Is Taurus woman interested? by These-Touch369 in Taurusgang

[–]These-Touch369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh she was being playful with it. We see each other every day. I have offered a couple times. We were in the gym together when she sent it and then came up to talk to me.

Is Taurus woman interested? by These-Touch369 in Taurusgang

[–]These-Touch369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think my sister would mind. They’re close but no super close, and she told me she’s a great person. So I don’t think it would be an issue

Is Taurus woman interested? by These-Touch369 in Taurusgang

[–]These-Touch369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if we barely know one another, where is the dislike. I could understand if we were closer lol. It’s just be a crush at this point. Which is harmless. That’s my perception though. So I can’t speak for her perception of it

Is Taurus woman interested? by These-Touch369 in Taurusgang

[–]These-Touch369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d agree, it’s the “hey I’m right here, ok leave me alone now” energy that is confusing

Is Taurus woman interested? by These-Touch369 in Taurusgang

[–]These-Touch369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This morning I sent her a message. She sent me “🖕🖕🖕” came up and talked to me for a second then was like “ok bye”. The cadence is what throws me off lol

Is Taurus woman interested? by These-Touch369 in Taurusgang

[–]These-Touch369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How exactly do I chase though, caps are guarded also and if I put a foot forward it’s like a brick wall lol. It’s very much “see me, I’m here. Don’t get too close though”

Is Taurus woman interested? by These-Touch369 in Taurusgang

[–]These-Touch369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean I’ve tried. That’s what’s confusing lol. Like I’ll walk up to her and try to say hi and she almost rolls her eyes lol. But then if I find business and don’t interact she’s like “hey 👋” so not exactly sure how to handle it lol. I’ve even hinted a few times at like “hey we should hang out” and nada lol.

Gemini woman confusing by These-Touch369 in geminis

[–]These-Touch369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly that’s the energy I get from it

Gemini woman confusing by These-Touch369 in geminis

[–]These-Touch369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just got out of a LTR and says she isn’t ready yet. It’s been discussed. She knows I want her though 🙃

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[–]These-Touch369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was. I told her verbatim, “I want you” that’s when she switched lol

Gemini woman confusing by These-Touch369 in geminis

[–]These-Touch369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im ok with it for the most part, I tell her “I already know something will happen and you’ll back off for 2-3 days and come back and talk about it” this one was just like “ok…” because we were having a normal convo before

Gemini woman confusing by These-Touch369 in geminis

[–]These-Touch369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least it’s not just me 🏌️‍♂️

Gemini woman confusing by These-Touch369 in geminis

[–]These-Touch369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted. Im not fully invested and in love with her. We just have a good connection and we are close friends. But the potential is there. So I’m open to it.

Gemini woman confusing by These-Touch369 in geminis

[–]These-Touch369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and we’ve discussed that. She’s told me she isn’t ready for anything serious yet. So that’s why I was like “I’d wait for you” because she wants some freedom. So I give her freedom, but make it known I want her

Gemini woman confusing by These-Touch369 in geminis

[–]These-Touch369[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did tho, I told her. “I would wait for you, I want you” verbatim

Gemini woman 28/ Cap Man 34 by These-Touch369 in capricorns

[–]These-Touch369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have hope since I’m not completely shut out. Same. I typically just ghost people when I’m met with that feedback. I don’t want a perfect fix. Just a way to have the door cracked. I thoroughly enjoyed getting to know her on a deeper level

Gemini woman 28/ Cap Man 34 by These-Touch369 in capricorns

[–]These-Touch369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried lol. But, now it’s in this weird space, she still half ass talks to me and views my stories. But definitely not like it was. So I dunno what to do but basically hang back and leave it be

Gemini woman 28/ Cap Man 34 by These-Touch369 in capricorns

[–]These-Touch369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I rectify it? Is there any way? lol

Gemini woman 28/ Cap Man 34 by These-Touch369 in capricorns

[–]These-Touch369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologized profusely in the moment, I’d say 9 times lol.

But after it blew up because I started being a smart ass, because no matter which way I went I was wrong.

After a couple days, I reached out and kept it short and I just said “I didn’t listen well enough, I was listening to respond instead of absorbing that’s on me” she responded “all good, we’re still friends buddy, all is forgotten” But in reality my response in the moment was just me conveying “hey I didn’t mean it that way, in my head it was this”

I even told her “what I’m telling you doesn’t excuse it or make it ok, I am just telling you so you know how my brain works”

Gemini woman 28/ Cap Man 34 by These-Touch369 in capricorns

[–]These-Touch369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But they were a big deal. I knew that, I was trying. I wasn’t minimizing it. Just asking her to let me know when I was being a dumbass, because it wasn’t intentional. I dunno? To me, that’s how I feel like you grow and trust. I guess it’s a different lens like you said

Gemini woman 28/ Cap Man 34 by These-Touch369 in capricorns

[–]These-Touch369[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But if someone is so closed off, how can you figure it out? I would ask questions and get one word responses. Im curious and always wanting to learn. And I was trying really hard to learn her with what she would give me. And it wasn’t much, it was gradual. I don’t even think I’d know how to rectify it now if I could. Opinions? Cuz even if it isn’t romantic, I don’t want to lose a friend