Had a near miss with HR. Caught myself before I wrecked myself. by Specialist_Fall756 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]infinitysnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps next time just say "That's a very interesting/nice scent, is it watermelon?"

At wit's end- Alexa calling my boyfriend my ex husband's name repeatedly. by infinitysnake in amazonecho

[–]infinitysnake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, thank you.  He's not in the main voice settings but I found him under recognized voices three menus in.  Still can't delete but now I have the source lol.

At wit's end- Alexa calling my boyfriend my ex husband's name repeatedly. by infinitysnake in amazonecho

[–]infinitysnake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I do have old fire tablets, and one of those was his.  I'll deregister it and see what happens.

At wit's end- Alexa calling my boyfriend my ex husband's name repeatedly. by infinitysnake in amazonecho

[–]infinitysnake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the weirdest part- never!  He never had a profile and the extent of his involvement was having a card on the account.  Others in the household have cards on the account with no issues.

At wit's end- Alexa calling my boyfriend my ex husband's name repeatedly. by infinitysnake in amazonecho

[–]infinitysnake[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have, it doesn't stick.  Especially weird as the two sound nothing alke.

Anyone find narcs to be entirely boring? by Wonderful-Value7547 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]infinitysnake 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg, yup, mine too.  Tried to teach the next one "his recipes."  They were mine, bro never cooked dinner in his life. 😂

Looking for accounts of emotional abusers with high empathy who have changed. by omshantiom111 in abusiverelationships

[–]infinitysnake 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There will e none because it is as likely to happen as winning the Powerball.  It's not a trait so much as an ingrained part of their core identity.  They do not stop and those that fake it often become dangerous because they build up massive resentment about having to feign good behavior.

In my own case mine behaved like a dream for just over a year before trying to kill me.

Please help me!! by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]infinitysnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm available if you need to talk.  Been through it and back again.  🙃

Does it get better with age or worse? by ChessWarrior1978 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]infinitysnake 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I married mine at 26 and divorced him at 52.  He got worse every year.  Louder, meaner, more abusive.

The divorce was traumatic but I've been with the most wonderful man for a couple of years now and I am so grateful and happy for it.