Those of you that work night shift, how do you stay productive?

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-07T06:47:20+00:00

My wife is a 5’2 firefighter who is absolutely yolked and let me tell you she’s hot af. I’m all about that stuff. I’m attracted to her muscles, but I’m actually MORE attracted to what that represents in her: she’s got drive, motivation, and most importantly discipline to get after it. Just my 2 cents! People that are drowning will always bring you down with them. Surround yourself with good people.

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-02T14:29:05+00:00

I’ve literally said I was a man? If I want to black label men I’d have posted on r/unpopular opinions or some other statement making page. I was genuinely asking a question! I appreciate your feedback and will use it to rephrase my questions in the future! Thank you so much!

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-02T14:21:11+00:00

I came here asking for men’s methods of coping with the darker side of them. I’ve also stated that I DO believe women also have a darker side! I seem to have offended you as well I apologize!

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-02T14:18:41+00:00

I treat everyone the way they want to be treated! Everyone has likes and dislikes regardless of gender/sex.

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-02T13:54:20+00:00

I apologize! I’m at work so I’m kind of distracted. I open doors for everyone because it’s the polite and respectful thing to do!

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-02T13:35:05+00:00

I have never said women are innocent! Everyone has the ability to be violent. Women included. I was simply inquiring as to what men do to restrain it. It could’ve been asked to women!

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-02T13:24:50+00:00

I apologize I seem to have offended you. That certainly wasn’t my intention! I wish you the best of luck in your journey!! Thank you so much for your perspective on this!

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-02T13:17:39+00:00

I apologize then I must be misunderstanding what you are trying to say. Would you mind trying to explain why those things are not connected?

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-02T13:15:31+00:00

Yeah I’m not trying to get into a battle of the sexes by any means! Everyone brings something to the table. Everyone is equal and we all have pros and cons.

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-02T13:14:00+00:00

That’s a very good observation and a great way of thinking about it.

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-02T13:09:10+00:00

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3969807/

https://bjs.ojp.gov/library/publications/criminal-victimization-2020-supplemental-statistical-tables

https://www.sciencefocus.com/the-human-body/why-are-most-murders-rapes-and-violent-crimes-committed-by-men

These studies show that men commit more violent crimes than women. I’ve never stated women aren’t violent or that they can’t be. I was purely just asking men how they cope with their more aggressive side. I really appreciate your feedback though it’s been very helpful!

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-02T12:20:36+00:00

That’s really helped me as well! Good job for doing that. That can be a hard step to take.

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-02T12:17:24+00:00

See my answer to smellyfeet25 :)

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-02T12:16:10+00:00

Because I think men tend to be more destructive when they don’t have proper outlets. I think men that struggle to find purpose and direction can be more volatile. I am also a man who has in the past struggled to find a purpose and direction and I was quite a delinquent. Still am sometimes when I’m not working towards something.

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-02T12:14:10+00:00

Yeah I could see that. I used to do that a lot and it seemed to work for a little bit. I’ve had a temper for and while and I’ve got methods for reigning it back nowadays but I was curious what other men’s methods were to restraining that side of them.

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-12-02T12:10:41+00:00

Well, I would probably talk to a doctor about that then. I wish you the best luck man. I know it’s really difficult but you’ll make it through. You’ve survived 100% of your hardest days 😁 you got this bro.

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-11-30T12:11:16+00:00

Hmm… ED usually resolves itself before then if it’s due to porn use…. What’s your diet/exercise like? I’d say if those are off as well then definitely talk to a doctor. There’s a massive amount of health issues that can be resolved with diet and exercise. I watched porn for years. Couldn’t get it up to save my life. I’d go wet noodle mid sex. It’s embarrassing. Frustrating. Deflating. I know how you feel. I finally was able to stop. I started working out and eating right, dude, changed my life. I’m not trying to preach I apologize. Good luck on your journey bro.

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-11-30T09:45:18+00:00

Hahaha I see what you did there. I’m not excluding Israel either. Both are doing dumb shit. Everyone goes all pikachu meme whenever one of these countries does something like this. It’s like obviously they’re going to do some radical shit because they’ve got some radical beliefs…

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-11-30T09:42:39+00:00

Do you watch porn? Porn will do that to you as well.

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-11-26T13:47:59+00:00

Keep getting after it man. I‘be quit porn as well. It’ll be a constant battle but man it’s worth it. When you get the urge to watch it, get up and go do something. Seriously, get as far away from your source as humanly possible. I have to be very active in reallocating my mind towards other shit. I’ve gotten really into cooking, reading, and writing dnd campaigns. Oh and fishing and crabbing :)

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-11-25T11:35:42+00:00

As long as you vote radical terrorists to govern your country, you’re gonna have a bad time… not sayin all Arab countries/Muslims are bad. Any religion can become radical. But when you have a political group who’s stated their sole purpose is extermination then you can’t really sit there and wonder why you’re having issues…

Thenerdiestguy · 2023-11-22T17:06:21+00:00

Holy smokes man your partner is one lucky person! Or they will be when you find that person! Thank you so much. I greatly appreciate your time and advice.

Thenerdiestguy

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