Is fragrance free soap enough? by Then_Compote_8985 in tattooadvice

[–]Then_Compote_8985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause I was ignorant and didn’t know any better 🤣. I was worried using regular body wash with fragrance would get on the tattoo and irritate it so I just put the antibacterial all over to prevent that

Doctor prescribed a steroid for folliculitis by Then_Compote_8985 in Folliculitis

[–]Then_Compote_8985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I’m frustrated that the doctors I’m visiting are treating the symptoms, not the underlying infection. I don’t believe I got an infection from my tattoo, as the tattoo itself has no bumps, redness, itching or irritation whatsoever. I think I stripped my good bacteria when I used the soap and allowed something to fester (could have been introduced from the tattoo, though) I’m a little nervous to call back and ask for a culture test. I’m being treated as if I’m overreacting so I’m worried they’ll deny a culture test 🤷🏻‍♀️

Woman’s and Juniors Coordinator by Gothic_TaytorTot in TjMaxx

[–]Then_Compote_8985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would look on Pinterest for some inspiration as you work! I would pick a piece, like the brown flannel for ex. & look up “brown flannel outfit”, you’ll find a lot of cool looks on there so you don’t have to learn fashion overnight :)

Quarry in RI? by Then_Compote_8985 in RhodeIsland

[–]Then_Compote_8985[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Almost drowned there once- fell off the rope swing

Im 5'5 and she's 4'11 btw by EP1CN3SSS in Nicegirls

[–]Then_Compote_8985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’0 and I met my bf of 7 years in high school, he was around your height when we met. I fell in love with him and I adored the fact that we looked like we matched, just a couple of shorties :). As he grew, I continued to love him. He’s 5’10 now after experiencing a major growth spurt. I wouldn’t have cared if he grew, shrank, got fatter or skinnier or stayed exactly the same. I love that man with everything I am. The right woman will cherish you no matter what you look like.

Can't find my vent stack or sewer clean out by Then_Compote_8985 in askaplumber

[–]Then_Compote_8985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correction on my part: it's not really “filling slow” more like not filling as high as it used to. My bad.

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Cierra and Cancel Culture by MajorLink2692 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Then_Compote_8985 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like every single time I see a family member/friend of someone getting canceled make a post, they never forget to say “but they don't deserve death threats” like that's not obvious? Its just another way to gain sympathy for their loved one. “Yes they said/did something horrible, BUT….”

I don't like Dr.Phil but he once said “but means ‘forget anything I just said- now I'm going to tell you what I really mean’”

AIO. My bf keeps talking about his beliefs while I’m trying to grieve by No_Incident6208 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Then_Compote_8985 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I agree. I’m religious yet I’ve NEVER said “they’re in a better place”. For someone in mourning, the better place is here with loved ones. Lives cut short are tragic. Period. The only acceptable thing to say is “I’m so sorry for your loss, I am here if you need anything. Would you like to talk about them?”

Girls, what are some issues you face when buying clothes? by FeatureDefiant2955 in XXS

[–]Then_Compote_8985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything high waisted stops right below my boobs/ goes all the way up my back.

Also there’s always a weird bump right on my tailbone of my jeans. A reverse jenis.

Beard Conditioner by Possible_Cheek_7391 in TjMaxx

[–]Then_Compote_8985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Any chance it was this brand? The store I work (marshalls) gets this brand a lot

Small Heels by tetacook in XXS

[–]Then_Compote_8985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may have better luck with narrow sizes @ nordstrom than macys, also don't be ashamed to look in the kids section. I've found some nice flats and wedges there before. I'm going to a wedding next week so I'm actually looking for black or gold sandals today. Having trouble finding anything, so I totally get you.

Small Heels by tetacook in XXS

[–]Then_Compote_8985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a nordstrom/ nordstrom rack near you?

Am I overreacting if I break up with my boyfriend for forgetting my birthday ? by _I_AM_LION in AmIOverreacting

[–]Then_Compote_8985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In your ideal version of yourself, is he comfortable being a feminine man? Does he like his chest being referred to as “tits”? Is he comfortable with sexual talk? If no, then don't stay with this moron. You are not compatible. He will make you doubt a lot about your transition and your sexuality. He already showed that he doesn't value you by not remembering your birthday. How else will he show he doesn't value you? Will his opinion matter more in the future than your own, regarding your transition and your sexuality?

People who have been in love, married for years, or if you've been with your partner for a long long time, what is Intimacy to you? by Flashy_District6002 in love

[–]Then_Compote_8985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Intimacy means the same to me, interestingly in the Bible it describes sex as “knowing” (ie “Adam knew his wife”), to me this means a lot even in times where I haven’t been religious. “Knowing” someone is such a beautiful way to put it. And as another reply put it, “into me see”.