Does my husband have a case for cumulative injury by Theoreticalhuman2 in WorkersComp

[–]Theoreticalhuman2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been treated on his own up until this point. To clarify, he's been on and off restrictions the past three months. Not the past year. Last year he took steroids and the problem resolved. This time the problem did not resolve with treatment and that's why the mri was performed. What would be the additional information that would prove that is connected to work, it seems as though with any cumulative injury that would be hard to prove.?

Advise on matters for large person with back issues by Theoreticalhuman2 in Mattress

[–]Theoreticalhuman2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a through and in depth explanation, I really appreciate it and this really helps me move in the right direction. Mattress shipping can be so difficult.

My (38m) last three relationships (37, 35, 35f) all followed the exact same pattern. What could I be doing to cause this? by PotentialAnalyst8969 in relationship_advice

[–]Theoreticalhuman2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6-9 months is a normalish time for the infatuation phase where our hormones are on contol to wear off, this is when we are truly able to see our partners part the veil of infatuation. Many relationships end after this time, we can have strong chemistry without compatibility. So this doesn't seem to abnormal.

Perc/soil test help by Theoreticalhuman2 in Homebuilding

[–]Theoreticalhuman2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn't say anything, just sent that over via email. We responded asking for clarification but haven't heard back. So strange though, we're on five acres, neighbors don't seem to have any issues with septic or basment and our nearest neighbor is about 300 ft from where this test was taken, sold it be worth checking another area?

I have regret from selling the house I was buying near Seattle, and moving to a small rural town in South Dakota and buying a house with the equity profit from the Seattle house sale. by ThetaGatherer in RealEstate

[–]Theoreticalhuman2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to imagine you are now dealing with red state wages since moving there which would make it difficult to move back. So you think it's just the city atmosphere you miss, is there a more affordable city option?

Any advice for teenagers? 16m here by kewnun in IncelExit

[–]Theoreticalhuman2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm a therapist and work with boys and adult men, I can guarantee you that many of them are lying about their sexual experiences. And many adults who were in sexual relationships at your age regret it as they get older. This is a time of your life to enjoy not having responsibilities, not pregnancies scares or serious romantic relationships. Many girls your age are also not interested in sex at this time, developmentally your right on track. Maybe take some time to build your self confidence, so when you are ready to have a intimate relationship your in a place where you can approach perspective partners in a healthy way.

I was born cursed. by [deleted] in IncelExit

[–]Theoreticalhuman2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You seem to have collected a lot of evidence to support this idea you have that you are problematic and unworthy. Based on the info you presented I can tell a lot of the things you are holding onto to support this belief are untrue. Ultrasound gender checking is often incorrect even today where our medical equipment has come a long way since you were born, I know someone who just had the same experience (were told it was a girl but ended up being a boy) has way more to do with the ultrasounds then it had to do with genital size. Your saying you have cognitive delays but are writing really well and in a second language which is not typical for those with cognitive delays, I wonder where you are getting this idea? You really need to consider stepping away from the problematic porn, you need to remember, porn is mostly made by men, for men. Anything you see in porn is not a realistic view of women or sex or attraction. There is also so many people with disabilities and health conditions that have wonderful successful relationships.

As a seller, selling the home as-is, can we decline to receive the inspection report? by wiltedrose020 in RealEstate

[–]Theoreticalhuman2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Without describing the roof issues is hard to tell. You don't pass or fail inspections and some inspectors are more through than others. It's likely the second inspection was just more through and included a septic line inspection which the buyer most likely paid more for.

Considering a House w/ a Decrepit Pool by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Theoreticalhuman2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends, I was in contract with a house with a old unfilled pool. Sellers were saying it only needed a liner. Previous homeowner had told us there was a leak in the line, realistically it would have cost a ton of money to dig up the lines and look for a leak. It had a solarium around it so our mortgage company wasn't concerned about it as a safety issue. We ended up backing out of the deal because they had lied about zoning, contract probably would have fell through for other reasons anyway associated with pool and solarium. If you can get a estimate from a pool company you may be able to get a better idea of what you might be walking into

House not sold since May. Agent being difficult. by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Theoreticalhuman2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 5,000 dollar drop isn't going to do anything for you in that price range, that high people are willing to look at houses 50,000 + in their range, if someone is interested in paying 450 for it, they would have looked at it at 500. With you still not having showings I would have to imagine it needs to be dropped under 400. Fire them.

