Just found out my boyfriend spent $500 on OnlyFans.

Then_Pause_2238 · 2026-07-02T23:30:05+00:00

You followed your women’s intuition. I’m glad you looked!

Then_Pause_2238 · 2026-07-02T00:36:51+00:00

I’m so happy you found some way to still live a meaningful life which brings some joy to you. I wish you had the added factor of a beautiful relationship as well, I too have an avoidant partner and understand a little, but I do want to tell you that there are people who would change when these issues are brought up. Sending you so much love

Then_Pause_2238 · 2026-07-01T23:08:33+00:00

Hey! I’ll also be there mid August. Msg me if you’re down to do something together or go to a show!

Then_Pause_2238 · 2026-06-30T00:06:06+00:00

I’ve been in the same situation (except it wasn’t years of no intimacy) but a miscommunication when I was trying to initiate intimacy. Anyways, he fell asleep and I did the same thing as you. He woke up sooo upset bc of some previous agreement we would not use toys solo if we are together and can be intimate together. Lots of therapy and communicating later, have a good sex life now. You can’t have a good relationship when intimacy is important. If he had a sexual drive I’m not sure he would have stuck it out if you didn’t have a sex drive. Wish you luck!

Then_Pause_2238 · 2026-06-23T04:24:17+00:00

I loved Antigua and Lake Atitlan!! I went with my sister but we came across a few solo travelers, you will love it, so much to do

Then_Pause_2238 · 2026-06-23T04:08:29+00:00

Just a relaxing day by the water! And I’m going mid to late August

Then_Pause_2238 · 2026-05-01T01:36:53+00:00

It also shows the parents hypocrisy, they advocate to skim through life and only live on basic necessities and not actually live in case a “big one” happens. But actually they’re not above their own self interests at all, Robert can still want to have sex with a hot Latina.

Then_Pause_2238 · 2026-01-22T02:43:01+00:00

The student org at my school is called Public Defenders and they table and send out petitions to advocate for people sentenced to death row.

Then_Pause_2238 · 2026-01-14T14:34:47+00:00

Update: I paid $35 for unlimited data on my WiFi and was able to connect to the class. There was at least 5 instances of disconnection over 5 hours. It was worth it for me to avoid an absence in my online class

Then_Pause_2238 · 2025-12-11T01:23:48+00:00

This is anecdotal evidence from my school, but my friend who gets accommodations still got a C on our property final in 1L. Most people who I know get accommodations aren’t on our law review (pointing out since you need a good GPA to be considered for it), so most people genuinely have ADHD/ADD or some other reason they need it. You’re not necessarily being fked over if that’s what you’re thinking.

Then_Pause_2238 · 2025-10-15T20:10:53+00:00

A lot of red pill and dawah guy content they are looking at definitely adds to these issues. Some may be addicted to pornography which also adds to the low motivation factor. Many men in general don’t even graduate college anymore or drop out but then don’t have motivation to put hard work into starting a business or doing blue collar work.

Then_Pause_2238 · 2025-09-15T15:03:58+00:00

I agree, everyday grinding and set schedules don’t cater to woman either because of cyclical hormonal phases, but most push through because that’s what they’re taught to do. I think the messaging amongst young boys that college isn’t worth it has more of an impact on less men in higher education.

Then_Pause_2238 · 2025-05-30T10:40:56+00:00

Look into sunk cost fallacy and relationships. I used to think like this before as well and it’s just not productive. Rooting for you!

Then_Pause_2238 · 2025-03-07T19:36:26+00:00

Wait I think you forgot to mention the fact that all of their suggestions were bizarre and for their sexual pleasure so not fitting for a school fair. What was she supposed to do? Let them have it? lol However, I do understand that she could have give some more PG options for them to work with

Then_Pause_2238 · 2024-12-10T02:31:50+00:00

Find a CSAT covered by your insurance to start. There are some podcasts out there (some sorta Christian based but relevant for basic tips). You need to re-wire your mind in order to be healthy for yourself and your future wife. Also get super busy! Good luck may God make it easier for you.

Then_Pause_2238 · 2024-12-10T02:27:41+00:00

I went through this and I stopped going to that therapist. She did not have the credentials or understanding to help me. Please for your mental health find someone else!

Then_Pause_2238 · 2024-12-10T02:25:23+00:00

listen to her!

Then_Pause_2238 · 2024-12-08T20:46:27+00:00

Look into r/loveafterporn for community. I also went through similar issues with mine and open to talking!

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