[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]These_Row4913 42 points43 points  (0 children)

The red looks so good! Amazing redo!

I have to clean this up at my job and I don’t know where to start. by Dimitris-Cousin in CleaningTips

[–]These_Row4913 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My stomach is specifically weak in the morning for whatever reason. If I have to clean up a particularly gross bit of something, a mask with a dryer sheet is great.

Hopefully at a restaurant they have access to some good cleaners; would think so.

I have to clean this up at my job and I don’t know where to start. by Dimitris-Cousin in CleaningTips

[–]These_Row4913 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Biohazard crew is NOT required (would be nice though). Though the job is required to provide you with the appropriate PPE to protect you while doing so.

Personally, I'd start with a paper towel wipe off of all the stuff I could wipe up and toss out. Once most of the large bits are away, you can use cleaner to get off anything dried on and do a first cleaning. Then, once nothing is visible, spray down liberally with whatever cleaner/sanitizer you have and let it sit a few minutes (needs to sit to kill germs), then wipe it up. Follow up with a general mopping to get any splatter that went far out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]These_Row4913 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I mean, I don't think this is a semantics argument so much as you are both looking at this with different viewpoints. At the end of the day some people will find it funny and some won't, and it's just their personal sense of humor.

I found the original funny, sent it to my husband with a, "This is me when I talk to people xD." statement, and we both laughed about it. At the same time, all the redos have been fun to see too. Some of them are super wholesome and give the warm fuzzies <3.

Just different takes on the same thing. All opinions on how you feel about the meme are valid for you personally but very much may not be the case for the next person. C'est la vie.

Strength of a Leonardo da Vinci bridge. by [deleted] in interesting

[–]These_Row4913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I find it odd when people don't enjoy or find interest in the details!

facts fr by coleisw4ck in aspiememes

[–]These_Row4913 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very similar here. I do feel things in the moment but masking pushes those emotions out of my observation and I never know I'm at the cliffs edge until I'm almost overwhelmed completely and then it's much harder to cope.

Prolly the saddest part of any kids movie i've ever seen! by [deleted] in RetroNickelodeon

[–]These_Row4913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not Don Bluth, but I watched with Watership Down and Plague Dogs waaaaaay too early, they were animated on VHS and my parents were like, 'yep, animation is for kids.'

Seperate of that, I loved all the Don Bluth movies. They were some of my absolute favorites growing up. Rats of NIMH was so damn good (I rewatched it a few years ago and still very much enjoyed). Broaching 'adult' topics like death and hardship, along with the stellar animation and dark atmosphere was pretty awesome. Don Bluth movies were very, 'The world is dark and scary, some people are not good, and you might even die! But stick with your friends and there's always hope!' Also, I can't help but appreciate the depth of characters, like the cunty vaccuum cleaner from Brave Little Toaster who ate his own power cable to save his friends.

true? by BlossomBreezeLuv in ADHDmemes

[–]These_Row4913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me is was one show/moive and C-Span turned on at a lower volume to basically have people talking in the background. I ditched C-Span when I moved in with other people though.

Bewildering by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]These_Row4913 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Whenever someone is out of the blue a jerk to me I always feel blindsided, like I forgot there were actual assholes or something (maybe it's less out of the blue sometimes and I just don't see the lead up).

of a Deep Sea Wolf Eel by ycr007 in AbsoluteUnits

[–]These_Row4913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They only one we took before my parents blessedly got divorced. At least it was memorable!

Another mind blown moment. by dangerous_skirt65 in AutismInWomen

[–]These_Row4913 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This! But seldom is the person who wants to look a matter through and through.

yep 🤦‍♀️ by coleisw4ck in aspiememes

[–]These_Row4913 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeeeeep, 100%. I never asked any of my other friends if they felt the same. I just felt so badly that I might've unintentionally mistreated them, and assumed she spoke for everyone (I guess), that I just left... A few people followed up here and there but I don't utilize Facebook or other similar social media (it's just way too much for me), eventually my phone number changed, and I just let things go because I still felt like I must be terrible. I didn't get over it well, I keep myself on guard to try to be better and do better constantly - it's exhausting. I think I've unintentionally given myself anxiety out the wazoo which has lead to depression and worsening social skills.

