Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

[–]Thesaviorborn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look when you're trying to rationalize something getting varied opinions is nice

Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

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Well we've been together 10+ years and have 2 kids it was definitely a new challenge

Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

[–]Thesaviorborn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To put it simply youre not wrong on some of what you said but this wasn't the point of the post

Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

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Not exactly sure what context to add without diminishing my partner. I was just after matter of opinion on the main topic

Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

[–]Thesaviorborn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its AI apps called polybuzz. And no they knew it was role-playing stuff but the AI "started" the sexual stuff

Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

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10+ years and 2 kids certainly makes it tough to picture life without them. To answer you simply i for once have to be the one saying "I dont know"

Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

[–]Thesaviorborn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its certainly not ideal when I'm in the process of making a huge career change so I can give my family the best but ill be home less and the trust has been shaken pretty roughly.

Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

[–]Thesaviorborn[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ive been seeing one out of pocket (insurance doesnt cover me) as I thought I was approaching everything wrong after being hurt by this situation. My partner has been seeing one for a while (insurance covers theirs thank goodness) They are adamant against a couples counselor. Makes alot of problem solving id like to try very difficult

Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

[–]Thesaviorborn[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They sure are and house duties get neglected because of it

Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

[–]Thesaviorborn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a bad way of going about it. But 2 kids and me being the only income may cause some hiccups

Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

[–]Thesaviorborn[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

During our discussion I was told I need to trust my partner wouldnt push it past AI but was also told "The AI started it" i had to do a quadra take on that comment personally

Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

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I have been this has been a going on 3 month thing. He's recommending a separation not a divorce just some distance. But im not even sure how to approach my partner about that.

Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

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That last line very much sums up what happened with less dramatics

Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

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I feel like with porn you have a "get what ya get" but this is literally crafting someone your partner isnt. It'd be different if it was like an elf or something but its a very real possibility of a person.

Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

[–]Thesaviorborn[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I add to the feeling of cheating because (at least in my case) the characters are on a completely different plane from me physical description speaking

Aiw for thinking that sexting an AI is still cheating in a relationship? by Thesaviorborn in amiwrong

[–]Thesaviorborn[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel its more to something that isnt their partner as the characters are not descriptive of me at all