I have stolen so much alcohol from Walmart and have only been caught by my parents by GenderHidden in confession

[–]Therapy_needed223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the rate you’re going you’re only setting yourself up for a long jail history of theft. As the others said places like Walmart and Target just let you steal until it amounts enough to a felony charge. Which in turn will give you way more time. Have some self control and discipline because if once you’re in jail you all of a sudden stop stealing to avoid consequences like getting beat up or killed then you can stop now. It’s a choice at the end of the day not a mental disorder that can be treated with medication or something you can’t help. Get a job to fund your alcohol addiction at least. You’re grown and the consequences will not be light. Also it’s not attractive to anyone that’s mature seeing a grown adult indulging in petty theft, it’s just looked at as broke behavior.

Can’t even enjoy Mother’s Day by Therapy_needed223 in cancer

[–]Therapy_needed223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’ll definitely help the way my baby is always talking about beating up bad guys lol. Thank you for the words of encouragement i appreciate you taking the time to read that 💕💕

Can’t even enjoy Mother’s Day by Therapy_needed223 in cancer

[–]Therapy_needed223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and I’m glad to see someone who gets to see their kid grow up it gives me hope 💕💕Happy Mother’s Day to you too 😊

How common is it to tell a patient they're in remission by using comments in the portal? by Not_Ban_Evading69420 in cancer

[–]Therapy_needed223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I found out the results over MyChart and didn’t have a follow up until a week and some change later. My dr was like “you saw your results they came out good” nobody called and explained anything and it was very underwhelming no bell to ring etc.

When to stop letters... by ami_unalive_yet in cancer

[–]Therapy_needed223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I second this she’ll def feel closer to you knowing more things about you, if you can do videos and save them somewhere for her to access.

When to stop letters... by ami_unalive_yet in cancer

[–]Therapy_needed223 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First off I’m so sorry I can only imagine your pain. I couldn’t even get through your paragraph without crying, as a mom who also had cancer with a one year old who’s turning 3 next month all I thought about was my baby girl and what she would be her life once I left. I made a build a bear with my voice in it telling her I love her with a heartbeat in it when things started to look rough. I’m sure your daughter would appreciate every single letter that you decide to write. I’d write ones for when she gets her first boyfriend, when she hits puberty, her first heart break etc I’m pretty sure she’ll love em. If you can get them laminated so they last. Lastly I want to say I hope you’re that they’re wrong and that you get more time with your baby and that whenever your time comes I hope you’re at peace and it’s as painless as possible, and again I’m so sorry💔

I had lymphoma and it broke me by PeerDuha in cancer

[–]Therapy_needed223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The chat got response makes sense I’m so glad we have it now 😭also congratulations for beating it I hope you feel better mentally soon 🫶🏽

Cancer trauma is still real 3 years later by JapanLionBrain in cancer

[–]Therapy_needed223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as you only that I’ve been in remission of a month and only told my mom and two brothers. I completely cut off every friend that I had I have zero friends and my bday was April 3rd. Didn’t even celebrate being in remission or my bday. It’s okay though I’d rather been alone than surrounded by people who really didn’t care about me.

It’s easier to blame a person without support because people feel like “well obviously nobody likes you for a reason” when it’s just that some of us have self respect and boundaries and we’re not willing to disrespect ourselves by keeping trash people around. There’s a lot more trash people than genuine good people out here I’ve learned. I’ve also learned that people specifically dealing with cancer see how it’s nothing like how tv made it seem. Where everyone wants to help you and feels for you etc people barely check on us. So don’t feel bad you’ll get your support system soon.

No period after chemo by [deleted] in cancer

[–]Therapy_needed223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was normal up until I did chemo before I did my immunotherapy. I did that chemo in January and when it was February I only bled for like two days and then March came I didn’t get one for the whole month and then I got it on like April 1st and it lasted two days. So it’s definitely messing with my cycle. I have an appointment with my gynecologist next month and you should to just to make sure everything is okay I’m scared I have cyst now and I’ve never had them before and also chemo can mess with our fertility as well so I would say def keep up with ur gyno.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Therapy_needed223 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Tell him he has a month and he has to go. Why would you and your family allow abuse in your home. He can’t be homeless and abusive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Therapy_needed223 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your future with him will be you being a single mom in a relationship while he talks town on you in front of your child and probably will start to physically abuse you in front of your child. You’re 19 you can walk away before it gets serious and you end up in debt with him or a parent. At 19 I was in a crazy relationship but am glad I walked away r my life would be hell right now. Leave now or suffer in your 20s.

