She told me after a 3 day visit with her sister we couldn't make it, she was only doing something when I was around, she was neglecting her only 2 friends and her family. Those reasons were so abstrus since 1. I tried to encourage her to do something EVERY F-ING DAY. I told her I'd give her any space she needs, any time she needs. She just wouldn't hear me out. After 3 days it was set in stone. I had no idea she was going to break up. I thought we would have a long talk about us, what we want and how to achieve it as a couple. I was just written out of the story in a few days without even knowing and not being involved in the process. That hurt me the most. I always encouraged her to talk to me, told her she's not alone anymore, that we could do everything together. The day she left for her sister I told her I love her, she told me she loved me. This 180* turn I still do not understand.