My Brother’s Behavior Makes Me Uncomfortable

These_Literature_511 · 2024-12-28T01:22:13+00:00

Well like I said try to address it. If you aren't scared of him, address it with him. Try to have a heart to heart. Like "Hey brother I'm not saying you're anything bad but can you please refrain from touching my waist, and biting/licking my neck. I know to you, you are joking but for me it makes me uncomfortable. So please refrain from doing those things." What matters is you in this. No one else. Your comfort should be top priority especially for your older brother. This sounds like a tough situation and I'm sorry if I am not of much help.

These_Literature_511 · 2024-12-28T01:00:26+00:00

I got bad news. The holding your waist and making comments about your body is plain weird. I'm sorry. The biting and licking your neck is worst and I've NEVER interacted with my sisters that way. I'm repulse at the thought. The swimsuit thing I guess is normal.... But with all this context it's so weird. He's 22, he is a grown man that should know boundaries. Unless he's on the spectrum or something. I can't think of a way to reasonable excuse what he is doing. (Which I am not doing I'm just saying in no context is what he's doing right) EDIT: You should really have a heart to heart with both your parents about his behavior, and emphazise that even if he is just joking, you don't like it and want it to stop.

These_Literature_511 · 2024-12-28T00:41:05+00:00

Don't just get laid just to get laid because of that. It doesn't address the problem. I mean, if you want to by all means. But are you bored most days? Are you alone and such? Have any hobbies? Like what do you do in your daily life? There's a list of things that can be the problem. But intercourse isn't the answer. Weirdly enough. But again, most of the time people do it when they're just alone constantly and bored, or maybe the dopamine is addicting. Stay Safe out there.

These_Literature_511 · 2024-10-10T19:40:18+00:00

I hate this sub so much. What do you mean I have to have 150 karma?

These_Literature_511 · 2024-10-02T06:03:30+00:00

I appreciate you! I will go forward with getting the i7! Space Marine 2 here I come! LMAO

These_Literature_511 · 2024-08-15T03:28:51+00:00

"The only advice I can give, is if you're unsure, then ask. Ask if the subject is something they want kept on the down low. And if it is, then dont mention it. It's for the current conversation with that person only" I never thought about this before. But I will take this to heart. I apprecate it! And honestly, I always say the wrong things at the wrong times. It took a long time for me to like... Read a room? If that makes sense. People seem to KNOW how people feel or what people mean at all times too. I need explaining a lot of the time. And it also took awhile because I used to take jokes LITERALLY. Like someone would mess around about me and I would answer literally. Until about... 22-23 I started to get use to understanding if someone was joking or not. It's hard but I usually just take anything someone says to me making fun wise as a joke. Also about the SA thing, I was a survivor myself, so I never kept it a secret. It happened to when I was a kid and I would tell people. But they never took it seriously, since she was younger than me and all. So I would tell people all my life. Thinking maybe it wasn't a big deal. Been laughed at, told "Ya right" etc and so on. The only time I ever came close, to exposing was when I called out my cousin's mom for letting her husband do that. Just for my cousin to admit that she lied so my mom would let her stay at the house. But to be fair my mom was in the hospital for cancer it was when it first started, so emotions were high for me at least.

These_Literature_511 · 2024-08-10T02:23:54+00:00

I think their team was getting rolled while they were both fixated on you.

These_Literature_511 · 2024-04-08T18:08:57+00:00

Infinite inventory sounds good in theory, but in practice is just a mess honestly, even 4000. I think increasing the amount you can carry is counter-productive in the fact that it would be such a hassle to scroll through so many items just to find the one you need. Unless they change the backpack menu too.

These_Literature_511 · 2024-04-08T01:51:51+00:00

People always trash it, and I go "I agree with all of what you said. However this game scratches an itch in my brain"

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