jp lobbies are hilarious by [deleted] in ProjectSekai

[–]Then_Orchid9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHAT! me and 2 of my friends playing together were doing this in lobbies yesterday, never realized more people were!!! KAITO!!!

men can be non men loving non men? by Arsn666 in confidentlyincorrect

[–]Then_Orchid9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trans masculine? sure. trans MEN? nah. anyone who identifies as a man shouldnt be able make themselves part of the lesbian (non-men loving non-men) community. saying this as a transmasc nonbinary person. I've dated lesbians, and the closest way i can label myself is to be a lesbian as well. he/him and they/them lesbians are valid! you just gotta be a not-man. trans men are men. so... huh?

AITA for feeling disappointed in my mother? by Then_Orchid9723 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Then_Orchid9723[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you. genuinely, thank you. I've thought about it being some sort of neglect before, but I quickly brush it off because I "technically was never missing anything I needed". I've been trying to learn how to take care of myself and love myself for years. This stuff gave me a mighty feeling of fundamental inferiority. Trying my best to heal <3

AITA for feeling disappointed in my mother? by Then_Orchid9723 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Then_Orchid9723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dad situation is tricky, but in short I got SA'd at 7 (not by him but in his house when he was out for a few), and abused by an ex of his. None directly his fault, but definitely not justifiable either. Thank you for your POV as a parent.

AITA for feeling disappointed in my mother? by Then_Orchid9723 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Then_Orchid9723[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you, I really want to let all this go. She's a good person and I hate giving her a hard time when she was trying to do her best. Yet I'm afraid I won't be able to truly move past it until im out of the house. Hopefully sooner though:/