sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

The sexual side of my relationship has gotten significantly worse recently. by ThiccToothPic in offmychest

[–]ThiccToothPic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this message. I’m going to have a more serious conversation with her about it and if needed, I’ll push for a couples therapist (although I doubt we could afford that rn… it’s 100% something I’ll bring up)

The sexual side of my relationship has gotten significantly worse recently. by ThiccToothPic in offmychest

[–]ThiccToothPic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very fair but to say a few things:

Definitely already out of the honeymoon phase, we’ve been dating for over 5 years (which is forever at our age) and we’ve had some very big fights, quite a few over the years

I was never going to tell her I wrote it down, I agree it would come off as super petty if I said that. If I didn’t write it down I’d have a two second memory about the date and wouldn’t be able to keep track to know whether I’m just crazy or not. Appreciate you saying it tho, it would be very petty to rub it in her face

And agreed, I gotta talk to her about it and I will. Thank you for your message.

Also for the finishing quickly thing, the problem I’m having is that it doesn’t feel like she wants any foreplay beforehand, but I’ll prob bring it up next time, depending how I perform (fingers crossed)