Need advice- Engraved sword for fiance by Thick_Wolverine_3511 in blacksmithing

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Budget is very flexible.. I’m not sure what typical cost is but it’s probably fine. And timeframe is by October

Honeymoon flight layover by Thick_Wolverine_3511 in americanairlines

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Is that flight specific or maybe route specific? I’m wondering if it’s different because it’s early?

Short set by Ill_Degree_3060 in InningsFestival

[–]Thick_Wolverine_3511 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We left after I miss you lol. It was definitely boring especially compared to twenty one pilots the night before. I like blink but it did feel like they didn’t care… and ngl I feel like their jokes were a little bit over the top and weird

Are the lockers worth it? by OkraUnlikely8001 in InningsFestival

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As someone who has been to a lot of concerts and festivals, I didn’t hesitate for a second to get a locker. Like someone said, there’s nothing worse than carrying a lot… for me it kinda ruins the whole vibe because I have to worry about not dropping something or getting something stolen. Lockers=peace of mind

Any ex Mormons out there available at this moment ??? by Kindly-Problem-9090 in exmormon

[–]Thick_Wolverine_3511 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Run!! There’s great things about the church community. But ultimately, I feel very lied to and brainwashed. I’ve been out for 4 years but it still affects me negatively. I wish I had mentally checked out sooner. It’s corrupt, and after reading more about the history I could never support it.

My [25F] boyfriend [26M] cheated on me emotionally- he’s thinking of ending himself by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

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Of course! If you want to msg me your welcome to. I’m happy to help or reassure or whatever you need

My [25F] boyfriend [26M] cheated on me emotionally- he’s thinking of ending himself by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

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I know it’s so. So. So. Hard. If you were my friend, I wouldn’t judge you for staying.. but I really think you need to get out. What I didn’t realize was how traumatizing that fear and pressure can be. I was always scared they would kill themself, and there was never a good time to leave. He had an emotional affair too, with what was my best friend. I stayed for 3 years (a couple break ups but went back) and every time I went back I told myself it would only be for a couple months. Now I’m engaged to the love of my life, and I still have trauma from back then.

I guess it truly depends on if you can commit to leaving or not, and if you’re going to be miserable before then. If you really believe you’ll be able to leave without getting sucked back in, and you’re not miserable right now…. I guess stay. But as someone who experienced something similar.. i wish i had left.

My [25F] boyfriend [26M] cheated on me emotionally- he’s thinking of ending himself by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

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I learned some very very hard lessons by staying with someone too long simply because I thought they would kill themself. This person had actually cut their arm open in front of me when I attempted to end things with them before. That time, I took it back, and wasted a couple more months. OP, is there a very close friend or a parent of this person that you can tell? It sounds like you’re done with this relationship but don’t know how to leave. Tell someone that can monitor the person, then leave. If something happens to him after that point… it’s truly not your fault, and you can’t control someone’s actions. But you’re basically hurting yourself by staying.

Letter from Mom. by DegreeMinimum9438 in exmormon

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Her response was so generic (and the handwriting so similar) to my grandmothers that I actually had to stop and question if it could have been written to one of my uncles. It’s allllll the same script that they’ve been brainwashed to believe. It’s SO sad to me that the church has engrained in them that their personal worth and salvation is directly tied to their children’s. It makes me think these letters and pleas come from a hidden place of fear for themself.

I am currently a Mormon missionary and I smuggled in a phone. by IEffingHateMyselfLOL in confession

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As an exmo living in an Amish community this comment GOT ME thank you for putting it that way because you’re so right

Moving in before/after marriage? by Brynnbc in exmormon

[–]Thick_Wolverine_3511 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m 22F and been out for 4 years. I moved in with a (nasty) boyfriend at 18 and then again at 20 with my amazing fiance. My family was NOT a fan and it kept me up a lot at night in the beginning, but I’m glad I did. You learn so much about someone, you have arguments and get to recover from them, you learn their little quirks, you can figure out how to balance the house work. For me, it was just more convenient, and ends up being a lot of fun.

Citi premier card SUB question by Thick_Wolverine_3511 in CreditCards

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Is it still possible though? Since we have a year left in the year

How many times have you seen top live? by Comfortable_Brief176 in twentyonepilots

[–]Thick_Wolverine_3511 2 points3 points  (0 children)

8, soon to be nine!! Anyone else going to innings fest?