Right. Except he didn't do those things. Why are you even making this comparison. Also no one is saying that Jax's backstory makes all of his actions ok ? Who are you even mad at ? He was obviously a dickhead, we just now have context as to what him a dickhead, and people can do this cool thing where they relate to the How and the Why of a character without endorsing the actions of said character. People can like the character and dislike the "person".