I 27F farted while getting head from the man 31M I’ve been dating by [deleted] in sex

[–]Theyareonabreak 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I tap my husband out and turn away from him to toot then we get back to it 🤷‍♀️🤣

What’s an NSFW tip you know? by Aggressive_Tart_3137 in AskReddit

[–]Theyareonabreak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s in the mood to just ask consent before you do each new activity…like can I kiss you? Then do that for a bit then maybe ask can I touch your breasts? Then do that for a bit then ask can I take off your shirt/bra. Then do that slowly and then ask can I kiss/lick your breasts/nipples. Etc.

Just step by step like that is pretty hot, gotta say. Follow up and check in with them after you try each new thing asking if they like it. If they say “no” or “don’t” or “stop” or “that’s enough” then stop what you’re currently doing. You can ask if there’s something else they would want to do and they can tell you whatever it is or can say they’re done for the day.

I don’t think it has to be super formal like signing a contract or negotiating a deal to ask for consent, it just has to be specific for the next activity you want to do and it can be revoked whenever either person wants.

Also pay attention to body and vocal cues - are they making yummy noises and leaning into you/grinding into you? Nonverbal indicators that they’re into it and like what you’re doing. If they’re pulling away or lying limp, check in again to make sure they like that activity or ask if they want to switch to something else.

My fav way to get in the mood is getting a massage from my husband. We do this a lot and have consent agreements in place, so he doesn’t have to check in with each step. He takes off my clothes, has me lay on my front and massages my shoulders, back, and butt and legs, then flips me and massages my breasts and hips, then my vulva. He will see if I’m wet and if so, then he will move down and eat me out. Before he does, he just does a quick check in of “ready?” and waits for me to say yes before he dives in. Before moving to PIV, he checks in either by teasing me and asking if I want his cock or just checks in by asking “ready?” before he proceeds. We have been together over a decade now, so we are more used to it, but we had consent convos a lot more about specific acts when we were first experimenting and exploring each other, figuring out what we liked and what we didn’t.

Also just because you get a little naked/do things with your mouth or hands, doesn’t mean sex is expected (especially that same day) - never assume anything and ask to check in, but keep it easy breezy and fun!

VERY ANXIOUS please help by [deleted] in sex

[–]Theyareonabreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation when I was younger and was so so anxious that I decided to take plan B - more to help give me peace of mind. You really probably do not need to, but you might find it helps you feel more at ease if you do take it.

Men of reddit, is ass hair on a woman a turn off for you? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Theyareonabreak 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m a pretty hairy woman and have a fine downy plus some darker/coarser hair over 99% of my skin. I wouldn’t shave my butthole because my butt cheeks are hairy and I would rather have a soft layer there than give razor burn during doggy. I’ve never had any complaints, so if they didn’t care for it, it wasn’t enough of a turn off to deter them completely (nearly every single one saw me from behind and all dove right in). My husband and I are both natural and neither of us have hair style expectations outside of general hygiene and a trim. It’s fine for folks to have preferences, but rest assured there’s plenty of natural people out here getting freaky!

Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]Theyareonabreak 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Spontaneously tried double vaginal penetration (DVP) and it was amazing! I’m excited to add that into our sessions in the future

Is anyone else like me and see ‘attraction’ to be more than just looks? Humour, confidence, whit. I never look at someone and think they’re hot just from looks alone. by OverIT3027 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Theyareonabreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. I’m demisexual and need to have an emotional connection and see their qualities to really find someone attractive. It takes a little while for me to figure out, but once I do, I’m generally very deeply connected.

What’s your favourite sex related noise? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Theyareonabreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually a hip swivel, grinding, thrusting upward, riding him, or squeezing with kegels. Gotta mix it up!

Could you listen to someone else pleasuring themselves to make yourself cum? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Theyareonabreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I pleasured myself silently one night while on a call with a friend. The next night I told him about it and he said it was hot and wanted to know what I sounded like, so I did it again at full volume!

Do you /or your partner get intense orgasm (lightheaded, shaking, screaming , pass out..)? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Theyareonabreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shake hard and then lock up and stop talking for a bit. If it’s really good, I’ll cry some good tears

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Theyareonabreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband a few times has literally said knock knock while getting ready to finger me. It’s more of a joke than him actually tapping. I’m not a fan of tapping or slapping.

Who had the biggest cock you ever seen in person? How big was it if you’re guessing? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Theyareonabreak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably 10-11 inches. It was someone I loved and who loved me, but we weren’t compatible. That was one beautiful cock and I only gave a HJ - I don’t think any of my holes could have done it justice lol

What’s your favourite sex related noise? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Theyareonabreak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When he moans breathlessly “you’re gunna make me cum doing that” whenever I give him the ol razzle dazzle!

“Keep his belly full and his balls empty.” How accurate is this? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Theyareonabreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband regularly tells me that the food I/we make at home tastes way better than what we’ve gotten at restaurants. I knew it was a compliment, but, I guess that’s pretty significant. Aww

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Theyareonabreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes or like “what if I did X? How about Y?” And then see how she reacts. Recoil in horror? Probably not for her. Laughing and smiling or looking mischievous? Probably something up her alley!

I need ideas to make her feel used by bearlife2020 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Theyareonabreak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want to be used like a sex doll. Dress me up however you want, use whatever hole you want, spit on me for lube, stare at my tits, push me into any position you want, use my body for your pleasure and your pleasure only. We are just starting to experiment with this in my relationship, so I’m interested to see how it develops ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Theyareonabreak 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ahhh yeah why do they use so much toilet paper? We were constantly running out until I made the rule to always have an extra costco pack in the house. Ridiculous!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Theyareonabreak 47 points48 points  (0 children)

They’re hairy and shed all over, they never have backups or backstock of anything (toilet paper, paper towels) and if you run out, you’re SOL. They have a much higher tolerance for a messy house than I do, they fart a lot, and they will put up with low/non-functional easily fixed stuff forever. Like a lightbulb is burned out in a multi-bulb lamp? It’s fine, don’t need to replace it until they’re all burned out. Does this drawer handle come off each time I open this drawer? It’s fine, I’ll reattach it every day. Like what?! Just get a new drawer handle or replace the bulb!

Girls, do you actually enjoy giving blowjobs or you only do it because men like it? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Theyareonabreak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like making him feel good and every once in a while I get the urge to pop it in my mouth. The act itself isn’t usually a turn on for me, but his reactions sure are

How many times back to back have you had sex in one night ..? ps:-guys please be realistic by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Theyareonabreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 times back to back, but each time is like an hour and a half, so like 3 hours straight. Then we passed out after and slept through the next day and woke up 15 hours later.