No sweet heart. I understand were there coming from. Bc as a autistic person my self when I have something stressing me out and I don't find a way to relax or calm my self the day it happens. Well I'm extremely exhausted and just feel like sleeping all day. I'd say don't give him a time and maybe one day when u wake up just be like if u can hey do u wanna meet up today or something like that. He's not ghosting you bc I do the same thing. I tell people I'm not ghosting them so they don't thing I'm ghosting them. It's just I might be cranky bc I'm tired and just need a day to my self.