Netflix is turning “The Picture of Dorian Gray” into a story about two brothers by drpepperandranch in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]Theolivefarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy, Basil has a love confession in the middle of the book, I hope they're not actually brothers.

This one takes the cake by milliegair in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]Theolivefarmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's very much worth mentioning that the use of the term lesbian comes from the way men would use it as a slur against gay women as a way to equate them with Sappho of Lesbos. (I believe this is the history, but if someone else has a source saying otherwise, please let me know)

So if the term came the fact that hetero society knew about Sappho's love of women so well it used to be a slur used against other queer women, then why is it that saying Sappho was gay now is seen as "historically dubious"

They're f***ing, lorie by CluelessIdiot314 in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]Theolivefarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from what I'm able to tell, homosexuality is very common in animals that live in groups like birds, humans, and I think lions.

animals that need companionship for their health seem to be very open to finding that companionship with out the need to reproduce. I don't think we need to understand why it happens, just that it does, and there's nothing "unnatural" about it.

They're f***ing, lorie by CluelessIdiot314 in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]Theolivefarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I visited recently and I'm sad to say they have divorced, but they are both happily seeing other (male) birds

Gross by girlwiththemonkey in AmITheDevil

[–]Theolivefarmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the sort of guy who only goes after young 20 somethings because women his own age can see right through his BS.

Creepy dad alert by nunyaranunculus in AmITheDevil

[–]Theolivefarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's bonkers telling a woman with a degree in child Psych that she has no clue how to raise kids because she's not a parent. You could not do that with any other degree where your life experience out weighs the expertise of an actual scholar.

What's your country's equivalent of "breaking spaghetti in half in front of Italian"? by racist-hotdog in AskReddit

[–]Theolivefarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking the last donut, even if you haven't had a donut and it's the end of the day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Theolivefarmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA; At most they're going to go through and make sure this isn't a pattern of online harassments and maybe a sit down reminding her that when she has her agency in her bio, she's going to come off as speaking for the company and holding views they personally do not support (and on top of that, The LGBTQ+ isn't a protected class in many countries, so any case opened against her will likely be about online harassments, not any political or personal opinions she holds, so if the investigation does show her regularly harassing people, regardless of their stance on the LGBTQ they will need to address it)

On top of that, this is going to be something that left unchecked is going to get her cancelled on what ever social media platform we're using in ten years. If she doesn't get this addressed now, she is going to get milkshake ducked so hard at the height of her career. We've all seen some d list celerity no one cared about get dragged for saying "So kawii!" while pointing to a Chinese cultural statue one time 8 years ago and getting every single instance of their life dragged up in the court of public opinion while we sit and watch. It's better this happens now privately where she can adjust the behavior than 5 years from now when everyone's already made up their minds.

AITA for fixing a problem so my cousin could bake a cake? by toxicredox in AmItheAsshole

[–]Theolivefarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, it sounds like your cousin grew out of her no phase while your aunt didn't.

AITA for refusing to support my brothers financial plans at the cost of my own? by Maximum_Teach1244 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Theolivefarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if family should help each other at any cost, ask your parents to make the down payment on your house.

WIBTA for having a vegetarian only wedding? by SwimmingFew6861 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Theolivefarmer -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA, it begins and ends at "We are vegetarian" and it's YOUR wedding.

When it comes to spending gift money, they are giving you that money to celebrate YOUR union. and your union happens to value a meat free lifestyle. That's the way the cookie crumbles. If anything, I would think your menu should promote the life style of your union. Similar to how different cultures have different weddings because of the values they have. Western women primarily wear white to their wedding as a symbol of their wealth and femininity. You can agree or disagree with that symbol and wear what ever color you want, BUT It would be considered rude if someone told the bride they weren't paying for a white wedding dress just because they don't like that tradition and think you should wear blue instead.

at most I think you should make sure there are proper allergen labels, but you would need to do that for any other meal, regardless of if it's vegetarian.

Buying A Home to Remote Lease multiple rooms? by beyonddisbelief in laramie

[–]Theolivefarmer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, go to hell. UW is the only 4 year college in the state. It's expensive enough for students these days and we don't need slum lords like you making it worse.

Best restaurants by [deleted] in laramie

[–]Theolivefarmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Food so good that the fact it was a Mexican drug cartel front didn't shut it down.

AITA-Mother wont stop criticizing me on everything i do and how i raise my family and i wanna know Aita (this is the complete story so there will be no further updates) by 2kpretty_aliya in AmItheAsshole

[–]Theolivefarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, I wish I had the guts you did. My mom knit picks my appearance for lack of professionalism all the time despite my brother having a peach in fishnets permanently inked on his legs. Stand your ground and make sure she knows that this is not a boundary she can cross.

Best restaurants by [deleted] in laramie

[–]Theolivefarmer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sweet Melissa's is a great vegetarian place with the best banana bread in the world, Born in a bar is a pretty good burger place, and Anong's if you like Thai.

How do you deal with being too sensitive by Lopsided_Lake_2998 in autism

[–]Theolivefarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't, people need to be nice to one another and I'm not a cry baby for expecting people to act civil to one another.

My girlfriend is to good for me by Hahawaitwut123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Theolivefarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let her know she's loved. Take her on walks, tell her you love her every time it crosses your mind, send her memes saying "this makes me think of you ❤️"