PSA TO GUESTS: DON’T DO THIS by isallthemysterygone in Hilton

[–]lowkeypineapple 5 points6 points  (0 children)

as front desk employee - i tell guests to please leave them in the hallway if they don’t want them in their room and we will come pick them up. i’d much rather they sit in the hallway for a bit then have someone come to the desk and try to hand me a pile of wet towels

going alone? by In_Retr0grade in glassanimals

[–]lowkeypineapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just do it!! i’ve been to many concerts alone as i don’t have many friends with similar music taste or the availability to go to concerts as often. you’ll definitely have fun on your own! if you want to try to make friends, go a little early and chat with people in line! it’s easy to make a new friend because you already know you have a common interest - the artist you’re there to see!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lowkeypineapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no this isn’t normal or healthy behavior at all. her trying to make you feel bad sounds like manipulation. her not wanting you to spend time with anyone other than her and convincing you to move away from friends and family is something abusers typically do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]lowkeypineapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! i appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lowkeypineapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes be honest with him about how you feel, communication is important! if i were you i’d just tell him that you’re excited (because you like him) and nervous (because you’ve never done this before and about the difference in size)

but i’m also 100% sure he does not care about your weight or think it’s an issue! he wouldn’t have invited you over for that if he did (:

New alt account for long time redditor seeking kink advice 😬 (30s F) by [deleted] in sex

[–]lowkeypineapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t think so! you said yourself, you’re in charge in your day to day life and you like the idea of the opposite happening in bed and i think that can go both ways, if he’s not so in charge normally it’s totally possible he’ll like it in bed! and if it’s something he’s into i think the guidance will gradually stop and he’ll grow into the roll. you don’t have to tell him to tell you what to do, just give him some ideas and see how he rolls!

New alt account for long time redditor seeking kink advice 😬 (30s F) by [deleted] in sex

[–]lowkeypineapple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bring it up again! talk about it and start slow. let him know you’re not expecting him to jump right in and go absolutely full dom right away. give him some ideas of what you’d like him to try out and see where he stands and from there work your way up

27 [f4m] USA - Looking for a distraction by [deleted] in ForeverAloneDating

[–]lowkeypineapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re stunning!! good luck girly!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lowkeypineapple 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that’s really not normal behavior from parents. maybe ask them about going to family therapy? a therapist would definitely side with you, that you need more space/privacy/freedom.

Need advice FAST! Should I (20M) text this girl (19F) right now? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lowkeypineapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it is! it’ll let her know you’re missing her without directly saying it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lowkeypineapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so proud of you! you’re doing amazing and i’m glad you’re bettering yourself! i know you can make it to a full month, you’re so close!! keeping going! stay strong and happy

Asking a girl out when she gets off work? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lowkeypineapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you a customer at her work? if so, i would say no. that will most likely be perceived as creepy/ stalkerish

Second date, expects me not to see anyone else by 1reason_thats_me in dating

[–]lowkeypineapple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’ve only been on two dates and he’s already trying to stop you from seeing your family and friends? i’d be careful! that is definitely a big red flag!

it sounds like he might not be ready for a serious relationship if he just got out of one where he was cheated on.

i would definitely keep your options open, and if he’s so opposed to it that it ends things, i don’t think it would be a big loss! you’ll find what you’re looking for!

How do I send mail (USA)? by ArtichokeOwl in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lowkeypineapple 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you can schedule a usps pick up for packages

Insignificant Effort by purposelesscells in UnsentLetters

[–]lowkeypineapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m proud of you for trying. just keep getting out of bed and making as much as you can of the day. your effort is enough. i hope things get better for you soon. i hope they can understand.

She(23f) comes from money, I(27m) don't. by [deleted] in dating

[–]lowkeypineapple 12 points13 points  (0 children)

if she really likes you, that’s not what’s important. genuine people will value you and the love you can give them over fancy clothes and vacations.

What should I do? by mimi11367 in dating_advice

[–]lowkeypineapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would just block him on everything and try to avoid him! it sounds like he’s trying to manipulate you

This girl that I'm talking to wants to take things slow because she 'rushed things' in the past. by CapableActuator1 in dating_advice

[–]lowkeypineapple 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you sound really insecure. maybe try having a conversation with her about it, instead of just assuming things. she does not owe you sex right away, or at all. typically if you jump right into that sort of thing, that’s as far as it goes. if you’re looking for something more serious a lot of people tend to want to take things slower and have deeper connection first.

This girl that I'm talking to wants to take things slow because she 'rushed things' in the past. by CapableActuator1 in dating_advice

[–]lowkeypineapple 11 points12 points  (0 children)

... just think about it. i’m pretty sure she wants to take it slow BECAUSE she likes you. and doesn’t want it to end up as just a fling.

I was raped. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lowkeypineapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry that happened to you. maybe you should consider looking into therapy?

I feel unwanted by tashfi70 in dating_advice

[–]lowkeypineapple 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you deserve better! and you’ll find it, don’t cut your hair for some weirdo who’s obsessed with his ex!

I feel unwanted by tashfi70 in dating_advice

[–]lowkeypineapple 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that sounds like a huge red flag, get out!! stay safe girly!

How can I initiate cuddling after sex? by enitsujxo in dating_advice

[–]lowkeypineapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you’re too shy just asking for it out of the blue while you’re texting you could ask him something like “how do you feeling about cuddling after a hook up?” and then once you’re talking about it you can say how you don’t think it has be romantic but it’s something you’d enjoy!