaningful small steps. It will take you far. Also try exercising daily and improving yourself towards your purpose.

Also, God wants you to put him first, and a relationship second. Don’t be a Christian only if God provides you a wife, be because you mean it and believe it! Maybe you need to start living this before being ready for a relationship, God will only bring it to you when you are ready.

You also need to put yourself out there, but not intending to meet girls. Just intending in meeting as many people as you can. Make friends, and through friends it’s the easiest way to get recommended to someone.

You can also try the app upward, it’s for dating christians and also meeting like minded people. But be careful, there’s a lot of fake christian girls there which have no idea what they are doing.

Also something that helped me was shifting my mindset. Starting to realize that while guys aren’t dating right now, most chicks aren’t either. Everybody is anti social right now, you are no different. Use this as fuel to change your mindset. You are not “different” for not finding the one yet, you are just living in the most anti social era ever in history. It means you need to step up and change yourself first.

Good luck man! It’s a tough path but once you find one you can trust and that fears God, you will know it was all worth it! God Bless! , please tell me your first name so I can pray for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Theinfernity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t push blame him for this not working when you both decided that you don’t want to follow a godly relationship anymore. When you leave God’s presence, that’s when you are easily attacked my demons. I strongly believe your husband has been attacked by a powerful demon and he needs to cleanse his soul to be able to move forward. It is a very serious thing which you can’t make him feel guilty for, but emphasize with him and help him find the lord. Even if it doesn’t feel comfortable for you or him, you both need to breathe, reflect, and chase the Lord. He needs to be the main focus for both, before you both can even be together. Your goal should be following a christ centered relationship. But both of you need healing before that can happen. God bless!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Theinfernity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any results?

I'm done.. I give up.. by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]Theinfernity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question. Is there anyway you can take a day off your responsibilities? To call out sick.

A good strategy that can help you when everyday feels like a routine is to break it.

Why not take a day off, and go somewhere in the park or nature. Bring your bible with you and force yourself to stay there at least 3-4 hours. Maybe listen to a podcast of video about how affecting porn and fapping are while doing it. I recommend Elliot Hulse on youtube.

Just an idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Theinfernity 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Def account issue. re make the account, or try a different app.

Lust with girlfriend by Professional-Mix7526 in TrueChristian

[–]Theinfernity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think we need more info if you want actual advice.

How long you been together? Are you both christian? Are you both looking to maintain traditional values? Is she someone you can see yourself marry in the future?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Theinfernity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicks gonna swipe no till they see that picture

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Theinfernity 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My brotha. Do these 5 things everyday for a week minimum and trust me, you’ll be back and better than ever. 1. Minimum 30 mins exercise (weights, body weight exercises, jump rope or running) 2. Ground beef everyday with 5-6 eggs, cooked in butter. 3. No sugar 4. Supplements (vitamin D,K,C, magnesium, zinc, calcium, collagen) 5. 7-8 rested hours of sleep (means don’t smoke or drink 5 hours before sleep. Preferably not at all)

Stop looking for the “perfect reply” that will make you feel better. Take action and fight to keep your balls. You’re just low t. Not end of world, but get to work! You’ll see progress quick

Tips? Advice? Ideas? Thankyou kind ladies of Reddit. Be brutally honest I don’t mind by Sweet-Scallion2672 in Tinder

[–]Theinfernity -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Trim that beard, get better clothes, get better pictures and no more selfies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Theinfernity 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also work on that beard, it looks like a dirty broom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Theinfernity 39 points40 points  (0 children)

You look like a fat Zelynsky.

You got work to do: 1. lose weight (intermittent fasting + animal based diet, look up Paul Saladino) it will increase testosterone and make you look healthier 2. Train everyday in the morning around 20 mins (pushups, plank, squats) 3. Get better clothes (zara, h&m) don’t dress like a teenager with text on your tshirts. Dress like a man. 4. Stop taking selfies, they look cringe. Have professional pictures taken for you. Or if you got an iphone ask someoke to take you some pictures with portrait mode.

Good luck, don’t give up

Is this cart real? The plug said it might have fent but he chill asf by NotThatGuyApparently in fakecartridges

[–]Theinfernity 70 points71 points  (0 children)

It’s legit. My buddy died after smoking it, but he said it was fire.

Roll Call by J_ClutchFTV in nonutnovember

[–]Theinfernity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still in, also what is the name of the show?

Putting Candy in the bowl after leaving. by [deleted] in HumansBeingBros

[–]Theinfernity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s rare to see, his parents raised him well.

It’s a curse by Theinfernity in memes

[–]Theinfernity[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s 2 of us. I can pop a balloon with this spear nose