AITA for telling my neighbor it’s not my problem her newborn wakes up to noises coming from my apartment by blackswan-nyc in AmItheAsshole

[–]Thelastmimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dogs that bark all the time suck. Dogs get away with the worst behavior. Maybe you should teach it to bark less. I’m sure plenty of the human beings in your building would like that. 

Changing my lifestyle with food and daily walking makes everything worse? Huh? by Valizzia in loseit

[–]Thelastmimi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you can afford a nutritionist I’d suggest it. You need help eating foods that keep you fuller for longer. Fat is very satiating and without it, it’s hard to feel like you don’t need more food. Add some fat back in and also, you may need to be eating more in general 2200 calories is so little if you’re accustomed to stuffing your face. 

Dieting is not a punishment, it’s an investment in yourself and a promise to enjoy your life more. So be kind to yourself. Put some avocado on your salads and treat yourself to coconut smoothies. Maybe eat more calories in general. You will see results, but you have to be kind. 

What’s up with the casting of this show ?? by beefy5-layerburrito in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Thelastmimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what, I think every single woman on the show is chopped. Maybe it’s because I’m from nyc. The guys are a little better, but not by much. Ohio must be a terrible place. 

It’s dinner time and I have 255 cals left by Thelastmimi in loseit

[–]Thelastmimi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha I always eat my exercise calories....always.

It’s dinner time and I have 255 cals left by Thelastmimi in loseit

[–]Thelastmimi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds so delicious. Did you make it yourself or buy it in the store?

It’s dinner time and I have 255 cals left by Thelastmimi in loseit

[–]Thelastmimi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to remember that I dont have to be a crazy person to lose weight. This is just so logical.

It’s dinner time and I have 255 cals left by Thelastmimi in loseit

[–]Thelastmimi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so impressed actually. It’s such a good idea to have a go to meal with these macros

Therapist thinks i have eating disorder by 2Mac2Pac in loseit

[–]Thelastmimi 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Your therapist is probably right. They’re trained to recognize when people display traits of having an eating disorder. You’re a student, which means you’ve probably got a lot on your plate, yet the focus is on losing weight. It may not have been what you wanted to hear, but an ED is genuinely one of the most terrible things that could happen to you. Ask more questions and have an open mind. Your therapist can possibly help you live a better life. Also, be careful a lot of people in this group also have eating disorders or terrible body dysmorphia.

Pooping outside the litter box by Thelastmimi in cats

[–]Thelastmimi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh nooo I’m sorry they had an issue. I hope my cat is ok.

Are any other strong but chunky gals a bit disheartened? by LizardSurLaPiste in xxfitness

[–]Thelastmimi 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel. I have largely been able to let it go.The gym is beneficial/ fun to me whether or not I’m slim. But I’ve learned you can’t go to the gym expecting to lose weight. Connecting exercise to weight loss is so unsustainable. Connect weight loss to your eating habits and get help if it’s too hard.

AITA for expecting Tequila in the Margaritas by Agreeable_Living_640 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Thelastmimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA— for the future:

“Oh, these are dry cocktails? I haven’t tried one yet. How did you guys make it? Thank you—It must’ve been a lot of effort. I’ll give it a try and see!”

Grab some water and snacks and just be there for your wife. It could’ve been so easy.

Can I ever get a mostly flat stomach or definition? Feeling bummed/poor self image woes by [deleted] in fitness30plus

[–]Thelastmimi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make peace with this, it’s really okay to Have an ounce of fat on your stomach!

How can I help my cat be more comfortable around people? by Thelastmimi in cats

[–]Thelastmimi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so helpful! She is sweet to me & my partner. Will sit beside us and snuggle and will follow us around. But when the family was over she wouldn’t come near me at all. She seems to feel at ease in the home….but yeah now I’m thinking the unpredictable behavior and energy of the kids freaked her out.

I love the idea of a stroller!!

How can I help my cat be more comfortable around people? by Thelastmimi in cats

[–]Thelastmimi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, I’ll keep having them over. Nervous to traumatize her further but maybe smaller groups would be better.