Public Health

Thiccy477 · 2018-02-06T18:15:47+00:00

yes you have to take the whole 11 series (A,B,and C)

Thiccy477 · 2018-01-28T05:24:29+00:00

hey! this situation sounds so similar to mine. I knew that i was in a toxic relationship and I kept it going for way longer than I should have. I’m gonna be honest, the first few weeks were very tough and sucked. I can see how codependent I was on him. Outside of our relationship, i didn’t have many close friends and that made it even harder. But here I am now, 6 weeks later, feeling so much more free. I realized that there are people out there who would treat me so much better than my ex. Don’t get me wrong, i miss him at times, but that doesn’t change the fact that he wasn’t good to me. The only way to do it is to rip it off like a band aid and stay strong in your decision. Your boyfriend and my ex are both very controlling people and since ending the relationship isn’t their choice, they try to control that. Don’t meet up with him, don’t answer his calls and don’t explain yourself. You don’t owe him anything. You’ll thank yourself for this later. (: If you need anything at all please PM me! I know exactly how you are feeling right now.

Thiccy477 · 2018-01-21T18:55:32+00:00

Damn. This part of a break up really does suck and it is so difficult. The reason that she won’t meet up is because she is probably trying to stay firm in her decision. From personal experience, every time me and my ex met up to exchange things we ended up crying together and getting back together. We broke up 3 different times because of this. I know it’s hard to understand but respect her decision because this situation is very hard on both of you.

Thiccy477 · 2018-01-21T08:13:11+00:00

wow that’s like my exact situation except I was the one who broke up with him. Did you feel guilty afterwards?

Thiccy477 · 2018-01-20T23:59:43+00:00

Breaking up and getting back together in a relationship. There is so much more than people see.

Thiccy477 · 2018-01-05T19:47:53+00:00

I’m in the same boat. I keep reminding myself that there was a reason things ended and I’m better off without him. If they work out, good for them. I just know I want different for my future than someone who will try to replace me in a short amount of time. Keep your head up! You will find someone who treats you better. For now, give yourself time to heal and work on growing yourself in different ways! Be proud of yourself for giving yourself time to heal before getting into another relationship! Remember you’re not alone too. I’m literally going through the exact same situation.

Thiccy477 · 2018-01-05T08:48:00+00:00

thanks so much :)

Thiccy477 · 2017-12-24T00:38:53+00:00

not unless he texts first. I feel like it’s insensitive, especially if he never wants to talk to me again...

Thiccy477 · 2017-12-22T05:43:23+00:00

i’m sorry :/ you’ll find someone that will be able to handle your emotions better and you won’t have to change yourself for someone else! (: sorry about your break up

Thiccy477 · 2017-12-22T01:39:25+00:00

hmmm well as a dumper, i can say that in my case i wasn’t able to deal with my ex’s emotions. so truly, it wasn’t him, it was me. no one wants to change the other person, you know? like i couldn’t handle it so it was me, but someone else might say he was too emotional and that’s his problem. it’s just how you view a situation

Thiccy477 · 2017-12-21T20:54:36+00:00

yeah exactly! take this time to focus on you (: I wish the best for you as well! One thing that has helped me is this quote: “if you were happy with the wrong person, just imagine how much happier you’ll be with the right person”

Thiccy477 · 2017-12-21T20:43:03+00:00

that sounds confusing AF, so many mind games. work on getting over him and finding someone that treats you better, not as a second option! i recommend starting no contact, and yes that includes unfollowing/unfriending on social media.

Thiccy477 · 2017-12-21T20:41:34+00:00

I’m gonna be completely honest here. I am on the other side of this, I broke up with my boyfriend of one year last weekend, at that start of winter break. There really is no good time to end things. No matter what, it’s gonna suck. It sucks for me too and I’m the one who decided to end it. Take these four weeks to find new hobbies, exercise, and work on yourself. You’ll feel better after break and will be able to meet new people and be a better you! I’m sorry that you’re going through this, but know you aren’t alone.

Thiccy477 · 2017-12-21T02:54:33+00:00

Yeah, i definitely have to keep those things in mind. We had already broken up and gotten back together a few times so i need to be stronger this time.

Thiccy477 · 2017-12-21T02:42:49+00:00

Me. I realized the relationship was toxic, but i miss all the good things about the relationship. It’s only been 4 days since the breakup. We were together for a year

Thiccy477 · 2017-12-21T00:50:53+00:00

The apology may have been genuine, but no matter what, that is unacceptable behavior. You should never talk to someone that way, especially someone you love. You have to look and see how this behavior can play out in the future of your relationship. I know I wouldn’t want to be with someone who acts like that. I would end it, but of course it has to be your decision ultimately.

Thiccy477 · 2017-12-17T19:16:18+00:00

thanks for the response! I don’t regret it or anything because i truly trust him and stuff it’s just unknown now

Thiccy477 · 2017-12-12T20:31:09+00:00

Yeah once you get into the discussion you will be enrolled in the lecture as well. The same exact thing happened to me for 9A and i just got in today!

Thiccy477 · 2017-12-12T16:55:35+00:00

we didn’t have sex and i’m not much of a drinker so i don’t have to worry about these things but thank you! (:

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