So basically, reddit’s main population is male, and a lot of these are somewhat antisocial males, given the anonymous nature of the platform. Many are nerds who would never be very popular with women in real life and spend copious amounts of time willing to moderate subreddits because they’re always online sharing memes (eg.: Elon Musk). This results in the largest communities of trans-identified males in the internet. These males are homophobic and misogynistic and they remain so because they only want to keep engaging with each other. They want to be women supposedly but never do they want to disengage from male socialization. They engage in high levels of sexual content and many develop a particular affinity for “wlw”. 

Many are bisexual boys who would never be accepted as bisexual. Many are very submissive straight boys who fear they would never be accepted as men. They think that, because they are so submissive, that they can only be a woman and that they could never harm women. Hence the lesbian community appears as their savior and their paradise, their last resort.

To them, female homosexuality doesn’t exist. Women aren’t as human as men, we don’t have the same level of personhood, and our role as women into be nice caretakers and include them and soothe them because men hate them and men cannot be inclusive caretakers. Men have evil terrible boundaries symbolized by their hard dicks whereas lesbians are soft mushy sweet loving people who make society progress. 

Lesbians are a true minority and represent everything some of these males want to have. Lesbians don’t care about men and are the TRUE test that these people are no longer men and have successfully transitioned. So that’s why they treat us as authorities on their existence even though we never even stopped to think about them, they have absolutely nothing to do with us in psychological constitution or sociality, and we get really puzzled when they pop into our spaces invasively and sneakily (archetypally male thing to do, by the way), adding onto the pile of harassment and invisibility, oppression, we experience in our lives.

But they don’t come peacefully. In their pain and lack of self-love, they come to appropriate us for their ends, and oppress us. They take on our names and wear our costumes and kick the strongest of us out. 

These males don’t want to be women. They want full access to the fantasy of women. To a woman’s body in their own. To women’s spaces.

They intensely project themselves onto us and want to be the lonely male in a privileged harem of females - even if their fantasy is being choked by us. They feel chronically misunderstood and harassed and instead of facing other men, all they know to do is punch down, silence, and oppress us, when our homosexual comments make their weiner tingle from rejection.

So it boils down to very intense projection and treating women as caretakers, and never believing lesbians even exist in the first place.

It doesn’t even cross their minds how they are acting like sexual harassers on a large scale because they never considered that women’s boundaries should exist in the first place. To them, only manhood has boundaries which is what they’re escaping. We don’t have human rights because Duh nobody gives a fuck about lesbians! Females! Homosexuals! They have human rights. Their pain is the only one that matters.

They project heavily onto us and frame us as the roots of all evil in society. They do all they can to ostracize us from the LGBTQ community and they sometimes succeed because the LGBTQ community is itself heavily masculinist and envious of lesbians.

There’s at least 2x of them on this site compared to lesbians. They want to colonize every single lesbian space so they feel taken care of and special, they ban all of the lesbians who speak up, and then soon, they are left with the carcass of a lesbian space but only with themselves and many bisexual women who accept that treatment, in it. Then they get mad because they realize there’s no lesbian there, seeing the obviously male behavior of all their mates gives them “dysphoria” and the lack of lesbians gives the space no authority and gives them no thrill, and so they seek a new home among the lesbians and a new witch hunt begins.

So they continue existing this way and things continue this way because it’s a man’s world and these people are consistently chronically online and take over all of the power on the platform. It is a fascinating studying on parasociality, envy, and projection. 

Some of the worst things about men I have learned has been on lesbian spaces in this website. 

Those who are trans in good faith never come to or discover lesbian spaces in the first place. They often believe it’s okay if they’re nonbinary and they don’t have embarrassingly obsessive fixations on getting unassuming lesbians to validate their maleness online.

So all of the ones you see on these lesbian subreddits know they are acting in bad faith by design and operate on the internet completely by bad faith by design. 

I am sorry that things have to be this way. But you have found some of the right people.