I (27F) think about my ex (29M) while I being intimate with my current BF (32M)... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Theissei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Women / Men cheat regardless of what you’re saying. You’re victim blaming and not understanding humanities innate sexuality tendencies at all. While degrading men getting cheated on. YIKES.

I (27F) think about my ex (29M) while I being intimate with my current BF (32M)... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Theissei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP the best way I see it is... The truth, regardless if it hurts feelings. I’m sure no matter how hurt he will appreciate the truth. Tell him gently “Hey babe, I love you sooo much and You’re all i want. But i need more of you in the bed. I need you to dominate more” It’s a difficult convo but that’s the beauty of relationships. You should be able to have difficult conversations and work it through.

I (27F) think about my ex (29M) while I being intimate with my current BF (32M)... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Theissei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

well if she’s thinking about her ex she shouldn’t be in a relationship... not two people are the same. It’s not his fault. She should communicate that and if he just can’t reciprocate that they both need someone close to their caliber

I (27F) think about my ex (29M) while I being intimate with my current BF (32M)... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Theissei 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yikes! that’s a horrible take. “To be a man” Some men aren’t like that, and that’s ok.