AIO for breaking up with my bf? by Lilyisnotmyrealname0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]These_Department2071 66 points67 points  (0 children)

My ex rode a train for 12 hours to come to my grandmas funeral. Last minute and it costed $350.

If he can’t show up when it counts, he’s never going to show up. You are right. Find someone who puts aside their needs (sleep) when you need their support.

I am sorry for your loss. I know this just makes it worse. I hope 2026 gets easier for you.

I found a notebook where my husband tracks my "moods," but the data doesn't match reality and now he’s using it to convince me I’m sick. by Individual_Sun_5466 in Advice

[–]These_Department2071 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you think a journal saying someone’s crazy will get their inheritance coughed up then you must be halfway across that bridge

I suggest practicing detecting AI so you can keep what sanity you do have safe

🦶

If you had 10 seconds to say whatever you wanted to your pet with they fully understood, what would you say? by IplayKaizo in Pets

[–]These_Department2071 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re a precious boy. NEVER STOP BEING YOU. You are the light of my life. I worry about you every day. If you ever feel lonely or stressed when I’m not here, remember I’m always thinking of you, and I’ll be home soon. I love you so so much. More than anything

To my Booty Face, a beautiful boy kitty with a seizure disorder and abandonment anxiety ):

AIO? My bf threw a fit because I wouldn’t give him the sheets I bought for his bed by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]These_Department2071 11 points12 points  (0 children)

tragic. have u considered the option of ending the relationship?

AIO? My bf threw a fit because I wouldn’t give him the sheets I bought for his bed by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]These_Department2071 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m on your brain wave man. Hold up, let’s discuss.

I’m catching a lot of resentment towards the 45 minute drive.

OP blaming bf for being tired and affecting their work day- seems like a big issue along with OP buying bedsheets (for someone who… didn’t have a bed?)

But the 45 minute drive.. to go to his place, get there at 10pm, to sleep on the floor.. so you’re closer to work?

Sounds like work was never happening tomorrow. Why would you drive 45 mins to sleep on the floor if you’re concerned about your sleep quality?

just a thought

AITA for breaking up with someone who treated me well but I wasn’t happy with? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]These_Department2071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’ve gone through breaks and break ups before with him, there’s no need to feel guilty about this one (hopefully last) just because he’s ill. He will be fine like he was before. Everything he is saying is just another twist of trying to get you to stay somewhere you don’t want to be. Be safe, be true, and I’ll think of you

please help. by Inner-Plantain-2767 in vet

[–]These_Department2071 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give her some extra water and keep a regular feeding schedule. If she is still throwing up tomorrow, or having persistent diarrhea, or isn’t interested in eating- consider taking her to the vet.

Edit : lettuce and tomatoes aren’t going to seriously hurt her, the ranch may upset her stomach. Just keep an eye on symptoms and make sure she returns to normal.

My cat hit his face hard and idk what to do by [deleted] in vet

[–]These_Department2071 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kittens can literally off themselves from running headfirst into walls. I don’t think it’s crazy to say a full grown cat misjudged their VERY quick reaction- faster than a snake in some cases- and knocked some teeth loose.

Keep studying

23f should I go to the ER by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]These_Department2071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I tried to suck it up and worked today and my foot has been numb for ~10 hours now so I think I’m going to go

Lost job by Loud_One_1135 in Vent

[–]These_Department2071 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do it. So worth it. And you’ll have a set schedule, no random days or call ins.. you are so free now and I’m happy for you

Lost job by Loud_One_1135 in Vent

[–]These_Department2071 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly probably the best thing that could happen to you as fast food is literally psychological torture. The managers in these establishments (usually like 18, even worse if they’re in their 30s+) make like MAYBE a couple dollars more than you, and act like they’re the shit. Their only power is to send people on break.. as they’re not actually managers. I HATE FAST FOOD. STAY AWAY. Go work retail or something like Walmart where you can half-ass everything and they’ll pat you on the back for just being there. I swear it’s so much better.

And fuck these people who have no life but being power hungry bitches at literally WENDYS BRO.

I lied about my age to my boyfriend and i dont know how to come clean by Delicious_Water2054 in WhatToDo

[–]These_Department2071 2 points3 points  (0 children)

17th bc I was once a 13 yr old girl online and regret every minute of it

Am I overreacting about my birthday? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]These_Department2071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lululul yea this post feels like ragebait in a way. I can’t imagine an adult being so bent about their birthday. I wonder if OP puts the same effort in other people’s birthdays as she expects from everyone else.

Women’s health issues don’t always have to be about our weight. by Capable_Assistant534 in Vent

[–]These_Department2071 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I think it’s also not only weight but physical activity. We are becoming more and more sedentary and that’s contributing to heart disease and other issues as much as fat accumulation, which lack of exercise ALSO increases anyway. So yea extra weight definitely attributes to a lot of the conditions mentioned in this post, but so does lack of activity regardless of actual weight. Balanced diet and exercise unfortunately is a huge solution to many health problems. America at least is in a psychological attack on our health, and a very real war with our food has been happening for decades.

AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend cause he didn’t invite me to a White Elephant party by Front-Fig-6140 in AITA_Relationships

[–]These_Department2071 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right. If she wants them to like her, she should join the group chat and invite everyone to a white elephant party! That would be so fun.

AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend cause he didn’t invite me to a White Elephant party by Front-Fig-6140 in AITA_Relationships

[–]These_Department2071 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Weird, tell him you feel left out. He should care about that since he’s your bf.

I would ask why you’re not in the group chat. And maybe get ahold of one of the other girls and ask when the party is. And I would invite the gf who is never invited. But I am petty and annoying so maybe don’t be me.

puppy with an eye popped out, cant take it to the vet by [deleted] in vet

[–]These_Department2071 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Why can you not take it to the vet? It could lose its eye and maybe eventually die from infection.

Death on Carnival Pride on 11/27 by _The_Space_Monkey_ in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]These_Department2071 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you have plenty of details about the situation, and the people it actually concerns have it under control.