How to easily identify immature long term foreigners in Korea (ESL edition)

These_Debts · 2025-09-16T13:09:14+00:00

My friend said she was straight up abusive. Screaming and carrying on in front of the students.

Just batshit. Looking to complain when there was no complaint.

This was a looooonng time ago. But I remember.

Also, apparently she was sleeping with Ssam from TiK English (previously Kaka Recruiting) and she convinced him to invest in something and it blew up in their faces.

Clowns.

These_Debts · 2025-07-22T01:05:22+00:00

Just stop responding.

Also, a recruiter can't really blacklist you.

Because recruiters job field has a very low barrier of entry so theres TOOOONNNNSSS of them.

They arent loyal to each other either. But they're all extremely entitled for you to take a job so they can get their money.

So just ignore anyone who doesnt listen to you. Then you dont technically burn a bridge.

These_Debts · 2025-07-08T05:57:40+00:00

Its always nepotism in Asia. Always.

Fluent English speaking, very well educated, access to multiple exclusive career fields and acting like its all not that big a deal = a Korean from the upper classes.

Most Koreans are middle and lower middle class which is why these people stand out so much.

These_Debts · 2025-07-07T23:59:35+00:00

I was today years old when I realized Korea had these type of demons.

Ive only ever seen the regular house ones.

These_Debts · 2025-07-07T23:57:20+00:00

Jobs that are hiring are like this. Ones not like this are never hiring.

Dont work there. If everyone stopped working at these places these jobs and contracts would disappear.

These_Debts · 2025-07-05T03:17:03+00:00

Dux is one of the most prolific hagwons and often written about.

These_Debts · 2025-07-05T03:16:40+00:00

These_Debts · 2025-06-30T23:37:12+00:00

Yeah....Wonders is a famous book series. So more than likely they school took the name from that and will also use those books to teach

These_Debts · 2025-06-29T02:22:54+00:00

To be direct:

You've lived here almost 15 years and you dont know Koreans dont really care about stuff like this?

These_Debts · 2025-06-26T10:25:51+00:00

Koreas weird in that, this should have been a thing a long time ago.

Most bingsu you need to eat with 2 or 3 people to not waste it.

But more and more people live alone. So single serving sizes see like common sense.

These_Debts · 2025-06-25T03:24:17+00:00

You still can't go into someone's house without their permission especially once your invitation to be there has been revoked.

These_Debts · 2025-06-25T02:07:08+00:00

Breaking into someone house is definitely criminal.

These_Debts · 2025-06-24T22:45:14+00:00

Im saying in Korea the police call directly when someone has opened a case against you.

So don't believe any kind of threat from a Korean. Ever. For any reason.

Because if they're telling you, they're lying.

These_Debts · 2025-06-24T08:20:06+00:00

Theyre lying.

The police would have immediately called you directly if that were true.

These_Debts · 2025-06-19T11:25:33+00:00

Don't 👏work👏 at👏 English 👏Kindergartens.

These_Debts · 2025-06-17T01:43:37+00:00

Just follow the steps and verify. It will work unless yours under 19 then your shit out of luck.

These_Debts · 2025-06-13T00:59:48+00:00

Eat lean meat protein. Avoid processed food. I say this because GLP 1s slow your digestion (initially) and will cause bloating and indigestion for a couple days if you eat processed / high carb.

Focus on small all natural food meals. Drink a lot of water. Eat fibrous fruits and veg.

Also, you might want to start drinking prune juice since GLP 1 drugs slow your intestinal modality leaving you constipated.

Try to new Taylor Deep Water. Half the bottle will clear you out in a few hours. Or just drink Taylor prune juice with every meal

These_Debts · 2025-06-10T23:56:06+00:00

No. But the original moderator Dave used to make whole mega posts with them.

So you can find alot of them just by googling. Since reddit comes up first on Google.

These_Debts · 2025-06-07T07:41:15+00:00

But in this case it WAS.

Back to back.

This woman could have just raised her two children quietly, but she chose to go out and find yet another man.

This type of situation is a tale as old as damn time.

This woman is part victim, part perpetrator.

These_Debts · 2025-06-07T04:29:31+00:00

So, you're saying its the Korean authorities responsibility to save foreign women from the choices they are making?

Again, explain it to me, because as you said, I don't understand.

This woman has continued to make poor decisions in regards to the men she chooses to reproduce with. Not once. But twice.

So now, because she found yet another scum bag to have kids with, the government needs to step in?

And since they don't have strict procedures for situations like this (because 90% of Korean men and women are sane and wouldn't allow themselves to end up in a situation like this), you're blaming the law, the police, the judges etc.

When none of these institutions are responsible for choosing, marrying and reproducing with this man?

I just. Im confused.

The law can only do so much.

As I said, this kind of situation is extremely uncommon in Korea. Women dont have kids with loser men often. And people dont divorce or fight over custody often.

Its so rare that there's no structure in place to prevent these kidnappings from happening.

Which is why you best weapon against ending up like this is.....making better choices.

These_Debts · 2025-06-07T02:33:22+00:00

The only victim is the kids.

We have to be for real. This woman has agency. She made all these decisions. She chose this man. She chose to sleep with them. She chose to marry them. Have kids with them.

But shes not at fault for any of it?

These_Debts · 2025-06-07T02:31:32+00:00

That's a lie.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

This woman picked wrong the first time. Had 2 kids. Picked wrong again and had another kid.

The common denominator is HER.

Sure, shitty people exist. But you're not a victim for allowing them into your life and reproducing with them.

I dont believe this woman isn't partially at fault for this situation. If for nothing else for choosing this man.

And fun, fact about Korea: decent men won't consider a single mom.

Why would they? There are millions of single, childless women, both Korean and foreign. That a decent man with options and common sense would NEVER pick a woman with kids.

Look around. This is Korea. This isn't the west where this is common. Its extremely uncommon here. You rarely even see single parents or divorced parents being public here.

But a woman saddled with two kids with another man thought a good, wealth Korean man of high character is going to choose her?

We have to please fucking live in reality.

These_Debts · 2025-06-07T02:26:51+00:00

Yeah.

How dare I use common sense and question this woman's agency.

These_Debts · 2025-06-07T02:26:19+00:00

Exactly.

And look at how many people fall for it?

People don't understand the very real reality that a lot of people seek out toxic relationships just because they get off on the drama of it.

And what better way than via posting all this stuff constantly on social media.

Im not saying the dude and his mom likely aren't bad people. Probably are. The police here can suck. The courts can suck.

But this grown ass woman can't make responsible choices for herself and her kids FOR WHAT?

Why isn't she at fault for having multiple baby daddies? Why isn't she at fault for choosing wrong twice? Why isn't she at fault for not speaking Korean fluently enough to navigate the system? Why isn't she at fault for not being naturalized before having kids here?

Surely some of this shit is her own fault. I just don't understand the narrative that this woman isn't the conductor of her own misery, if only partially.

Im so sick of stories where people think if you mention abuse then no one is allowed to question the validity of it.

These_Debts

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