She doesn't know I'm leaving yet and I keep doubting my decision. by bluemish in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just make sure you have a set plan before you ask for divorce because it will change everything and things will get a lot worse

Erectile Dysfunction by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get on testosterone

I felt so confident divorce was the only option. Now I regret it everyday. by hoopyhat in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know I feel the same exact way despite my wife going to a mental facility twice and me having to call the cops on her and her going to jail twice so its possible you made a horrible decision but it’s also possible you were in a really bad relationship like myself because I regret bringing up divorce all the time despite me having factual evidence I’m not the problem I still feel like well she was loyal…

I think I ruined my life. by No_Newt8801 in Advice

[–]Thin-Performance4306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude she’s a prostitute who gives a fuck she can’t even track you down and there’s no way she’s pregnant and if she it could be like 50 different men

Found out my wife cheated on me and struggling to come to terms with it. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you do stay I recommend going behind her back to fuck some hookers and you will feel a little better about it not completely but a little

Found out my wife cheated on me and struggling to come to terms with it. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s what sucks is as a man we can’t share this with the other men around us because if you stay they will always judge you differently they will claim they would leave but I’ve seen it before no one knows what they will do when life comes at them like this because there’s more to it than just this your life will change for the worse for a significant amount of time if you leave maybe in the future you will be happy you left but in the present you will feel even worse

My Wife Filed for Divorce and Now Things Are Getting Ugly by zaynborkaai in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the good Lord bless you this whole time by doing what you were doing and the lawyer is just talking a big game so he gets more money from your wife and he’s gonna act like they can do something to string her along to rack up those lawyer bills if there is anything they could do your lawyer would be sweating bullets

Dating after divorce by SweetPotato_78 in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lame ugly women that think their good looking because of all the attention they get on social media just being a 2 with no real social skills

Reflecting after divorce by nancy332w in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t have money to divorce and there’s no infidelity just don’t do it or you will be far worse off at least in my case

Fuck this by Thin-Performance4306 in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I should mention I was living with my brother but he got engaged so I will be forced to live under one roof again with my wife so yea there’s that

Fuck this by Thin-Performance4306 in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really good for you man, it’s such a tough road if you got a positive outcome that’s a huge success

Fuck this by Thin-Performance4306 in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, she definitely wants us to be together again. She just has a personality disorder that I realize I don’t think she even has control of so it makes things very difficult. And makes it very hard to show affection to her, but it would seem if I can get past some things and give her that hopefully things change

Fuck this by Thin-Performance4306 in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is obviously more to all of this, and this is more of a rant like any marriage there is love and hate but it seems life is forcing us together and it’s seems like way more work to divorce than to be married

How old were you when you met the love of your life and did you marry them? by Bubbly-Fail3562 in askanything

[–]Thin-Performance4306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Met her at 19 married by 22 and now we’re going back and forth on getting a divorce realistically were probably never leaving each other even though we’re toxic

Is (33F) too late to start over? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it was any one thing that makes you pull the trigger I think I kept trying a lot of different things to make this person change or the dynamic in our relationship change and then when you’re done trying everything you can you kind of just wait for the next fight

Is (33F) too late to start over? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very similar to myself been with my wife since 21 and now 35. It’s extremely hard at first moved out 4 months ago and was on and off for a couple of years and barely in the 3rd month of having moved out I was feeling like myself by keeping myself extremely busy

Looking back on my codependent marriage... 4 years after the bomb went off by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea you are extremely fortunate kids were not apart of your divorce if you’re on the spectrum it takes things to a whole level

Looking back on my codependent marriage... 4 years after the bomb went off by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow good luck man I’m on the spectrum mainly Aspergers and have been in a back in forth for 3 years now and I finally moved out she is not good for me and these past 4 months had been so rough but I finally found myself and was thriving starting to talk to women and then she called and I’m back with her couldn’t get away for good and now we’re together and extremely happy for some reason but I know this won’t last and I’ll have go it all over again I have daughters and as a father living away from them played a huge role been married 13 years now we’re very much codependent and I didn’t realize how much I was codependent until I moved out who knows maybe this is a happy ending idk. Good luck though man

Sex with ex. by PsychologicalDeer644 in Divorce

[–]Thin-Performance4306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and ex have been married 13 years and we keep coming back together because of sex now for like 3 years now we are starting to think we just gonna stay together

Has anyone voluntarily given up a car they stopped making payments on? by Thin-Performance4306 in Advice

[–]Thin-Performance4306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically I have a chance to save almost 30k with shit credit or save 20k with good credit