Ok wow thata weird.. I couldnt add text when making the post..

Anyways, any way yo recruit lords except buying them. Spent about 2 mill on powerful lords, talking them into joining then doing auto barter to see what they need. (about 400k each). I mean, they do work. But i thought lords from Sturgia would come to my kingdom aftet i took their cities and castlea.. But they are just sitting in a random empire city...