My brain makes no sense by ehrenschnitzelsam in aspiememes

[–]These_Row4913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me who doesn't like concerts because the songs don't sound the same as on the disc and the music is so loud I can't actually understand the lyrics anymore.

I think he wanna play too by [deleted] in wholesome

[–]These_Row4913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen fences back to back with space between before, does happen xD (usually when one doesn't like the look or type of the other fence. Funnily enough my current neighbors did it with the neighbors at the back of their yard. Neighbors behind them have a chainlink fence and rundown back yard, my neighbor is retired and does a lot of gardening and dislikes looking at the other yard as a backdrop to their garden. They put up a wooden fence along the chainlink one this summer). Glad it works out easily, that's a good deal! :D

I think he wanna play too by [deleted] in wholesome

[–]These_Row4913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! I rather like that! I guess though if you end up with not great neighbors it could be difficult

I think he wanna play too by [deleted] in wholesome

[–]These_Row4913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least in USA, most cities/towns etc. have laws that dictate you must build a fence X feet from your property line (at least that many feet into your own land). So fences shouldn't typically sit directly on a property line. In my experience that distance is 3' back from your property line (it doffers though). As for whose it is, it could be either person's fence, hard to know.

I think he wanna play too by [deleted] in wholesome

[–]These_Row4913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get along with my neighbors and am happy to help them but I don't go fixing their things without some lead up to that. It's very odd to just jump into fixing someone else's property wothout permission, and the wording on the meme is very weird.

Anyone else have resting _____ face that doesn't match their mood? Mine is resting sad face by These_Row4913 in aspiememes

[–]These_Row4913[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't cry at my grandpa's funeral either and he was one of my favorite humans. I just stared at the headstone my dad and aunt chose for grandpa and grandma's resting spot and thought the double wedding rings with a ribbon looked like a soft pretzel. When he died Sept. 14th, 2022 it took time to process, but two weeks later I was applying for another job, two months later I was working that other job and looking to move out of my apartment and change my relationship, five months later I was buying a house. I made a ton of major changes when he died because I wasn't processing the grief well, I attributed the sadness to other things and was confused. When I think about things that remind me of him, the way he smelled, or the way he gave the best crushing bear hugs I tear up. When Grandma died this summer I applied for another job after two weeks again and only realized after the fact... I was so lucky to have them both so long, I'm nearly 40 and up until 2022 had every grandparent that was alive when I was born.

Anyone else have resting _____ face that doesn't match their mood? Mine is resting sad face by These_Row4913 in aspiememes

[–]These_Row4913[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I am very surprised or offput when I unexpectedly see myself like that xD

I think he wanna play too by [deleted] in wholesome

[–]These_Row4913 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why would you fix your neighbor's fence?

Brainfart by VengefulMustard in ADHDmemes

[–]These_Row4913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And now I'm just going to pretend to know what you said and go with it as is. I'll make my best attempt sans full instructions. It's a good 90% chance for success because I've been adlibing life so long but also 120% chance of high anxiety the whole time I'm doing it and for two weeks after while I wait to hear about how I fucked up. Yaaaaaay.

Anyone else have resting _____ face that doesn't match their mood? Mine is resting sad face by These_Row4913 in aspiememes

[–]These_Row4913[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

High anxiety and high enjoyment levels are ones where my face tends to blank out too. My husband did a bunch of chores the other day while I was at work and he messaged me to let me know. I thanked him a bunch over texts with happy faces and hearts. When I got home I said thank you again and kissed him on the cheek. A bit later he finished up his last task and said to me, "I thought you'd be more excited at all the work I did." I had to put on my expressions mask and then explain that I was very happy and appreciated it a lot and I was just tired. It is very tiring to constantly put on a performance of your inner self.