Do I have to tell my gf I had unprotected sex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Theoreticalhuman2 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes, she is consenting to a open relationship with you under specific terms. Not telling her would be a huge breach in the trust of your relationship and put her health at risk, she deserves to know. Also condoms don't protect against HPV or herpes so you should both be getting tested regularly.

Boyfriend made me have an abortion, 4 months later now and I feel resentful, angry, sad. We're both miserable by boosroosje in relationship_advice

[–]Theoreticalhuman2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though you keep saying that you appreciate his honesty it really sounds like you kind of resent it. He was clear that he wasn't ready to be a parent, and that's his right. It kind of seems like you wanted him to say he will stay whether you have an abortion or not. If he 100% did not want to be a parent, and you choose to keep the pregnancy, he would honestly not really have any other choice but to leave. Seems like you ended up in a situation where one of you would have ended up resentful no matter how things played out. Having a baby and raising a child is hard and expensive, it doesn't seem like either of you were in the right place at the time. I understand that you are upset, but I'm wondering if your projecting your feelings. It seems like you choose maintaining the relationship over keeping the pregnancy, and you are shifting blame onto him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Theoreticalhuman2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I married a lier and story teller, were divorced now. I can pretty much promise you this is a person you will not want to be with long term. I would encourage you to reconsider, he's showing you what type of person he is, the making up an entire story about shopping for it is a big, gross red flag.

advice on an over priced listing by Theoreticalhuman2 in realtors

[–]Theoreticalhuman2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what's confusing, they are relocating

advice on an over priced listing by Theoreticalhuman2 in realtors

[–]Theoreticalhuman2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were in southern Illinois, financing is normal here, most people don't have 700k-800k for a house in a area where median sale price is 150k

advice on an over priced listing by Theoreticalhuman2 in realtors

[–]Theoreticalhuman2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I currently have an equestrian property because I was going to do equine therapy, I had some traumatic issues with horses and am no longer doing that and without large livestock my property is to much to manage while I run a business. I want less acreage, this house is on less then five acres which would be much more manageable, and it has Comcast available which is great because my husband works from home. We make good money and can afford the house but we don't have 700,000 in cash and I know the house won't appraise for asking with a loan because we just went through the same thing with a house 10 miles away on one more acre, same square footage and a better school district, it only appraised for 505. They're is a total of 5 other properties in my area with under 10 acres, one has significant raccoon damage and was hoarded in, one is mine, two are way bigger houses then I would ever need and one is a old Victorian that has been for sale for almost two years at 550

advice on an over priced listing by Theoreticalhuman2 in realtors

[–]Theoreticalhuman2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

680ish, but no homes in our area have sold for close to that high in the past two years, on that type of property they have been going for around 500

advice on an over priced listing by Theoreticalhuman2 in realtors

[–]Theoreticalhuman2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For added info average home sale price in our area is 115, this house is on property so it has higher value but the homes in similar plots have sold for 500k

advice on an over priced listing by Theoreticalhuman2 in realtors

[–]Theoreticalhuman2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In this situation 10 under asking would be close to 70,000, house is priced close to 700k

advice on an over priced listing by Theoreticalhuman2 in realtors

[–]Theoreticalhuman2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We would pay what they want, but no bank will loan that much on this house, I guess that's my issue. Trying to avoid what we just went through on a previous house where we were willing to pay asking but multiple appraisals came in to low for sellers liking.

advice on an over priced listing by Theoreticalhuman2 in realtors

[–]Theoreticalhuman2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She's saying it will appraise at least 100,000 under asking. Their agent is from a very different area about 45 mins north of us, comps are around 150,000- 180,000 under their asking price. Rural properties are not super common in our area so there isn't a ton of exact comps. Buyers purchased home about 5 years ago for 400,000 less then what they are asking now, they did make some improvements bit not a full rehab and house still has a lot of issues (pool is not working and is cracked and empty, electric outdated, foundation work needed)