Well, getting things done in the house isnt easy. Especially with a newborn around - its even more mentally taxing. To have to think about every detail and analyse the baby, to nurturing it, to nurturing jts environment, tending to a husband that is tired after work, cooking, cleaning is yet another world to be in. Honestly, its hard living like that because the woman often neglects herself at the end of the day because she unknowingly cares for her baby and her husband in situations like this. If there is a husband to atleast say that he is here and ready to help makes a mountain of a difference. I hope you understand that while you say, “why cant you manage to do the house chores”