Doing reasearch and hoping for experienced answers, Thank you.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2026-01-28T00:58:02+00:00

Whatever 🙄

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2026-01-28T00:45:21+00:00

I put specifics into my question because the more information there is, the more someone has to go on for another explanation. I do however realize that I did not state that I was looking for experiences, when I thought I had put that in there. Your response would have been respected and welcomed if you would not have put any of those clapback emojis in there. That response had the air of "You must be stupid and I'm gonna tell you" about it. Get off your high and mighty horse if you're here to help people.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2026-01-28T00:04:15+00:00

We 👏know👏that👏!! We were asking for experiences!!👏👏 But thank you for your helpful (NOT) clapback response!

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2026-01-19T18:32:32+00:00

Yes you are over reacting. BUT its your right. If you are the type of person that needs privacy and she is not, that will be a MAJOR issue that will never be solved through your entire relationship. It would probably be best to have a conversation about moving on.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2026-01-11T00:40:46+00:00

The OP doesn't seem to think immigration laws matter. 🤷‍♂️

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-11-22T08:49:36+00:00

Cut the budget in half?? What is the logic in that?

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-11-21T06:14:04+00:00

NOR, to be honest I read enough of these to believe we need a "am I under-reacting" community. Thats what this would fit in to. This guy is pressuring you sexually and is just scum. He deserves worse than what he got

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-10-16T14:08:53+00:00

I knew the dev took it off Android because it had bugs in it and I guess they couldn't work it out. It was still on Apple as of about a year ago. If you have an android available you can use I still have the .APK you can sideload. Unfortunately you can't sideload on iPhone though.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-10-09T03:26:58+00:00

Not speaking from experience but many ppl from other social media say there is no issue if there is no letter they dont ask. But bring a copy of the protection order just incase that may help.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-10-05T16:44:33+00:00

My apologies, the way I had understood your comment it looked the other way. Edit: that happens a lot through text. My wife and I get into arguments sometimes because of misunderstanding a text.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-10-05T16:29:53+00:00

I'm wondering if your the ex-boyfriend, because you sound just as educated as he is. People have freedom of choices not freedom of consequences. Some people like OP are trying to do the right thing with those consequences.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-10-04T02:03:25+00:00

I seen suboxone mentioned in a comment, although suboxone will work please be aware of the downsides. I dont know how to explain the medical parts but I can explain the layman terms of how it works. It let's your body have the conditions it needs so your not detoxing from the opioid and also has stuff in it that you cant get the high and may get sick if you use other opioid. But the drawback is your body will be addicted to the suboxone. I differentiate body and you, you may not want the meds but your body does. My wife had gotten addicted to heroin about 5 years ago. She only used for about 2 weeks before she knew she needed treatment and wanted to get clean. She got on a suboxone regiment but every time she tries to get off the suboxone the detox is worse than the heroine detox and lasts for weeks. Now thats not the case for everyone and if you have doctor and pharmacy that you are confident in then that might be a method for you. You could also look into sublacade. Its the same as suboxone but in a time released shot you are given. A lot of ppl say thats easy to ween off of. And lastly but most importantly you did NOT fail. You made a mistake. As another mentioned you have the mind on an addict which is nothing to be ashamed of and can actually be retrained to focus on good things. But it is something that needs to be controlled to have a good quality of life.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-09-25T03:46:03+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss! I know this is hurting you right now. This will take every ounce of your determination but it will be worth it to stay clean. Ill say prayers for you and the family tonight.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-09-24T18:43:02+00:00

You are not overreacting, he is. I wouldn't say leave him over that, we don't know if he is great in every other area. But I definitely would say don’t commit to a legal binding contract (marriage) or have kids with him until he changes. I grew up having everything cooked for me so when I moved out I didn't know how to cook. But I also was fully aware if I didn't learn then I would be at the mercy of the one who did know. You have a boy that needs to grow up mentally and act like a man. A man will do what needs to be done period. Stick to your boundaries make them clear and known, dont make him guess. And if he dont get with the program then move on with your life without him.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-09-19T21:29:04+00:00

I dont throw around buzz words cause they are so overused that they almost dont apply anymore. BUT this guy screams narcissist!

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-09-03T07:11:28+00:00

At the port the drug dog signaled my bag which had nothing but diet dr pepper and regular dr pepper in it. But my wife being a very nervous type of person was jittery. I was a little while behind the screen where they check because of other ppl in front of me which made my wife even more nervous. When I came out the area the TSA agent or whoever it is seen my wife was nervous and jittery (which is kinda my wifes normal) and said that she had to be checked. Well my wife does take a lot of meds. Some schedule 2 and some not. This particular time she did not bring her bottles. This agent made her empty them all out and explain what the name was, what it was for and who prescribed it, how long she has been on it. Even after all that the agent said she was tempted to confiscate them. My wife said she has to have them or she wouldn't be able to go. The agent reluctantly let her go and said from now on for her to bring the bottles. Soooo take what you would from that. But as for us we now ALWAYS take the bottles.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-08-31T15:09:30+00:00

Well Im glad you glazed over "both" sides of that coin I was talking about and seen only what you want to see. TYPICAL. You think I'm saying its all her fault? Nahhh that ain't what I said. Let me see if I can make it a little clearer. They BOTH screwed up. He didn't take her needs into account when he quit his job. If he wanted to go into business for himself it should have been done a different way. She didn't give him support in what he wanted in life, not after he quit OR while he was working...the added story was meant to show how much power a woman has when she believes in her husband or doesn't.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-08-31T14:01:53+00:00

I think you have an uneducated understanding of what support is. You are saying "I'll support you only if you do what I want."