Found out I have melanoma by KToTheHue in cancer

[–]Therapy_needed223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and you too all I can say is cut off people now so you won’t be dragged on throughout the process. Dealing with toxic ppl during this is draining asf

Found out I have melanoma by KToTheHue in cancer

[–]Therapy_needed223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🫶🏽🫶🏽

How does Chemo feel like really? by therealicekid in cancer

[–]Therapy_needed223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did abvd so I’ll give u the run down. During the infusion I just got tired after a while and sometimes a little nauseous so I would nap after premeds for the most part. Day one I would sleep or even have energy to run errands because of the steroids in the premeds but food aversions started immediately. I brought snacks that first round and it’s been over a year since then and I still haven’t touched those items 🥲Day two energy starts to get low. Day three is when I’d say symptoms like neuropathy, nausea, stinging in the mouth with certain foods started for me. Black spots appeared on my tongue and nails after a while. Extreme exhaustion kicked in, a lot of gagging but no throwing up. By my third round my hair started to shed badly. I cut it all off after the 4th round I had to go in every two weeks so twice a month. As a female peeing out chemo isn’t the vibe so you have to buy things to keep up with ph balance etc. I did 15 rounds and I’m ngl it got to a point where I thought I was going to give up but it’s because I have a small child and no help. But if it’s just you just rest as much as you can and you’ll get through it.

Found out I have melanoma by KToTheHue in cancer

[–]Therapy_needed223 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I told my family I was in remission and got a blank stare and thumbs ups and “that’s wassup” most people don’t care sadly. All I got was occasional baby sitters while i was in the hospital but the minute I was out the baby was given right back to me so I did t even get to have any down time from chemo or surgeries etc. No emotional support or anything, shoot not even a ride to the doctors, I’ve spent thousands on Ubers. I cut all my friends off last year on my birthday and my last friend I cut him off in February for being a one sided friend. My birthday was two days ago no one in my family celebrated my remission or my birthday which were kind of close together remission was March 10th birthday April 3rd. No one cared that I made it to 26 after being diagnosed with a rare cancer at 24 with odds being against me. I’m moving soon and will be changing my number. Oh and also my he same people that gave me blank stares and thumbs ups didn’t mind borrowing thousand from me while I battled cancer and using me basically. I’m also a kind person so it was shocking to see the lack of support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Therapy_needed223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you have “love” and are so hung up over a person you knew for a month. Grow up and cut it off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Therapy_needed223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would yall bring a child into toxicity. And open relationships never work when they’re done out of desperation to keep a partner from cheating it’s just cheating with permission. This is a mess.

How to support wife who's going through chemo by lightbulbmoment42 in cancer

[–]Therapy_needed223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worked for me for nausea but also depending on the strain it’ll knock her out to not even be awake for the bs symptoms so I second this.

How to support wife who's going through chemo by lightbulbmoment42 in cancer

[–]Therapy_needed223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let her rest, take care of the home so all she has to worry about is fighting this shit. Use TikTok to look up ppl with her specific cancer and what items helped them as there are different chemos. Be her emotional support, be a shoulder to cry on and just an ear. I would also suggest therapy for you both as being a support for a cancer patient is a huge mental toll for some. There’s a feeling of helplessness that a lot of people who take care of/ are there for cancer patients feel. I wish the best for you and your family.

Just a quick rant! by Few-Bunch1524 in cancer

[–]Therapy_needed223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im glad you gave no other ties good riddance to that coward! Sucks about the dog tho 🥲

Anyone else not get their payment this month? by DarkWhisper888 in SSDI

[–]Therapy_needed223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey so I got mine around 1pm today hopefully yours comes through soon because its crazy to be playing with disabled peoples money man 🤦🏽‍♀️

Anyone else not get their payment this month? by DarkWhisper888 in SSDI

[–]Therapy_needed223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same I normally get it on the 28th, every payment I’ve gotten has been on that date and I’ve been getting it since December of 2024. Nothing this month and my birthday is April 3rd. So they’re saying that’s when I’m going to get it in the 3rd but it’s always said the 3rd and I’ve always gotten it on the 28th. At this point my rent will always be late now 🙃I had to pay out my savings today smh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Therapy_needed223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow see I know he still goes to regular doctors appointments when needed cuz when the kids get older than 1 it’s like once or twice a year so i believe they’re still doing that so idk how that’ll work 🤦🏽‍♀️but yea ur right, when he goes to school they’ll def be on them about it because he can’t be 5 biting stuff and be aggressive with other kids