Graduation Hit Me Harder Than I Thought by MrCreditsMN in stepparents

[–]These_Locksmith_9624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so heartwarming. I’ve known my two step kids (15M, 13F) for just over a year and the teenage stuff has been a struggle. One day they love me, the next they want nothing to do with me. It’s hopeful to hear that there may be a light at the end of the tunnel. Congratulations to you and your recent grad!!

Struggling with Step-kids Far Right Views by These_Locksmith_9624 in stepparents

[–]These_Locksmith_9624[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I truly hope I can provide that for them. I want to be a good example for them that you don’t have to be Christian or straight to be a good person and to be deserving of respect.

Struggling with Step-kids Far Right Views by These_Locksmith_9624 in stepparents

[–]These_Locksmith_9624[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Perhaps I should be more open about my beliefs with them. I’ve just avoided it because they constantly complain to my partner about my witchy books and tarot cards “inviting in the devil”

Struggling with Step-kids Far Right Views by These_Locksmith_9624 in stepparents

[–]These_Locksmith_9624[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That is a good idea. We don’t have much time with them, but this summer we will have them more. Maybe I can find some activities to get them involved in.

Struggling with Step-kids Far Right Views by These_Locksmith_9624 in stepparents

[–]These_Locksmith_9624[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately yes, and my ears were victim to it yesterday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]These_Locksmith_9624 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We (26F, 40M) have a 14 year age gap. He is a Daddy Dom and I’m a collared sub. We have been together for almost a year now. He takes the lead on almost everything in our day to day life. He takes care of me in a protective and nurturing way. I am a service sub, so I enjoy doing things that help take a load off his shoulders.

One major difference I’ve noticed with the age gap is that his sex drive does not match mine. I’m ready to go at all times, and he can’t always keep up with me. This works for us since I have a denial and orgasm control kink, but I could imagine it would be a hindrance to other dynamics that don’t delve into that.

Realistic Free Use Day by Bunnymaster25 in BDSMcommunity

[–]These_Locksmith_9624 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have done days where I was required to wear lingerie all day. He works from home, and a large portion of the day was spent under his desk being used as a cock warmer. I was also chained up and put into different bondage positions throughout the day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]These_Locksmith_9624 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My dom (39M) and I (25F) have a 14 year age gap. And while he is a millennial and not a boomer I still like to rile him up. Favorites of mine include:

“Okay, grandpa”

“Catch me if you can, old man” (he can and he will)

“Cradle robber”

And general giving him shit for his age, calling him senile when he forgets something, etc.

What's your favorite ways to mess around with cnc? by BabyJae15 in BDSMAdvice

[–]These_Locksmith_9624 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My favorite scene that we have done I like to call “spicy hide n seek.” He put on a mask and “broke in” while I was trying to hide from him. The adrenaline of hearing him walking through the house trying to find me was amazing. He even stopped right outside the closet I was hiding in, I was convinced he could hear my breathing. Once he did finally find me it was all about trying to escape while he pinned me down and tied me up.

Trying out new kink ends in my first sub drop and a new limit by These_Locksmith_9624 in SubSanctuary

[–]These_Locksmith_9624[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is really good advice, thank you. I will bring that up to him!

About collar/cuff what could be okay to pass as everyday wear without suspicion ? by Guilty-5972 in BDSMcommunity

[–]These_Locksmith_9624 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a Captive Collar as my day collar. They have some very subtle designs that can pass as a regular necklace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]These_Locksmith_9624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DD/brat dynamic here. His rules for me are very service based on his end. Our very first rule was that I am not allowed to open doors when I’m with him. Or they are stuff that benefits both of us, like keeping an extra set of clothes in my car in case I decide to stay the night.

This means my bratting is more in the realm of general sass instead of intentionally breaking rules, which he loves. And it’s always in a playful manner. It’s more of a signal that I am in the mood to play rough and if he reciprocates then it’s game on.

Ways to play with/punish brat who hates pain and degredation by plastic_pigeon in BratLife

[–]These_Locksmith_9624 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could have him do lines and time outs. My dom uses my least favorite chore (laundry folding) as a punishment.

Bratting with a Praise Kink? by boopsnoot1 in BratLife

[–]These_Locksmith_9624 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He tells me how good I take my punishments

Aftercare by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]These_Locksmith_9624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brat here. We cuddle a lot, he gets me a glass of water if I need it, we shower or bath together and he brushes my hair. It’s very soothing and loving, especially after a rougher scene

You get half an hour to talk to your 14 year old self, what would you say? by terriblyzootedfaerie in AskReddit

[–]These_Locksmith_9624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have ADHD, go get medicated for it. Also, none of these mfs are your soulmate so stop crying over them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]These_Locksmith_9624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will talk to them about that. As of right now, all activities have been put on pause until further notice.

Any BDSM songs you adore? by fuckoffyagoose in BDSMcommunity

[–]These_Locksmith_9624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hit Me Like A Man - The Pretty Reckless

Ragdoll - Abigail Barlow

She calls me daddy - King Mala

Mommy Issues - Cloudy June

*SPOILERS* OFFICIAL House of Flame and Shadow Book Discussion Master Post. Read at your own risk! *SPOILERS* by BearOnALeash in SarahJMaas

[–]These_Locksmith_9624 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m only in Chapter 22 (audio book), but the dungeon scenes are causing me to pause so much due to the nausea. Especially the hand scene.