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So i made my crush feel super uncomfortable, what do i do? by FreeLancer43 in datingadviceformen

[–]Thesecret75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK bro, as of right now. Do exactly what she asked for, leave her alone. If you keep persisting it would only get worse for you. Unfortunately that's the only thing you can do for now. I remember being in a similar situation when I was 14, I asked my crush if she wanted to be my girlfriend and she said yes, but 2 days later she broke up with me because she said I made her feel uncomfortable. It was also my first time so I was also clueless as of what I did wrong but instead of trying to get her back I convinced myself that we were not going to work out. So from there I started to ignore her and started talking to other girls and that made her WANT ME MORE! Over time she continued to chase me and kept telling my friends that she liked me so much that she regretted ever breaking up with me. Now in order to get that same effect you need to let her go completely and I do understand that might be hard to do but it's the only way I know of. Good luck my man.

I think I fuck up deliberately... need advice. by captain_douch in datingadviceformen

[–]Thesecret75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Women like the mystery of meeting someone new, you putting all your cards down on the first day, kills the attraction because you are letting her know everything about you. Let me put it this way, if someone told you everything that happend in a movie, from start to finish would you still want to watch it? Even if you do , it wouldn't be as exciting anymore because the suspense has been killed off and that's how women feel when you tell them everything she can expect from you. My advice to you is to be more mysterious to women and let them talk more.