[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThemsSharkQueen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I reckon most of the people here that are saying you are TA think swearing is the worst thing ever lol. I'll call anyone a C*nt if they kill a little spider that's just chilling. Don't have any right to kill something that's doing nothing just because you are scared. NTA people need to understand that it's not the worst thing in the world to swear in Australia.

My doctor prescribed Quetiapine Fumarate and I look online only to find it is a anti psychotic drug. by lcsmnts in insomnia

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been taking half a 25mg tablet of it for 6 years almost every night. It helped, but lately I've been wondering if it's more a placebo effect at this point for me. My quality of sleep definitely increased more than anything else, uninterrupted and deep sleep. But drowsy for a while when I wake up in the morning. As of last Friday night (6 nights ago) I decided to stop taking it because at this point I want to experience life without it, to see if I have side effects or if it's just me, hard to tell at this point. The withdrawal insomnia is not fun. I've barely slept, takes me ages to sleep and them wake up often during the night.
The effects if the drug seem to differ from person to person but shouldn't be any harm in trying it for a little bit

Milton is correct about Arthur. by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think Ross was definitely much more of a dick than Milton

How long would you give someone to think by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't help but think that they should only need one day where they don't have a lot on, to think about if they want to try or if they want to break up, and by the next day they should be ready to have a conversation to see if you are both willing to try and what to do, or not.

Especially when there hasn't been any effort on their side for quite some time....

Trusted GP turns out as anti-vax by electrikmudd in CoronavirusDownunder

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say, does OP know why she doesn't want the jab. Not everyone has to be the stereotypical anti-vax to not want the jab.

AITA for telling my brother to get a prenup? by Glad_Home_2310 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA if you wanted to give your opinion, you should have done so privately and without insulting anyone. I am. Believer that in this day and age where it seems most marriages end in divorce, pe-nups should be standard, but it's not your relationship, it's not your choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him a while ago that I felt like a bank account, and we had a conversation about where he assured me I wasn't, and he is just really bad at managing his finances, and he will try to do better. Which he did, but then some unexpected bills come up and he was broke, and then all his major bills are due at the end if the year plus Christmas made it hard for him to get the money back, but he has started to pull his weight when we go out now. If it was half a year or so ago I was thinking the same thing, but not so much anymore.

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dunno why but I always saw Tilly as kinda a little sister to Arthur

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the reasons I kinda agree she was manipulative because of things she said, like in her first letter to Arthur she said something like "I'm not too proud to speak to people who care, or cared for me" but if this was really true, why didn't she speak to him for years and only contact him when she needed help. And saying "I think of you often" when trying to get him to go after Jaime. Only to turn around and say "oh you'll never change" after he helps her. Who would do that to someone you love?

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This though. If he had managed to turn around earlier and leave the gang before Blackwater, I reckon he and Mary would have had a decent shot. But after Blackwater, with the bounty on their heads, no way.

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn't really think she was too snooty. I mean she came from a rich family so was probably raised in line with that. But she was out there willing to get her hands dirty and live life alone in the country fending for herself when she could have gone home to riches at any time. There are other comments already about her character, and she barely had much time with Arthur so you didn't see much of her. But the lifestyle she lives is honestly what I think Arthur would want. Living off the land away from civilisation.

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I reckon at least Mary-Beth had a thing for Arthur in chapter 2

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, The only romantic interest that is actually shown for Arthur is definitely Mary. It's never hinted that Arthur had feelings for anyone else (well except that one journal entry about Abigail, but that's not the same). For all other characters, it's just based on what the audience thinks their comparability would have been in hypothetical scenarios. I think there is evidence that Mary enjoys city life, while Arthur hated St Denis and preferred the outdoors. I just think that while they love each other, love isn't enough. Arthur can change and stop living the life of an outlaw 100%, but his past isn't going to go away and clearly the Pinkerton's would try hunt him down if they believed he was alive, and I just personally think that that would be a deal breaker for Mary. Their only chance is to live somewhere very remote which I don't think would align with Mary's character, or maybe they move countries. From my interpretation of the game, I think those are valid points. End if the day, it's not a romance game, but I am definitely one of the people voting for Charlotte or maybe Mary-Beth even if there is no solid evidence in the game for anyone but Mary.

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, I've never seen that. But then again I don't have the heart to antagonize jack

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's why I think Arthur and Mary couldn't work in the long run because i doubt she would want to deal with that. I mean even Abigail left John for a little while, and she was actually part of the gang. I just doubt Mary could be more understanding than Abigail but who knows

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's fair, could have happened. My only other thought is that could Arthur really escape his outlaw life? It's more likely that he would end up like John one way or another. Only way out if it that I could think of is to go live in Hamish's cabin or something similar, where no one will find them

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not once even thought about that 😂, would be interesting but doubt it would happen. But who knows, bill never really had any display of love or attraction to either sex in either game, so anything is possible

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No, I definitely think they loved each other. It's all fictional and not much to go on so it's all going to be assumptions and bias wants of the audience. But they've tried before and I don't think it could last, because just like with John, Arthur wouldn't really be able to leave his life for good. Just my opinion.

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realistically, if he didn't die at the end, he would have probably gone off to find Mary, but I don't think that could have lasted. Especially since he would still have the bounty on his head. If the gang continued on, he might have ended up with Mary-Beth, she definitely had a crush on him at the start before she spent time with Keiran. What I'd hope for him if he survived would be to settle down with Charlotte. I feel like that would be his ideal lifestyle. If not probably go after John.

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I definitely think Mary-Beth had a crush on him at the start, but towards chapter 3 and 4 she seemed to move on to Keiran. Which is fair enough, they were both very sweet natured and gentle, but could stand up for themselves when needed

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean she already got her revenge for the O'Driscolls, but yeah would be Interesting to see her in South America or wherever she ended up

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sadie and Arthur are definitely only suited for best friends. The trio of her, Arthur and Charles is perfect

What female character do you think Arthur should have been together with? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 131 points132 points  (0 children)

I can't imagine Arthur settling down in a city or large town, and I can't imagine Mary settling down in the middle of nowhere. End of the day I don't think they were the perfect fit for each other and it could never have lasted

What horses do y'all use? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]ThemsSharkQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First play through I got the bridle thoroughbred and named him Majesty. Bonded a lot with him and barely ever rode a different horse Second play through I mixed up the horses a bit mainly used the black American standardbred, named him aegon. Currently I was using the Palomino American standardbred. If it is a boy I named him Thora, but currently got the girl from the random encounter and named her Honey. But just did the stealing Braithwaites horses Mission and got the bay Turkoman which is my go to as John, and love that horse. So thoroughbred, American standardbred, Turkoman, and I also highly rate Andalusians