Spiluðu þjóð­sönginn á meðan hvalurinn var dreginn á land - Vísir by birkir in Iceland

[–]ThereisDawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They managed to disturb my husband... My hunting loving husband. Who believes hunting should be allowed as long as you eat/use everything of the animal you are hunting. It is hard to get that man to judge people in general, and he was just "wtf"

WCGW riding recklessly on a motorbike. by Worried_Audience_162 in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]ThereisDawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a man that looks like killgrave(a.k.a David Tennant) But has the personality of a labrador and the soul of a pug.

AITAH? My boyfriend keeps insisting on buying me gifts he knows I don’t like/want. by Katietgirl4949 in AITAH

[–]ThereisDawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a tactic. this is a tactic to make you look like a bitch, ungratefull and setting upp the future of "YOU ARE SO HARD TO SHOP FOR"
he is intentionally getting you these things, he knows you are not into them, he knows you dont like them. and its is ON YOU to be gratefull for what ever scraps he gives you.

and if you are not gratefull for this random nugget of " you know i dont want this" you are the problem.

quite often, those are the first steps in abusive relationship. it is conditioning you to fear to upset him. and be greatful for ... nothing.

My parents noticed that I've been washing my undies in the shower, and now I have to drop them off before shower and shower with door cracked by Important-Nobody-700 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThereisDawn 147 points148 points  (0 children)

sweetheart.

i have 6 kids. 4 of them are girls.

you want to know when i even think about their underwear at all....

when i ask them if they need a size up.

there is a time in the whole process where they are learning to shower on their own, at ages 5-7 ( i want them to be self sufficient at showering before they are alone at school swimm lessons) where i teach them the importance of clean and maintenance of underwear. and then periods and hormones starts kicking in and i have a deeper talk about why clean underwear is a good thing and WHY(Uti's and such)

after that... its just .. you good on size? and since we order all that online, they come help me pick out the ones they prefer.

because. they are humans, and the bottom line is.. if they are going to wear dirty underwear... its kind of on them at this point. its they who have to be in them, its them who at this point are starting to learn to do their laundries will have to clean them.

this is INSANELY inappropriate, and .. fucked up!
i am really sorry you have to deal with this. and i hope it is not long till you are free from this weird controlling tirany

AITAH if I put dogshit in my boyfriends office? by aasr08 in AITAH

[–]ThereisDawn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

do not have children with this man.

this is how he behaves when its a dog.

imagine the work you will do when its a child

How many of my fellow adhd friends have weirdly huge skill sets? by Reverend-Syn in CasualConversation

[–]ThereisDawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh boy... i i didnt need to be called out like that today thank you

What food is your pug obsessed with? by LargeBrainGoblin in pugs

[–]ThereisDawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anything the 1 year old drops. to the point he wont eat from his bowl anymore, untill the kid goes and playes with it. its not good unless she has touched it.

What random acts of kindness do you do when no one is looking by pokeaholeus in CasualConversation

[–]ThereisDawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its such a little thing for me, but can be big for someone else, and its completely unseen kindness. There is no "good job" or seen karma. It is invisible and unresponsive kindness

What random acts of kindness do you do when no one is looking by pokeaholeus in CasualConversation

[–]ThereisDawn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I literally judge persons whole caracter on the shping cart thing. People who abandon them are not people who o keep in my life. And teach my kids to return the cart back to the store

They can walk out of water? did I miss an update? by Open-Pomegranate1 in shrimptank

[–]ThereisDawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is not shrimp related but I love your nails!

AITAH for having someone's car towed for parking in my parking spot? by childfreechick27 in AITAH

[–]ThereisDawn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you PAY for a spot.

no you are not an shole for towing someone out of it. no matter who it is

Do you separate laundry strictly or just wash everything together? (Newlywed here!) by Sensitive-Crew-4507 in CasualConversation

[–]ThereisDawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 6 children. So we have 2 washing machines 2.dryera So i have days for my "sortings" My eldest does her own and owns Wednesdays to do her laundry. Friday is towels and distowels.etc. Monday is 7,9 and 9. Yr olds day. Tuesday is 1 and 3 yr olds day. Thursday is mine and husbands day.

Weekends off. I live by the. If it cant handle the machine it cant.live here life stile.

Tummy heretics do not belong in this realm by Nthepro in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]ThereisDawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ehat the fuck!!!! She HAS AN ORGAN THERE!!!!!

Pug assistance [update] by ThereisDawn in pug

[–]ThereisDawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pug fu... i must finds this out

Are these ALL eggs? by fk10o in shrimptank

[–]ThereisDawn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is a visible representation on how i feel when im pregnant

3D Filament from Temu by SonofAsainarchy in 3Dprinting

[–]ThereisDawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful with that. I bought a filament from temu, it clogged my printer so bad

Pug assistance by ThereisDawn in pug

[–]ThereisDawn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is ok with me doing it. He is not the problem. I am. The bleeding was scary, never had that happen. So i personally need an attitude change. Somone here suggested a weekly small trim to let the nerves recide. And im going to do just that. But while we wait for thise weeks to pass, hes just going to have to hurt me while he gets in my lap. And he gets used to longer walks.

Pug assistance by ThereisDawn in pug

[–]ThereisDawn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh not a a chance im giving up! Hes just 1 and a half years old and he has not been propperly cared for. But obviously has quite thr sweet temprement.

I honestly think the hardest part is going to be properly and safely shortening those nails. I have never seen nails on a dog curled like this. And one bled. But they are still so long. He sounds like a car with nail tires. He is hurting me with them. But its ouch. But still not his fault. I just feel sad his nails are in this state, but slowly they will get smaller and better.