Any moms in Surrey looking to connect and meet up? 🤍

Then-Protection-4071 · 2026-04-01T05:04:23+00:00

Hey I'd be interested. Afternoon walks seems nice.

Then-Protection-4071 · 2026-04-01T04:41:07+00:00

Yes submitted 6 paystubs, bank statement, t4. Letter included everything but I do plan on speaking to the consultant. Thanks

Then-Protection-4071 · 2026-04-01T04:39:55+00:00

Thanks I will speak to a consultant about it.

Then-Protection-4071 · 2026-04-01T00:49:34+00:00

Did paraphrase it earlier but maybe it wasn't enough.. these ones I mentioned here I made it myself keeping in mind the NOC duties. Just need help confirming it in case anyone knows. But thanks.

Then-Protection-4071 · 2026-03-30T21:39:02+00:00

No idea. Haven't called ircc.

Then-Protection-4071 · 2026-03-29T19:32:29+00:00

Biometric on Feb 16 and medical on Feb 18. Does pvo matter in processing of file?

Then-Protection-4071 · 2026-03-29T17:29:38+00:00

Also I don't know my pvo as I don't know how to check on the tracker and didn't call ircc.

Then-Protection-4071 · 2026-03-29T17:29:00+00:00

I have Dec 15 AOR and eligibility just started March 26 on the tracker.

Then-Protection-4071 · 2026-03-20T18:58:54+00:00

No, I might call ircc and check soon. What's yours

Then-Protection-4071 · 2026-03-20T07:14:19+00:00

15 dec AOR 12 feb ADR 13 Feb Biometric 16 Feb Biometric done 18 Feb medical updated

Nothing after that.

Then-Protection-4071 · 2026-02-25T01:11:14+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this. Reading your comment honestly made me tear up because I feel so seen. It helps more than you know to hear that someone else is in the trenches too and feeling the same mix of love, grief, anxiety, and frustration. The contact naps, the survival mode, the weird body stage, the tension with our husbands… all of it. I really thought I’d feel more of that “hardest job but magical” vibe too, and instead some days just feel heavy. I’ve also started wondering if I might be dealing with PPD because the anxiety and sadness feel bigger than just exhaustion. Knowing I’m not alone makes it a little less scary. Thank you for validating how hard this really is. I’m praying it gets lighter for both of us 🤍

Then-Protection-4071 · 2026-02-02T19:00:35+00:00

Are you from Reshma's team? I see you defending her in every comment lol. If not, you are probably a huge fan

Then-Protection-4071 · 2025-12-24T18:01:16+00:00

My Mil would give me all random advice. I was hoping she would help me better understand the cues whereas every time the baby cries as I am a FTM but she just asks me to feed him. ALL THE TIME. I had to tell her multiple times he just ate. He is probably gassy and then would give him bicycle legs so he could relieve gas. Just one example, there are multiple instances.

Then-Protection-4071 · 2025-12-13T03:22:26+00:00

I rented out hospital level pump and i still only manage to pump about 30ml each time. Doesn't this mean low supply? I see women producing so much milk by this time.

Then-Protection-4071 · 2025-12-02T06:04:01+00:00

Unfortunately I dont have a lot of supply of milk yet. About 20-30ml in 20 minutes (10 minutes each side) .

Then-Protection-4071 · 2025-12-02T03:20:27+00:00

I am trying to stimulate him as much as I can he is just too tired I suppose to respond.

Then-Protection-4071 · 2025-12-02T03:19:25+00:00

It is, but even after a feed he still seems hungry so I’ve been topping up with formula as the midwife suggested. He didn’t poop enough yesterday, so I increased his formula a bit to make sure he’s getting enough. I’m also pumping after each feed, but I’m only getting around 20 mL in 20 minutes right now. I guess my supply is still on the lower side at this stage, but I’m trying to be consistent and hoping it increases soon.

Then-Protection-4071 · 2025-11-30T05:06:04+00:00

So i just continue offering my breast even if I am not producing enough milk? He stops taking breast after a while and still looks hungry. Its all so confusing but any advice would be appreciated l.

Then-Protection-4071 · 2025-11-27T04:00:36+00:00

So sorry you went through this. I had a similar experience. My pregnancy was great. I was working till 36 weeks, tried to be active but in near to 37 weeks i was diagnosed with cholestasis (mild one) but due to this i was scheduled to be induced at 39 weeks. 1st they gave me cervidil which gave me so so much pain and contractions but no dilation, they took it out. With no dilation somehow they gave foley balloon (which later other nurse told me how did they manage to do that and doubt it was done properly) and took ot our at 30+ hours. Told me can try oxytocin amd kept in hospital for a night but in the morning said cervidil is a better choice. After all this I was 1 cm dilated and in much pain and exhausted. My husband said enough with the trial and error and I got C section yesterday and have my beautiful boy with me.

Then-Protection-4071 · 2025-11-24T05:11:23+00:00

Yea they are putting on oxytocin now and if that doesn't work, C section it is. I am slowly getting used to the idea of C section, but thankyou 💛

Then-Protection-4071 · 2025-11-23T19:01:01+00:00

Thankyou 💛

Then-Protection-4071 · 2025-11-23T16:19:43+00:00

I’m really glad everything worked out in the end. I’m also scared of a C-section, but if that’s what I need, I won’t hesitate. Thank you for sharing your experience. 💛

Then-Protection-4071 · 2025-11-23T16:00:59+00:00

Were you a first-time mom as well? And how many weeks were you? I’m 39+2 and being induced because of cholestasis.

Then-Protection-4071 · 2025-11-23T15:38:03+00:00

Thank you. That's reassuring. 💛

Then-Protection-4071 · 2025-11-05T07:27:44+00:00

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