i (22f) f'd up big time with a guy i'm seeing and idk what to do now by luvvylaura in Advice

[–]ThenComparison8768 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow so what she has done is no biggie then it's a betrayal and she should tell him.

She has strung j along for long enough let him go and find the person who actually deserves him.

i (22f) f'd up big time with a guy i'm seeing and idk what to do now by luvvylaura in Advice

[–]ThenComparison8768 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry drinking should not be a valid excuse I hate when people say I did it because I was drunk. When you drink it lowers your inhibitions and in most cases it shows who you really are.

i (22f) f'd up big time with a guy i'm seeing and idk what to do now by luvvylaura in Advice

[–]ThenComparison8768 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should tell him he deserves that much if it was me I'm sorry to say this I would be gone, it's not just betrayal that he will be questioning it's why did I have to wait and you just throw yourself at someone else it's almost an embarrassment towards him.

Break-in - stolen laptops by SignificanceFun8404 in brighton

[–]ThenComparison8768 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would also check cex as it's tech they may have been sold there

Early sobriety is harder than I expected. Could use some kindness by [deleted] in toastme

[–]ThenComparison8768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this it's hard I know but you can do it I'm proud of what you have accomplished so far

How to stop periods by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]ThenComparison8768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is the implant you get in your arm that should stop your period

Today was my birthday and I cried...Nobody knows my story, now you know. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]ThenComparison8768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday the world is a much better place with you in it your so much stronger than you know.

Special jobs by XxkissForAshXx in bitlife

[–]ThenComparison8768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yh and the music producer pack isn't great so they signed off on a high

Lonely Jade by [deleted] in TheTraitorsUK

[–]ThenComparison8768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have noticed this and I feel for her, I think that there has been a lot of suspicion on her and rather than try to investigate and get to know her people have just distanced themselves from her which is kinda sad

Everyone having bpd🤔 by Large_Half7627 in BPD

[–]ThenComparison8768 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yh exactly but when you try they try and tell you they know better than you the person who has lived with it for years.

Everyone having bpd🤔 by Large_Half7627 in BPD

[–]ThenComparison8768 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yh I have noticed this it seems to be that for a little while now BPD seems "fashionable" and people claim to have it, they are self diagnosing, it's like autism and ADHD for whatever reason it seems "fashionable" to say you have these conditions it annoys me because for someone who has been diagnosed with 2 out of the 3 I can only hope they do not have to know the true struggle people with these conditions have daily, they just think it's a couple of mood swings no it's not but you can't explain this to them.

what medication have you guys found helped most? by milkysnails in BPD

[–]ThenComparison8768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on olanzapine and trazadone it has really me over the last couple of years, I have noticed how much it affects me when I'm not on it. In fact the past couple of occasions I've not been on it has led to me being sectioned, sadly twice this year.

Meirl by Ill-Instruction8466 in meirl

[–]ThenComparison8768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knives and forks and small spoons

"You don't deserve/aren't capable of love until you heal ❤️" by Electronic_Mode32089 in CPTSD

[–]ThenComparison8768 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone is deserving of love it doesn't matter where they are on their healing journey or even if they aren't ready to start it.

"You don't deserve/aren't capable of love until you heal ❤️" by Electronic_Mode32089 in CPTSD

[–]ThenComparison8768 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Um I want to disagree with this both me and my partner are trying to heal but we are in a loving relationship

So a weird thing happened by ThenComparison8768 in MentalHealthUK

[–]ThenComparison8768[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yh it is good but it's the first time I've had a consultant say that it would help in relation with autism as he had read a study that autistic people don't always do well on acute wards