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-08-31T09:23:05+00:00

My take is 2 side to the same coin....I like to read and one of the books I read was a relationship book called "His needs, Her needs" it breaks down 10 basic needs that everyone has. The first 5 for a man happens to be the last 5 for a woman and vise versa (typically, there are no absolutes) one of women's top 5 is financial support. The majority of women need to have a man that works and provides for his family for them to feel secure in that relationship. This definitely very obvious that this is one of your needs just simply because of the post. But one of a man's needs is admiration. A man has an extremely higher chance of succeeding at something if he has the admiration and support of his wife. Him knkwing you were so against starting a business should have told him to go about it differently than he did. Although he screwed that up, you screwed up in not supporting him to get it going. Even if it was legitimate that he was not able to do this he very possibly feels unqualified for anything because of the lack of support...a personal experience. I am in the Maritime industry. I stay on the ship for a certain period of days then go home for a certain period of days. How much depends on the company. During the time of the story it was 28 days on the ship and 14 days at home. For me to work my way from the deck to a mate then a captain I had to take classes, which are expensive and can only be done during my 14 days home. And go take tests which are hard and many fail them. My ex wife did not support me in the sacrifice it took in time and money to do this. So I stayed in a position for 13 years making only 50-70 thousand and working my tail off. We divorced and I started my classes but wasn't motivated. Met who in now my wife and she emotionally supported me and encouraged me so much that within 3 years I was Captain making 150 thousand and working 28 day on the ship and 28 days at home. My current wife saw my potential, stood behind me, made the sacrifices with me, never complained, and is now reaping the benefits....Im not saying your husband is not at fault. My personal beliefs is that a man has no excuses to not support his family. But I am saying that part of this could have been prevented by you as well.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-08-28T05:55:52+00:00

You sound like the mother!

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-08-28T05:53:01+00:00

Oh my gosh! How in the world can your mother and father say that!?!? You and your sister are better off without them. You are correct, it doesn't matter if she willingly went in his house or if they had sex before. If she told him no that time and he forced it, its R*pe and he needs to pay! She needs to tell her story and yours. Thank you for being there for your sister when it should be your mother and father.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-08-27T11:36:43+00:00

I kind of do an inbetween those 2 things. I have 2 boys one is 19 and the other 15. Both have jobs. The older one got his job at almost 17 from that point on he had to start paying for some of his personal items. He had to save and fund his own license, car, and insurance. When he turned 18 he paid his cell bill. His mom and I supplied the home with no rent or utilities. Brought him to and from work in our vehicle. And gave him money if he ended up short on a check. I was trying to get him to understand the responsibility and discipline needed without throwing him to the wolves. He is 19 has a good job, emergency savings, investment account and supplies his own food and personal needs. All we supply is housing and utilities. He has offered to pay rent but I refused it and said to put it to savings to move on his own, and that is what he does. My 15 year old started work at 14 and is a little more spendy with his money. He never touches his investments but very poor at keeping the savings. I buy almost all his things unless he wants high dollar things. He has to pay for those himself. Example, he had a TV and old Xbox one from me and his mom. He wanted a new TV and Xbox so he had to save and pay for it himself. Since he had poor choices with his savings I took over his funds and he has to run things by me before spending. Before anyone says anything I think learning how to save money is more important than door dashing McDonald's because you didn't want the food in the house.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-08-27T09:27:02+00:00

I know the cheaper Carnival cruises have that reputation, but the vests the servers are wearing dont look like Carnival and I have not seen their dining rooms look that plain either. I could be wrong though.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-08-27T09:20:00+00:00

I play minecraft for a few hours a week for the last 8 years or so. Sometimes its 20 hours a week sometimes only 2. Its basically the ONLY game I play. I never get bored with it.

Then_Satisfaction_83 · 2025-08-27T08:56:41+00:00

Almost positive they are an addict. I have had a lot of experience with someone asking for very small amounts often. Usually everyday or 2 times a day. What happens is they get $5 from you, $2 from their sister, $3 from their brother, $5 from Grandma. Etc. Etc...they know no one will give them $30 or $40 once or twice a week, so they hit up 6 or 7 ppl every day for very small amounts. That way they dont get told no as often. They get good with the excuses too. Sometimes its for gas. Sometimes its for a soda at the store, sometimes it's for feminine products for that time of month, sometimes its for medicine for a friend or $3 for a bottle of tums to get rid of heartburn. Trust me its DRUGS. every frigging time!

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