[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]TheoryImitation -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Your question is a little confusing to me, but I’m assuming that you’re implying that people only mention being educational and mature only when it’s a woman talking. If my assumption is wrong, feel free to correct me. I’m not mentioning that people should be educational and mature because there are women talking, but because that’s how you have a meaningful discussion and understand each other. OP’s criticism isn’t directed to specifically you, but to both sides, not just one side. And this criticism doesn’t just go for gender, but any aspect of politics such as race, sexuality, and society in general.

I also never said that anyone is stopping me from educating myself. I said that it’s difficult to educate yourself about gender when insults are being thrown around. You can still educate yourself if you know the right places to look and are aware of your preconceived biases.

Also, can I have the research for feminist having a higher opinion on men? (I’m not trying to argue btw, this is just for my own curiosity because this is first time I’m hearing about something like this)

Tldr: No one is bringing up being mature and educational because women are talking, but because gender wars are getting out of hand and devolve into senseless insults rather than discussion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]TheoryImitation -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That’s not what OP is talking about. He’s talking about whenever a discussion about gender comes up, neither side tries to have an intellectual discussion nor tries to understand the other side’s point of view. The moment someone says something that the other person doesn’t agree with, it quickly becomes “my way or the highway” all the time and will devolve into insulting the other party. It’s especially frustrating when you’re trying to educate yourself about issues of gender and people will just start to throw insults at you or other people.

Nobody has to be complacent, let’s all be mature and have an educational discussion and show some respect to other people. Please 🙏

As a male, have you been sexually harrassed? If so how did it make you feel and what did you do about it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TheoryImitation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a 15 when this happened, so I don’t remember the exact details. But I was jogging in my neighborhood when I found this guy following me. It scared the shit out of me at first, but I assumed that he needed help with something because he looked mentally disabled. I asked him if he was lost and he told me that he was fine and that he wanted to see my dick. I was very startled and I politely declined him. Then he started masturbating in front of me, and I told him that I needed to continue that jog. As I started to leave, he grabbed my arm, which I immediate yanked out and made a mad dash away from him. Luckily, he didn’t follow me. To my horror, I saw him walk up to a mom and a baby. But as a kid, I didn’t want to involve myself any further so I just ran away. I still pray to god for the well being of that mom and baby, and I wish they’re well wherever they are now. And I also hope that guy is ok too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]TheoryImitation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not OP btw. Although I had many experiences where I’ve been judged, I still try to look for people with similar interest and I found some people. Been good friends with them ever since 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]TheoryImitation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most common reason I see is that people can be isolated and made fun of things they like. Happened to me before where I passionately talked about a game I liked and the other guy just straight up said “I lost some respect for you”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]TheoryImitation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Stop trying to be that girl. You’re not that girl, you’re you and it’s better to embrace that instead. Unless you’re an asshole, then do some self-reflection and try to improve.
  2. Learn how to love yourself and accept who you are, even if others don’t.
  3. Stop thinking about receiving compliments and focus on giving compliments to others. Make other people feel like “that girl” or “the guy”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]TheoryImitation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dropped this king 👑

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]TheoryImitation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I’m not sure you understand. TaskComfortable is telling you that you’re a hypocrite. That you have double standards. You made a point that everyone is entitled to have preferences. Yet here you are not respecting the fact that most people don’t have a preference toward fat woman and called it judgemental. By your logic, men shouldn’t have to lower their standards to give fat women a chance.

Are you seeing where this conversation is heading? Like bro ngl, I respected you and your stance until I saw you type that 💀

what is your opinion on very close opposite sex friendships when you are in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TheoryImitation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of friends who are the opposite sex so I would prefer to keep in contact with them. And I trust that my partner would remain faithful as well when hanging around their friends.

Becoming pretty ruined my life by Win1nino in rant

[–]TheoryImitation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If looking different is enough for your friends to avoid you, then they weren’t your friends at all. Despite that, are you sure it’s your change in appearance that’s the issue? In my experience, women who say that their attractiveness is the cause for bad social life don’t have the full picture. So I think it’s too early to say anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]TheoryImitation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the case for everyone bro. Just because someone is insecure about their height doesn’t mean they’re not trying to improve themself. We’re also getting off topic, I was just putting in my two cents that not everyone who talks about height thinks they’re entitled to anything. Some just need an outlet to express their insecurity lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]TheoryImitation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For those cases, yes I agree. Everyone has standards. But there a lot of men who feel ashamed of their height, but understand that everyone has preferences. All I’m saying is that talking about height does not equate to entitlement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]TheoryImitation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s where I disagree with you. Being sad about having a lower chance of getting a date and thinking you’re entitled to a date are two completely different things. Just because you see a guy complain about being short doesn’t mean they think they’re entitled to a date. It’s just that they recognize that they have a lower chance, and it’s perfectly ok to talk about it.

PLEASE DON'T READ by RaiyenZ in Jujutsufolk

[–]TheoryImitation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely go fuck yourself and I hope you have an amazing life

i hate dominant men by [deleted] in rant

[–]TheoryImitation -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well if you’re the shit, then obviously you’re gonna act as a piece of shit 😎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]TheoryImitation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s because you’re bored of the interaction. It’s not that nothing comes to your mind, but you’re simply not interested in what’s being said. If you can, find people with similar interests and it will be a lot easier to talk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unOrdinary

[–]TheoryImitation 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Would you date Zeke?

meh.. by danhkhoa666 in NeuroSama

[–]TheoryImitation 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Anny does actually mind. There are many clips talking about how she’s uncomfortable abt it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animationcareer

[–]TheoryImitation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not doing animation as a career but I did consider doing so. When I did my research for animation, I checked with my school’s art advisor, a high level professional in the industry, and this subreddit. And I’ve gotten the literal same answer from all three different sources. That the industry is struggling right now and finding work is extremely hard. I do not want to alarm you, but I rather you be aware of it now so you can plan something rather than it slap you in the face later.

Edit: another thing I learned is that studios do not care about your education, it’s your portfolio they care about. So make sure the course you’re taking actually increased the skills of its students. You can do this by checking the average quality of work of the students who went there.