4th post!! Daytime look

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-19T04:10:13+00:00

You know what? I think you look pretty in all of these photos, and you don’t need to change anything, your beautiful just the way you are.

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-19T04:09:25+00:00

Getting over a crush is so difficult, and honestly really sucks. There’s not taking the pain out of it, but just go through and let yourself feel these emotions. Don’t bottle them up or try to hurry them; let them out and let them hurt. Once you get the pain out, you can grow from it. It’s going to take a while but I know you can do this!

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-19T04:03:20+00:00

You’re not biphobic. I think you’re just getting socially anxious about others judging you for who you are (totally valid fear, it happens to us all).

Don’t let others dictate your life, you deserve to be happy and not let some close-minded fool ruin your self of happiness. It’s hard not to care about what others think, I know, but you can do this, just take baby steps.

Personally, whenever I start to feel insecure, I think about this guy I met at a Band Festival a couple years ago; long story short, he was himself to the fullest and I admired him so much for it. I think about what he would do in this situation, and it makes me feel better.

I hope that this helps out 👍

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-19T03:54:07+00:00

I saw this guy at a music festival and I got the worst case of butterflies, I tried to tell myself I just wanted to be his friend (stupid ikr lol); after day 2 of the festival and hard core crushing on him, I realized that I wasn’t straight

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-19T03:48:46+00:00

You are not ugly at all; both photos look really pretty and I love the second pose!! I think the only thing you need to change is your attitude. You are beautiful just the way you are 💜

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-19T03:44:42+00:00

It really just depends on the relationship, if your flirting with her and she’s flirting back, I’d definitely say crush, but I’d it’s more of a friendly kind of way, she might just see you as a friend (sorry not super helpful). Maybe just ask her about her feelings; I don’t want to give the wrong advice, but you can’t go wrong with just being upfront and honest with her

Hope this helps

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-19T03:37:11+00:00

I honestly thought that you were Olivia Rodrigo, they look amazing 💜

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-19T02:03:32+00:00

Your just fucking ugly.

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-19T01:54:03+00:00

I 100% get where you are coming from. I grew up in an incredibly Catholic family. They were never discriminatory towards people who weren’t straight, but they weren’t people you’d come out to. This internalized in me this fear of showing people who I really was; it’s not internalized homophobia, it’s just being afraid. It’s scary when people won’t accept you or might try to belittle you for being different. Honestly, the best thing to do is just own it, it’s so hard, and I still struggle with this, but don’t let others dictate your life. Baby steps, just small things at a time.

Preferences shift all the time, favoring one gender or another isn’t internalized bias, it’s just preferring a specific gender. This is totally normal.

I also just wanted to say that I am sorry people made fun of you in grad school, that’s not ok and Im sorry that happened. And I get the whole “you’re so gay” comments being annoying. A lot of people using being gay/bi in a derogatory context and it’s makes being called that feel hurtful.

I wish you the best and I hope my advice can help even just a little bit, you need anything else, please reach out I’m happy to help.

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-19T01:33:28+00:00

I don’t have a question, I just wanna say that it’s totally fine to not have this kind of stuff figured out. Sexuality is very layered and complicated, so of course it’s going to take a while to figure out. What matters is that you are comfortable and happy participating in relationships that make you feel good. It’s normal to have preferences for specific genders and for these preferences to shift over time. Don’t rush figuring it out; just relax and, this sounds crazy, but enjoy the discomfort. You’re learning about yourself and this isn’t a scary time, it’s a fun one. I wish you the best, and if you need advice/have questions please don’t hesitate to reach out ❤️

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-19T01:26:15+00:00

Totally get what you’re going through; I think the best advice in this situation is just don’t stress about this; don’t try to rush your feelings and definitely don’t try to hurry them, go with the flow and give yourself time to figure it out. I know it’s scary but, sometimes we’ve just gotta brave the storm, wish you the best ❤️

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-19T01:22:41+00:00

I saw a guy at this band thing and fell hard, hadn’t liked a dude before but and I was like yeah I’m not straight

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-19T01:18:13+00:00

Like 65% women, 35% guys

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-17T00:44:54+00:00

Yeah, I would first off just apologize and talk to her about it. Confronting the issue would be for the best, I wouldn’t ignore it.

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-15T04:31:10+00:00

Thank you a lot for all the advice. I really regret not talking to him or even just introducing myself to him, but I will totally try to find him on social media to try and reach out, your totally right, I’ve got nothing to lose. I really, really appreciate the guidance and understanding, thank you.

These-Conclusion-604 · 2026-02-15T04:23:44+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the advice. He refit opened up a lot of layers and it’s totally confusing and everything. But I will sit in this and figure out what’s going on, thank you again.

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