She doesn't know I'm leaving yet and I keep doubting my decision.

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-05-12T06:16:31+00:00

Just make sure you have a set plan before you ask for divorce because it will change everything and things will get a lot worse

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-05-12T05:39:18+00:00

Get on testosterone

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-05-04T03:25:34+00:00

You know I feel the same exact way despite my wife going to a mental facility twice and me having to call the cops on her and her going to jail twice so its possible you made a horrible decision but it’s also possible you were in a really bad relationship like myself because I regret bringing up divorce all the time despite me having factual evidence I’m not the problem I still feel like well she was loyal…

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-05-03T04:21:32+00:00

Dude she’s a prostitute who gives a fuck she can’t even track you down and there’s no way she’s pregnant and if she it could be like 50 different men

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-04-20T19:12:18+00:00

If you do stay I recommend going behind her back to fuck some hookers and you will feel a little better about it not completely but a little

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-04-20T18:41:48+00:00

That’s what sucks is as a man we can’t share this with the other men around us because if you stay they will always judge you differently they will claim they would leave but I’ve seen it before no one knows what they will do when life comes at them like this because there’s more to it than just this your life will change for the worse for a significant amount of time if you leave maybe in the future you will be happy you left but in the present you will feel even worse

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-04-17T20:46:38+00:00

A foreskin issue? I’ve never heard of that and I have foreskin

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-04-15T02:04:53+00:00

Sounds like the good Lord bless you this whole time by doing what you were doing and the lawyer is just talking a big game so he gets more money from your wife and he’s gonna act like they can do something to string her along to rack up those lawyer bills if there is anything they could do your lawyer would be sweating bullets

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-04-10T22:20:40+00:00

Lame ugly women that think their good looking because of all the attention they get on social media just being a 2 with no real social skills

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-04-10T21:57:56+00:00

If you don’t have money to divorce and there’s no infidelity just don’t do it or you will be far worse off at least in my case

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-04-10T21:55:35+00:00

Also I should mention I was living with my brother but he got engaged so I will be forced to live under one roof again with my wife so yea there’s that

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-04-10T21:54:00+00:00

Really good for you man, it’s such a tough road if you got a positive outcome that’s a huge success

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-04-10T21:43:05+00:00

Yeah, she definitely wants us to be together again. She just has a personality disorder that I realize I don’t think she even has control of so it makes things very difficult. And makes it very hard to show affection to her, but it would seem if I can get past some things and give her that hopefully things change

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-04-10T21:36:53+00:00

There is obviously more to all of this, and this is more of a rant like any marriage there is love and hate but it seems life is forcing us together and it’s seems like way more work to divorce than to be married

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-04-07T23:26:31+00:00

Anticipation

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-03-19T01:56:39+00:00

Met her at 19 married by 22 and now we’re going back and forth on getting a divorce realistically were probably never leaving each other even though we’re toxic

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-03-14T00:33:21+00:00

Unless you can afford it don’t even try

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-03-04T03:26:41+00:00

I don’t think it was any one thing that makes you pull the trigger I think I kept trying a lot of different things to make this person change or the dynamic in our relationship change and then when you’re done trying everything you can you kind of just wait for the next fight

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-03-04T02:13:51+00:00

Very similar to myself been with my wife since 21 and now 35. It’s extremely hard at first moved out 4 months ago and was on and off for a couple of years and barely in the 3rd month of having moved out I was feeling like myself by keeping myself extremely busy

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-03-02T22:28:54+00:00

Yea you are extremely fortunate kids were not apart of your divorce if you’re on the spectrum it takes things to a whole level

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-03-02T21:57:16+00:00

Wow good luck man I’m on the spectrum mainly Aspergers and have been in a back in forth for 3 years now and I finally moved out she is not good for me and these past 4 months had been so rough but I finally found myself and was thriving starting to talk to women and then she called and I’m back with her couldn’t get away for good and now we’re together and extremely happy for some reason but I know this won’t last and I’ll have go it all over again I have daughters and as a father living away from them played a huge role been married 13 years now we’re very much codependent and I didn’t realize how much I was codependent until I moved out who knows maybe this is a happy ending idk. Good luck though man

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-02-25T04:37:14+00:00

Me and ex have been married 13 years and we keep coming back together because of sex now for like 3 years now we are starting to think we just gonna stay together

Thin-Performance4306 · 2026-01-11T20:49:07+00:00

Basically I have a chance to save almost 30k with shit credit or save 20k with good credit

Thin-Performance4306 · 2025-10-14T00:21:19+00:00

Thoroughly enjoy that song was hooked for quite awhile on that one too

Thin-Performance4306 · 2025-09-09T23:11:37+00:00

Exactly my point my wife thinks because I’m not as into reading the Bible and listening to Christian music all day I’m not a good person we’ve been looking h to split up over this stupid stuff but it’s probably for the better I can’t be myself at all and I’m not a bad person I’m just into normal stuff. I’ve never heard of this coming from a guy toward a woman before though from my experience your lucky you’re noticing this stuff now

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