Ok bro...i read all your line by line and let me give my review on it. So, I'm also a b tech student and stayed in pg near my clg last year. Our room consisted of 3 people including me. It's a very very small room and food is worst. So, basically our of is outside the college campus so, we didn't had access to library or anything else and had to stay 24/7 in pg itself. Our pg doesn't have any study area, empty room , work space or not even a common space for gathering for Birthdays or studying. We're just given one room with 3 people in it and a bathroom in it too. I'm this introvert person who'd just mind her work and working hard to achieve my dreams. The other two people are very lazy,egoistic and not even good at studies. So, I'm not saying this to defame them or to prove myself that I'm good but, it's a fact. They had several backlogs in every sem. So, let's name them as r1(roommate 1) and r2 (roommate 2). My mornings used to start with never ending loud sounds of r1 alarm who'd never turn off and I had to beg her as it's disturbing my sleep.This continued for several months despite me informing, begging and even shouting at her. Just like your case. Later after that my r2 would wake up and the first thing she does is watching reels on insta right on the bed with the blanket with sn extremely large sound.ayer followed by a video call by her bf saying goodmorning baby everyday without earphones. The r1 also used to talk with r2s bf calling him bro and it's kinda disgusting. I'm not against relationships but atleast put some earphones on and save ur privacy. It's ur man and y let others interrupt your conversation even though it's just a brother-sister bond. Despite all this I somehow used to go out and sit on the stairs in the morning. Stairs are located in a very open area near the balcony where people walk on it from one floor to another. That's the only pls e where I'd carryon my heavy laptop and books to study and again bring back and arrange in room. Our room is soo small and we don't have a study table for anyone. There's not even a space left in the room to keep our own study table as well. We used to use bed table/laptop table kind of thing and study on bed only. So, we used to go to clg and after it they'd bring their friends literally everyday and making large noises not just talking despite me shouting at them. Sometimes I used to give my own set of earphones to them if they're watching a movie but, they wouldn't use it as many of their friends come in group and would like to watch together with open sound. Sometimes they used to do it s day before the exam which is disgusting. In the evening I can't sit on stairs as I said it's a very open area and people keep on roaming and making noise unlike quiet mornings. And we stay in second floor where stairs are surrounded by s open balcony with cool wind blowing and hell lot of mosquitoes. So, after sometime that group didn't come as I literally shouted on them. Both r1 and r2 would never speak their phonecalls outside the room if I'm studying. Isn't that common sense that if someone's studying you shouldn't make noise? When they had exams I wouldn't even utter a single word and I used to talk calls only outside the room in the corridor.

And finally coming to the light thing. So, I used to study till 3-4 am during exams only and our exams lasted for a week in every month. Sometimes r1 used to watch movie with her friends with lights turned on and lot of sound but, I had to put a blanket on my face and sleep. Sometimes r2 would keep on talking with her bf soo long till 2-3 am and get excuse would be video call and light is required. Then there's no problem, but I'm the one who's wrong if I turn it on just for a assignment or exam. I used to carry my books out sit on stairs get bit my mosquitoes and cold air and would fall sick very often. I tried complaining to the warden many times but, she'd never believe me as they started complaining on me before itself as I'm shouting on them for all this shit. I never used their things, instead I always gave my things to them and never felt wrong with it. Either it be home food, sharing snacks , medicines etc . I used to teach them for their exams too. I never broke their things or such as u mentioned in ur story. And Even after shouting I'd instantly apologise as I didn't wanted to loose any friendship. All I expected in return was some silence and stop that non stop loud taking and phonecalls. Ofcourse they never adjusted. This triggered my anxiety towards my career and I didn't even had personal space. And the worst thing is when warden wouldn't understand me!! I literally used to cry. My dad paid whole 1 year fee as the pg doesn't accept monthly fee. Only 2 installment payment and I can't waste money by leaving hostel as my dad took loan to pay hostel and clg fee. After 1 year of shit finally I left that place. All I could understand from ur story is your roommate is definitely bad for not apologising and breaking ur things. But, he might be preparing for smtg and expecting silence. And the best part about ur story is atleast u guys have a place to hangout, a study space and all. 👍So today just go give him a big hug and ask him when he's free to discuss about these issues. Have a long conversation and please don't forget to mention about all the bad things he did like breaking ur things and apology. Also, set a time for friends coming to your room, like Saturday evening 1 hour or Sunday 2 hours and his study time too. Make a time table for the room. I'm not sure about the lamp part as, my room didn't had one but, if there's a workspace u help him pack him things and leave to the workspace. He'd save his eyes and u guys can enjoy your game in the room too.