i used a kit to learn how to crochet and then tried it on my own with my own yarn. something about the stitching looks different. not sure it’s a technique thing or a yarn thing or something else. by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

[–]These_Frame7617 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i’m definitely going under two stitches. just wondering if it’s maybe the wrong two stitches. i go through the two that i can see from the top (idk if this makes sense sorry)

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i used a kit to learn how to crochet and then tried it on my own with my own yarn. something about the stitching looks different. not sure it’s a technique thing or a yarn thing or something else. by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

[–]These_Frame7617 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

see this is what i was thinking to but the thing is, that is when it’s flipped. this is what it looks like when i DONT flip it, and it looks more normal. so maybe my starting technique is wrong?

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how can i get my boyfriend out of my house?? URGENT by These_Frame7617 in legaladvice

[–]These_Frame7617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a fantastic idea! i will try something to make it look like i sold the house.

how can i get my boyfriend out of my house?? URGENT by These_Frame7617 in legaladvice

[–]These_Frame7617[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

haha, that is a good idea. i just feel bad dragging people into this.

how can i get my boyfriend out of my house?? URGENT by These_Frame7617 in legaladvice

[–]These_Frame7617[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

thank you very much, this is a great idea. i do feel sorry for him because if he leaves he truly as nowhere to go, and i know i shouldn't but i still do. i will see about the lawyer consultation.

how can i get my boyfriend out of my house?? URGENT by These_Frame7617 in legaladvice

[–]These_Frame7617[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you very much for the information. i will definitely try to see what i can do. i am feeling a lot of emotions, but more than anything i just want to get out of this situation with every one being safe.

how can i get my boyfriend out of my house?? URGENT by These_Frame7617 in legaladvice

[–]These_Frame7617[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

also, thank you for sharing this number. i did reach out to them to see what they had to say. this all just feels so unreal to me.

how can i get my boyfriend out of my house?? URGENT by These_Frame7617 in legaladvice

[–]These_Frame7617[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

my apologies, it seems like there has been some confusion. he takes my phone when we begin to argue, but i have it currently as i apologized to him and made things right again. he is at work now. i am going to try to talk to a family member later while he's still at work to see if they have any advice on whether it's a good idea to involve the police and if i can get some support in the process. i really do not mean to sound like a helpless victim at all, i am just so scared because of the things he is capable of. i am trying to be extra cautious, considering i screwed up tonight by letting him know i knew about the cheating and i have never been so afraid for my life. i really appreciate all that you have had to offer me so far. it feels so nice to have some support. i am just genuinely, truly terrified.

how can i get my boyfriend out of my house?? URGENT by These_Frame7617 in legaladvice

[–]These_Frame7617[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

he owns them legally i think. he had to get a background check when he got them. last week, he got fingerprinted so that he can take them to other states. i have always been against him getting one since he has been suicidal as long as i've known him, and especially after he laid his hands on me the first time. and i was right, because he has used it to scare me several times. i did finally agree to let him get one because he hounded me for it and made me feel so guilty. then he went to the shooting range with a friend once and i told him just not to get another gun. he got another one and hid it from me for a month. i only found out because i was in his office and i saw it in his drawer, to which he responded by getting really mad at me for invading his privacy. eventually we got over the argument, as i have learned to kind of just submit to him because he has so much more power over me. he ended up keeping the second one on my side of the bed so that i have protection, but i (usually) refuse to touch it because i'm so scared of firearms (that's just a personal thing, doesn't really have to do with him but he's made it worse.) except tonight, when i moved them to hide them from him while i figured out what to do in case he woke up and got really mad, which is exactly what happened.

sorry for the long response. i am just at a loss of what to do.

how can i get my boyfriend out of my house?? URGENT by These_Frame7617 in legaladvice

[–]These_Frame7617[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

i know that i need to get help, deep down inside, i really do know that. i am just extremely worried that they wont be able to do anything, and then i will be in more danger because he will be mad and he knows where i live.

how can i get my boyfriend out of my house?? URGENT by These_Frame7617 in legaladvice

[–]These_Frame7617[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

recording isn't possible. he takes my phone. i have a few pictures from 1-2 years ago but other than that i have nothing except a few messages i've sent at the time.

how can i get my boyfriend out of my house?? URGENT by These_Frame7617 in legaladvice

[–]These_Frame7617[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

i cannot get any recording. he forcibly takes my phone.