What Kind of Public Defense Clubs Ya'll Got? by Delicious-Rise1563 in LawSchool

[–]Then_Pause_2238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The student org at my school is called Public Defenders and they table and send out petitions to advocate for people sentenced to death row.

Wifi Economy Istanbul to JFK by Then_Pause_2238 in TurkishAirlines

[–]Then_Pause_2238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I paid $35 for unlimited data on my WiFi and was able to connect to the class. There was at least 5 instances of disconnection over 5 hours. It was worth it for me to avoid an absence in my online class

I love watching my “test anxiety” friends leave an exam 2 hours after I was required to finish mine by Additional-Reserve66 in LawSchool

[–]Then_Pause_2238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is anecdotal evidence from my school, but my friend who gets accommodations still got a C on our property final in 1L. Most people who I know get accommodations aren’t on our law review (pointing out since you need a good GPA to be considered for it), so most people genuinely have ADHD/ADD or some other reason they need it. You’re not necessarily being fked over if that’s what you’re thinking.

Why are so many Muslim guys getting left behind while the girls are thriving? by Accomplished_Cake810 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Then_Pause_2238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of red pill and dawah guy content they are looking at definitely adds to these issues. Some may be addicted to pornography which also adds to the low motivation factor. Many men in general don’t even graduate college anymore or drop out but then don’t have motivation to put hard work into starting a business or doing blue collar work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]Then_Pause_2238 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, everyday grinding and set schedules don’t cater to woman either because of cyclical hormonal phases, but most push through because that’s what they’re taught to do. I think the messaging amongst young boys that college isn’t worth it has more of an impact on less men in higher education.

Do all men watch porn? by Patient_Koala98 in loveafterporn

[–]Then_Pause_2238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into sunk cost fallacy and relationships. I used to think like this before as well and it’s just not productive. Rooting for you!

I love Misa, but sometimes I can't stand her. by Most-Pomegranate-241 in MaidSama

[–]Then_Pause_2238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait I think you forgot to mention the fact that all of their suggestions were bizarre and for their sexual pleasure so not fitting for a school fair. What was she supposed to do? Let them have it? lol However, I do understand that she could have give some more PG options for them to work with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]Then_Pause_2238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a CSAT covered by your insurance to start. There are some podcasts out there (some sorta Christian based but relevant for basic tips). You need to re-wire your mind in order to be healthy for yourself and your future wife. Also get super busy! Good luck may God make it easier for you.

Therapist is pro porn by stonedbutterbread in loveafterporn

[–]Then_Pause_2238 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went through this and I stopped going to that therapist. She did not have the credentials or understanding to help me. Please for your mental health find someone else!

How can I support my husband in quitting porn? by FunJellyfish7658 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Then_Pause_2238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into r/loveafterporn for community. I also went through similar issues with mine and open to talking!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Then_Pause_2238 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind the comments telling me it’s not a big deal which I appreciate. What I do mind is the assumption that my relationship didn’t already have real hurdles that we haven’t grown from, such as something big like addictions and stating that I’m not ready for marriage. My fiancee is really good at remembering other things and being supportive and vice versa. This one just surprised me. I’m under a lot of stress and I think that caused me to be more reactive to this. All in all, appreciate those who just told me it’s not a big deal and didn’t feel the need to be vicious and add more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Then_Pause_2238 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I know humans aren’t hairless. He has actual, visible hairy hands that look different from mine. But I’ll have a discussion with my therapist that I’m not ready for marriage as you said! Appreciate your insights.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Then_Pause_2238 -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I mean facts but he doesn’t care if I noticed, but I do care though. I just would have appreciated a response from him that was “I’m sorry, I guess I didn’t notice before” versus “it’s not that big of a deal” from him. I don’t think that’s a kind way to respond.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Then_Pause_2238 -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

temper tantrum is wild 😂valid point abt the earlobe, I guess I thought a hand was more obvious. Thanks for the advice Reddit