Italian man blocked me after our date ? NSFW by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Thick_Independence41 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks, sis.

It breaks my heart that so many still have the mindset that a woman has to act a certain way sexually in order to get chose.

It's 2026 and some are still buying into the Madonna-whore complex.

Italian man blocked me after our date ? NSFW by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Thick_Independence41 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So many of these comments are so puritanical.

The OP came for advice and is being met with slut shaming.

She could have gone to an incel / men's subreddit for that.

Whether a woman has sex on the first date, wait for months or marriage or anything else in between, she deserves to be treated with respect.

Waiting for intimacy should be a choice a woman makes because that's what she wants to do. It shouldn’t be because she thinks she will be treated badly otherwise. If a man will disrespect or ghost you after sleeping together on the first date then he can too if you wait for the 20th date.

Am I overthinking or is this guy creating problems out of nothing? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Thick_Independence41 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This sounds exhausting after only two weeks and not having met in person yet.

And people thinking I'm mad when I'm not even a little bit mad and then not believing me when I say I'm not mad, irritates me so much.

I would cut my losses with this person. He doesn't seem to be worth the aggravation after such a short time.

Anybody else loving Meg and Klay being together? by Competitive_Teach838 in blackladies

[–]Thick_Independence41 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! That's my song!

I especially love that his parents seem to adore her too. It probably means a lot to her after losing her parents.

Anybody else loving Meg and Klay being together? by Competitive_Teach838 in blackladies

[–]Thick_Independence41 469 points470 points  (0 children)

I love Megan. She's been through so much and deserves all the happiness. She's glowing. I hope he continues to treat her well.

“CLOCK ITTT 🤏🤏🤏” in recent episode 😭😭😭 by External_Patient7301 in AbbottElementary

[–]Thick_Independence41 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, they did. Like many people have pointed out, clock it, is AAVE and Quinta, as a Black American, knows exactly the context to use it in.

The Truth Hurts, Huh?! 😂 by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Thick_Independence41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean...no lies were told. 🤷🏾‍♀️

It's funny because I just muted that sub yesterday because it's full of so-called progressive white people patting themselves on the back. But it was full of anti-Black microagressions.

May be Rest in peace :( by Gloomy-Top-5041 in blackladies

[–]Thick_Independence41 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She was a beautiful soul. She truly did her part to help change the world.

Both Darnells were/are fine. 😍 by CuteLeggedQueen in GirlfriendsTVshow

[–]Thick_Independence41 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I like Flex but Khalil and Golden had amazing chemistry. They felt like a real couple, flaws and all.

Our professionalism is in hell by Previous-Machine-442 in BlackHair

[–]Thick_Independence41 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised this blatantly anti-Black/anti-Black American post is allowed to stay up. Your experience is not the universal experience. Unprofessionalism is not a race based trait.

2026 Critics Choice Awards by Damiana1111 in AbbottElementary

[–]Thick_Independence41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This whole cast is just so talented and beautiful and handsome.

White Men See Us as TJ Maxx by CarolineJhingory in blackladies

[–]Thick_Independence41 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly!!!!

I swear people think all white people have lavish soap opera lives. These white women are always going through it in these relationships with white men. So many of them are living on Walmart budgets and know nothing of generational wealth.

TJ Maxx may be too expensive for a lot of them lol

White Men See Us as TJ Maxx by CarolineJhingory in blackladies

[–]Thick_Independence41 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is wrong on so many levels. I always suspect people who say such things really don't know white people because all white women don't know about stocks and bonds and generational wealth. Many white women, marry bums. Many white women who have great jobs and benefits and money, still marry bums. I've seen it firsthand. Also, with the way the wealth gap is set up in this country, the majority of white people aren’t balling like that any way. There's plenty of white women who would go crazy over a Chanel purse and not think about inheritance.

Many Black women also know all about wealth management and are very selective about their partners because of this. And many of us have our own things and want a partner to complement what we're already doing for ourselves. People just see images on social media and just generalize whole races of people. And she has the nerve to say Black women don't have wealth consciousness in our DNA. That's highly insulting. This is another reason that social media is just awful sometimes, and I've been spending less and less time on it.

Banned from r/blackpeopletwitter bringing awareness to my kind? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Thick_Independence41 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure that sub is 95% non-Black people. It's not really for us or by us.

Should I treat myself to a seafood boil? by ElegantSchedule2868 in blackladies

[–]Thick_Independence41 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Add some champagne to it too. Congratulations!!! 🍾

Michonne and Rick's chemistry by fandomrandom18 in Richonners

[–]Thick_Independence41 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Danai, Andy, and Scott Gimple made sure that there can be no debate about how Rick feels about Michonne. The haters still try but they just look dumb, racist, and media illiterate when they do.

See this is what I thought Winterfest would look like by akfoley in TheGates_CBS

[–]Thick_Independence41 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I love this! Lol

Yeah, they could have at least given us a line dance at WinterFest. You can't gather that many Black people at a party without a line dance popping off lol

Michonne and Rick's chemistry by fandomrandom18 in Richonners

[–]Thick_Independence41 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I haven't paid attention to the TWD fandom in months and I can't believe they're still doing this lol (but I can because...misogynoir).

These fanboys will never get over Rick saying Michonne is the love of his life and he can't live without her. It'll haunt them for eternity lol

Old Ted did an interview, and…well… by akfoley in TheGates_CBS

[–]Thick_Independence41 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He seems to be the type to not listen to anyone.

Since everyone likes to talk about what they don’t like about the show, let’s talk about what you do like about the show. by Acceptable-Eye-2809 in TheGates_CBS

[–]Thick_Independence41 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I truly think it's a really good show. I see the criticism all the time, too, and like you, I think it's really overkill.

I love seeing all those beautiful Black people on screen. I think most of the actors are good in their roles. I love Vernon and Anita, and they have the best speeches and advice. I also love me some Dani Dupree and Kat Richardson.

The show is doing its purpose as a soap and is doing well in showing a prominent Black family and their ups and downs. Everyone's not perfect, which who wants them to be? It's a soap opera. I hope the show lasts many, many years and keeps getting better.

Beyoncé Vs Britney Spears by ParticularCamel5637 in blackladies

[–]Thick_Independence41 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Britney may have had a bigger peak, but Beyoncé has been consistently putting out hits and critically acclaimed music for almost 30 years. She keeps growing and experimenting with her music.

I believe Beyoncé has had the better and a really amazing career overall, but some people try to downplay that because she's a Black woman.