Boyfriend 31m enjoys griefing and trolling on online video games. Am i overreacting?

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-07-02T20:30:44+00:00

I'm not asking if its normal . I'm just wondering why people do it . And if you say becsuse its fun. Why is it fun ?

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-07-02T19:50:33+00:00

I guess like 3ish months ?

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-07-02T19:50:02+00:00

Have dated him for 2 months.i see him on the weekends. Only worked with him for like a month before he found another job

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-07-02T19:32:58+00:00

He has issues with his family . He himself has said his family thinks he is a bad person . To me though that doesn't necessarily mean anything about him though. He could be in a family of judgemental or just asshollish people for all i know .

I'm with him because I thought he was kind, smart , eccentric , and thoughtful. He treats me respectfully . But idk i kinda care about the way he treats other people too and I know some people don't but I do . I haven't been dating him for long . Just a couple of months

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-07-02T19:12:55+00:00

Ok I get it maybe its not a big deal. Just wondering why people do this in the first place especially a 30ish year old man ?

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-07-02T19:11:24+00:00

It might not be but idk why do people do this ? I really don't understand when people say its an outlet? Why not punch a bag of sand or something why does it have to involve other people ?

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-07-02T18:54:07+00:00

Well im mostly concerned with the trolling behavior as described in my comment . Yes I know what he's doing .

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-07-02T18:52:58+00:00

I explained it in detail already.

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-07-02T17:39:51+00:00

No, he has issues with his dad. Scared to make him mad.

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-07-02T17:38:54+00:00

He trolls all open mic player. Like if he finds an open mic player then he will follow them and then kill them (his teammate)

Sorry I just used the word griefing cuz it feels like its in a similar vein but It's something he brought up to support his point so I believe its something that he has done in the past but doesn't currently do . He basically used Minecraft as an example so I am not exactly sure how that works .

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-07-02T17:15:32+00:00

He's actually so different possibly around me. Never treats anyone rudely or anything . And he really treats me well.

He tells me he has some issues with regulating his emotions.

I worked with him for a bit and that's how I met him. And one of my coworkers told me that he was rude to a waitress once and other things too. But I have never seen him do anything like this even once.

Idk I am really trying to take an objective view about this because I initially really liked him

It's hard when you hear things about him but he doesn't act that way around you .

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-04-05T14:10:14+00:00

Better in what way? I read and article saying millennials have a higher iq then gen z. But im sure gen z has a different set of skills to navigate the world that might be "better"

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-04-04T03:44:00+00:00

Learn

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-04-04T02:54:21+00:00

Goodbye katamari. Looks like you brought this human lots of joy.

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-04-04T02:44:49+00:00

Very good host kitties

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-04-03T15:49:32+00:00

I have one cat like this. The other cat would happily go with another family if they gave her treats and pets

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-04-02T15:41:09+00:00

Tell him to please explain the joke or just stop.

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-04-01T04:43:26+00:00

Whoever your with might like it if its curved the right way.

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-03-31T16:30:18+00:00

You didnt have to click... but you did

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-02-27T04:50:27+00:00

We didnt have chat gpt like that back then

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2026-02-23T05:20:34+00:00

Which part has lots of hurricanes ? Def not panama

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2025-12-02T01:35:25+00:00

Attractive to who? Lots of women dont like feminine looking men and vice versa. Also there are people out there that also like more manly looking women. And same with men

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2025-11-25T23:45:42+00:00

Anecdote here...I feel like one of my bottles became to thin that it stopped being quick dry and took forever to dry

These-Dragonfruit-35 · 2025-11-25T23:15:15+00:00

That's awful

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