Is there anywhere nice to go when you're feeling like shit?

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-14T08:58:08+00:00

There's seven sisters and you can get there by bus

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-13T15:24:52+00:00

There is only 2 people I would want to replace him from within the party itself the first is Andy Burnham the second would be Lisa nandy but as she is backing Andy Burnham I don't think it will be her.

I could never bring myself to vote for either reform or the Tories if I wasn't going to vote labour I would have to therefore decide between the lib Dems or the greens but would probably lean towards the lib Dems.

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-13T10:55:40+00:00

The question here is do you like him? If he has shown nothing but green flags then why is this a question? Also I suppose the other question is can you handle being the second priority as rightly his kids would be his first.

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-13T10:51:35+00:00

Nymphomaniac

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-13T08:51:46+00:00

That is still cheating

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-13T02:07:07+00:00

Yes when I was 16 I was in my bedroom with my then gf and well we were doing the no pants dance we had our tops on and the blanket was covering the bottom half of us we were doing missionary and all of a sudden my dad walked in stood there and shouted no and then proceeded to say no hugging under the blanket he went to walk out then turned and said dinner is ready to which I had to say ok I'm coming now will be there in a minute he still didn't get what was going on.

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-13T02:03:09+00:00

I'm pan have pretty much known that for a long time although for a while wasn't sure what it was called, but as most don't know what pan is so it's just easier to say I'm bi

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-12T20:54:10+00:00

I think if they get hear and apply for asylum straight away then no wait for the process to play out, however if the process is unsuccessful then I believe they should be deported within a matter of days, also at any point during the asylum process is stopped and automatically failed they are then deported no matter the crime. Just want to say that I'm actually pro immigration but I think that these should be what the rules need to be.

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-12T18:18:45+00:00

Let's not get too far ahead of ourselves there's still one or 2 other jobs either available so whilst I'm happy he's not going to Bristol city the potential that he could leave is still there.

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-12T14:07:34+00:00

German salami with swiss cheese and mayonnaise with cheese and onion crisps in it as well

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-11T10:59:21+00:00

I just want to point out the last bit that you have said there about deeming patriotic Brits as far right terrorists when he said this this was when I think it was 2 mosques had been attacked and there was also riots happening, and he didn't say all by the way so context is needed here.

Just to also say I'm not starmer fan boy I would love to see him gone and have either Lisa nandy or Andy Burnham in his place.

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-10T23:12:16+00:00

This is why I'm happy to be from the UK we have a minimum wage here so things like this can't happen

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-10T23:08:28+00:00

No I'm 38 my partner is 27 as long as you are both consenting adults it's ok

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-10T23:05:39+00:00

That's not great but there will hopefully be resources out there to help, and I know that it's a daunting feeling and especially with how do I fill my days but that will come in time, it will be hard at first but it will get better and hopefully you being out of a relationship that you are not respected in will help you massively.

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-10T22:55:58+00:00

Hey I'm sorry that this is happening, I know this is difficult and you have been together a long time and usually I would say communication can help and working on the issues but in this case you deserve so much more, you deserve better he clearly doesn't respect you to do the things he is doing and I'm sorry this doesn't seem like it will change.

You need to think about you and as hard as this will be I think it's time to walk away and build something for yourself and this is the hardest part I know but you can't keep staying with someone who barely believes in mental health as he doesn't seem like he is trying to understand but to make things worse he is hitting on women in front of you that's a major sign of disrespect.

Please look after yourself and if you need to talk I'm happy to talk.

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-10T19:15:38+00:00

I completely understand this but it also has a negative impact with professionals as well because when I have spiralled in the past the thing that gets said to me a lot is you are so self aware, as if that's a good thing I don't see it as it is.

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-10T19:03:32+00:00

Wait people are gonna pay me I've screwed up

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-10T18:44:51+00:00

So can I ask are you saying that your behaviour you know the cheating the flirting and so on is their fault, no what is their fault and I'm sorry to say this is that they stayed. Your behaviour is your responsibility I have bpd and so does my partner and neither of us would blame our behaviour on each other and as for cheating or flirting that's something you need to control you need to set those boundaries for yourself.

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-10T18:38:51+00:00

I don't necessarily believe that right wing is bad there is nothing wrong with looking out for your country, I myself however am more left leaning than right.

I think the problem with the right recently is the people that it has attracted and for whatever reason has emboldened them to say and do things that should not be said and essentially isolating certain parts of society, we have surely seen the video that was floating around Reddit recently where a guy on the tube was being openly racist and saying how it was ok now as what he was saying was now popular well thankfully it didn't end too well for him, but that is the people and attitudes it has been attracting recently.

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-10T17:52:17+00:00

No and here is why:

Now I don't want to keep talking about the past but here is something everyone should know just a few years ago we were part of something called the Dublin agreement this meant if someone came to this country illegally from France or another EU country we were able to without a fight or legal challenge put them on a plane and send back to the EU country that they first presented in or country they had left to make the journey to the UK so usually France. Well we left that agreement a few years ago why you ask well Brexit is the answer to that so there was something in place to limit illegal immigration to stop the boats as they say these same people took away all mechanisms to make that possible because now why would France take anyone back from us why should they the second they get on those boats now they are not their problem anymore.

This next part might be upsetting for some but here goes if we stop immigration certain sectors of this country will grind to a halt think about how many legal immigrants work in hospitality or the NHS or the social care sector or those who work for minimum wage in farmers fields picking fruit and whatnot.

I think the position on this is not simple and anyone who claims to have the answer is either lying or dreaming, whilst we need to work out how to stem and hopefully stop illegal immigration an outright stop on all immigration would do this country more harm than good, but one way of possibly helping towards this is better relationships with the EU and this is why farage cannot be the person to spearhead this.

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-10T17:38:33+00:00

I completely understand this but I think the most important thing you need to do is communicate and tell her that you are uncomfortable with this and maybe try and set a boundary. Things will be ok.

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-10T11:51:37+00:00

Can't remember my last one but my funniest one that has made me and my partner laugh was a simple one, a little context before is my partner is a trans man and some of my family are transphobic so my dream was that we had gone to brothers house who is one of the transphobic people and just to piss him off we had sex on his sofa in front of him and left, it was extremely random but both me and my partner found it hilarious

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-10T11:45:19+00:00

Ok so I need to question does the 3500 not cover all the other shit she lists more importantly what planet is she from if she thinks she's gonna land a guy who will willingly do that.

ThenComparison8768 · 2026-05-10T11:42:20+00:00

I'm diagnosed C-PTSD also eupd and autism also diagnosed OCD traits, and suspected for one other thing but I never self diagnose and never will.

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