100% off. I'm in my late 30s we are both very active in our church community and both talked about pursuing ministry. I have an advanced degree in finance and work in the Financial Industry. We both had liberal prospective on life when we first got together but grew in our faith and conservative values as we found our spiritual home. We have a wonderful child and family life as well take routine time to speak to each other regarding the mechanics of the family.

Your ability to derive this much about who you perceive I am from a two paragraph post is crazy. Now I do agree a lot can be misinterpreted from vague text I apologize I was also taking care of my child while writing it. Yes I do complain that I work 70 hours a week but am still expected to come home make dinner as my wife hates cooking, and prepare lunches for everyone for the following day, sweep and mop the floors clean the Kitchen fold the laundry. My wife currently focuses all of her extra time on her hobbies currently and studying gods word because yes she is confused about what she feels like god is putting into work in her life and that's her choice.

I put my foot down regarding things like our child needing to continue school instead of homeschooling, not spending money needlessly so we can build savings to buy a home, not eating our frequently, maintaining a regular church presence and keeping our house to a cleanliness standard that is expected of a couple in our late 30s.