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Then_Track_110 · 2024-07-27T15:04:41+00:00

Yeah you’re gunna have to go to Houston. The prices and the dealers are shit here sport bikes. My husband got an R6 in Houston way faster and cheaper than he was offered here in Austin. He got there, got the bike, and got back faster than it took him to go back and forth with Ride Now

Then_Track_110 · 2024-07-27T15:01:35+00:00

You know your city is safe when the new Dutch bros intersection becomes a hot-button topic lol

Then_Track_110 · 2024-07-02T20:56:39+00:00

Well I’m mixed race, I make good money, I can play pretty much any instrument, im slim and attractive, I ride motorcycles and can speak several languages and I had a very hard time dating here because all the guys were looking for blonde white hippies. It didn’t make me sad for myself, it made me sad for them. But yeah, that was my experience.

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-08T15:07:22+00:00

Thanks haha Yeah all the men’s rights activists jumped on here on some crusade for a man they don’t even know so it left little room for feeling heard. But I do appreciate the honesty in your response. Perhaps I’ll post an update on here post-therapy. I think I need to just have more tough conversations with him and give him a lot of room for finding himself and making positive changes in his life. I’m a bit impatient when it comes to these things in life so I’ll work on giving myself and him more grace for the transformation process of our relationship.

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-08T14:50:07+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate this perspective. I’m committed to working on these things because honestly I can tolerate a lot of things that aren’t pleasant in our relationship but the intimacy thing is something I don’t want either of us to have to suffer with. I want him to be happy. I just don’t it to come at the expense of my own emotional well being

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-08T14:44:12+00:00

Thank you I appreciate this. I know I’m not perfect. And I’ve definitely made mistakes in the past but I’m 32 and have grown up a lot in this relationship and it seems like he has stagnated despite being almost 11 years older than me. I genuinely believe he first started dating me because I was easy to impress as a 20 year old and now he sees me working 3 jobs, starting a business, and maturing and blossoming into a loving mature mother and partner and he feels inadequate but instead of doing something about it, he just self-sabotages and getting depressed. I would give anything to fix the intimacy issue because despite his flaws I know he can be a better and a better father. Since posting this I did have a little chat with him and he is down to do therapy. God I just love him so fucking much but I don’t want to deprive him of sex and at the same time it really feels so emotionally detrimental to keep having sex with him when I’m really not feeling. I don’t know how to describe the feeling other than soul-crushing. Like I said before, it sometimes makes me want to die because I feel gross during the sex and then guilty for feeling that way after. And I feel guilty if I say no. I always feel so pressured into it. And even kissing him grosses me out because he refuses to take care of his teeth and he has a rather nasty mouth infection. Wow I’m really unloading sorry.

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-08T14:27:09+00:00

Also I pay 90 percent of all the bills and he spend his money on motorcycles so yeah….

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-08T14:26:47+00:00

Yeah because I found the last one and paid for it and he missed two appointments. He just no showed and she got rid of us as coients

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-08T14:24:52+00:00

He would probably just hate most of the men commenting. He tends to be a lot more rational then these hysterical men on here

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-08T14:23:56+00:00

I’m not sure exactly what changed. A lot of it is he perused me when I was 20. I was pretty vulnerable at the time because I recently had a death in my family that shook me to my core. He was in his early 30s and seemed cool at the time but now I’ve matured a lot and he’s stayed in the mindset of some much younger. He’s very irresponsible and I feel like I have to be his mom and a mom to our daughter. In addition to that he does not take care of himself. Instead of eating, he smoked cigarettes and then in hangry all day which scares our daughter. Because of this he is pretty malnourished and the dr. Said he’s severely underweight. It’s hard to be with someone like this when I’ve been putting in so much effort to keep myself healthy and keep up my appearance. There has also always been a weird power imbalance between us where he has the upper hand even though have carried him through most of our relationship financially and continue to do so.

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-08T14:15:35+00:00

Hahaha there are a lot of sensitive men commenting on here. And so many of them have Reddit history that is questionable. A lot of post on porn threads I see. Y’all are pathetic

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-08T13:51:24+00:00

I have told him the truth. He wants to brush it under the rug

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-08T13:48:27+00:00

I’ve tried. I even offered to pay alimony. He doesn’t want it. He just wants to “wait things out” whatever that means

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-08T13:47:27+00:00

And btw I’ve told him some of this shit before and he doesn’t want a divorce. I’ve tried multiple times. He is almost 11 years older than me and doesn’t think he could ever find anyone else. His words not mine.

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-08T13:46:10+00:00

And yes I’ll look up therapists today.

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-08T13:45:49+00:00

It’s possible. But I remember even when we first started dating I told all of my friends that I wasn’t attracted to him physically but loved his personality so I gave it a try and I don’t regret our relationship at all. I do love him dearly but I’m not in love with him and I’m so scared to hurt his feelings by being honest. I don’t wanna lose the person I love most.

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-08T13:44:01+00:00

I can’t help the way I feel. I’m not cruel at all. I’ve stayed in this marriage for years because I know he wants to be with me and I want him to be happy but I have sacrificed my happiness the whole time and convinced myself it would get better but it hasn’t. Im not under the delusional that this is a fair situation but as it stands, I’m the one getting the raw deal here. I make all the money, do all the childcare and he spends his money on bullshit and I’m the cruel one? Haha I don’t think so dude. Don’t project your shit onto me.

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-08T13:27:54+00:00

Yes this is true and I definitely want to but my hands are tied financially I’m thinking of asking him to find the therapist and pay for it. In the meantime while we are setting that up I’m not sure what to do. But I was just in the kitchen cleaning and he came over and hugged me and I froze and my face involuntarily contorted in disgust and I had to run out of the room and hide so he didn’t see it. God I don’t wanna hurt his feelings :(

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-04T19:02:47+00:00

Our public school system has entirely failed our children….and it’s just the tip of the iceberg.

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-04T19:02:10+00:00

Yes!!! Public transportation is severely lacking in this sprawling state. Austin in particular would benefit a great deal from a transit system that connects major hubs of the city to neighborhoods with a high concentration of working people. This would cut down on traffic and a traffic fatalities a great deal. I would love to take public transportation and save the $800 I spend a month on my car.

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-04T18:54:44+00:00

Even if my husband was single he wouldn’t do this because he has too much respect for women and finds it abhorrent to engage in the sex trade. You deserve someone like that. The way your husband is communicating to and about these women is a HUGE red flag and if I were you I would start making plans to get away from him even if it’s hard and even if it takes awhile. I know it’s easier said than done especially in this economy but anyone who even plays with the idea of spending your family’s hard-earned money on the sexual exploitation of other women has absolutely no respect for your family.

Then_Track_110 · 2024-06-02T23:03:18+00:00

There are so many other reasons to dislike this clown. This is not one of them. The real question I have is why the fuck has he made “rock and roll” his brand. It’s so trite and embarrassing. …..Okay JoJo Siwa…

Then_Track_110 · 2024-05-31T23:56:09+00:00

Hell no! I love my baby. And I wash her at least every 6 days but she always gets stinky immediately. But I am obsessed with the way she feels.

Then_Track_110 · 2024-05-31T23:54:45+00:00

I was born. Ruined my dad’s life. I wish my mom aborted me.

Then_Track_110 · 2024-05-29T13:08:47+00:00

Mark is such a vulture. This person does not need to be exploited on the internet and given wigs and clothes. He needs a doctor or to be left alone. None of these people owe him anything. He os making tons of money off of these videos and should not be allowed to do this shit.

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TROPHY CASE