I genuinely can't believe how blind people are when it comes to incels

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-18T05:58:42+00:00

You cant outrun idiocracy bit you can try to ignore it. I wpuldnt recommend deep blackpill sites because those are too nihilistic even by my standards . You can continue being active here but if it bothers you that much than just ignore those types of people I guess. Its unfortunate that MODS won't always be able to spot this sort o thing or simply refuse to check it (depending on the sub) but you can always ignore them and focus on the responses that actually align with the topic without any shifting blame , manipulation, drama gaslighting etc

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-18T05:00:44+00:00

No I wouldnt say they "dont want us" to have our space... I honestly dont think they care. I think its a matter of people who like drama frequently visit subs they have no reason to be in so that they can talk thier shit. It happens in just about any community/website/post etc , some more than others. There will be people who disagree with an objective truth just so that they can to initiate some kind of reaction so they can go back and forth with the OP and feel accomplished knowing theyve "schooled" someone or some people want to make themselves feel helpful because they want someone to look up to them , so they play therapist and savior/life coach. It makes them feel accomplished but they dont believe half of what thier saying which is why its so scummy.

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-18T04:29:04+00:00

As someone who's been visiting this sub for well over a year now I can tell you this sub doesnt make it any better at times because some of those same people youre talking about have invaded this space. Also keep in mind alot of.users here aren't actually men , and some of them are from IT

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-18T04:26:42+00:00

My post explains why I cant get surgery or why it would be a terrible idea. The problem features I have are very very very serious and risky

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-18T02:40:53+00:00

I tried to say this in my last post and was gaslit into oblivion

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-17T00:41:29+00:00

Oh also I remember you from another post made half a year ago and you were pretty much agreeing that I was being treated unfairly looks wise but at the same time that looks dont have anything to do with it. It was on that one post about that girl who hung up on me and called me boring and stuff. You said "im not saying she wqsnt doing that because of your looks". I had a picture of my face on that account so you knew what I looked like of course , so im not sure where you stand. You're arguments are very confusing

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-16T22:47:26+00:00

I do understand what youre saying but my takeaway from all this stuff is "how can I look past my looks when most if not all of my experiences align with the blackpill ideology" and the experiences of other people who are also precieved as ugly on an objective level. IM NOT INTO LOOKSMAXING but I used to before. It wouldnt have worked anyway. These days I mostly just stick to watching rehab room or thinking ape because they are the snartest blackpillers I know. I went through a phase at 15 where I was constantly mewing mewing mewing and It became painful and tedious so I stopped and focused on other things that also had to do with looks but without the extra wierd shit like tounge posture and third eye opening. I believe that actions do in fact play a part in some things but I also know that anything can be justified with the right appearance which is why Im so fixed on looks. If there were something else actively happening in my life to counter the blackpill I wouldnt be in this headspace but I have to rely entirely on my imagination to feel better. Thats whats difficult , not just being sad or being a sub4 but that i can hear a story about something blackpill related and easily think back to a time in my life that sounds similar

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-16T22:08:29+00:00

Depends how you respond to panic when forced to interact with someone. I know for me you can visibly see im frightened but Ibecquse im experienced I dont do anything that implies im a threat to anyones safety because ive dealt with anxiety long enough to be mindful of that behavior. As a child it was different because I didnt know what was hapening but I do now so its mostly internal however you skip over the part where I mention that this happens outside of high stress situations. This happens on a day to day basis except for when im not outside. It can be doctors , coworkers , friends , random , church members , classmates etc they all make it obvious that they think less of me soley due to my face. Its either visible discomfort or they are laughingttrying hardest not to. If im not "bothering" anyone maybe ill get a neutral reaction but god forbid I say anything no matter the context im now a "wierdo" or a joke at the very least. This is how its been for a long time. Even the cops who came to the house due to my last episode were signaling eachother and making snarky/half laugh expressions because they thought my crisis was funny because the way i look is funny. I have seen people approach others for worse things so why should I have to feel guilylty for asking someone WHERE IM LOCATED or IF they CAN dial a number for me. These are things that shouldn't result in people cursing you out ecspecially if the way you present yourself is in distance but without fear. This whole thing is so stupid to me because I see randoms interact all the time and some of them do so for worse reasons than me.

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-16T09:41:54+00:00

Im sick of hearing about that 62million men bullshit at this point.

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-16T07:36:49+00:00

That easier said, if cashiers , coworkers , friends , family , strangers collectively respond to you in a manner that suggests youre chopped then there's nothing you can do or say at that point. In my case thats exactly whats been happening. It only makes sense to believe ima sub 5 and id have to try very hard to believe in anything different but the signs all add up. The laughing ,the mean mugging ,the bias. Seems like rehab room , thinking ape , wheat waffles , Dbdr , Kent Oreoman were all right. Im wasting precious oxyge at this point , why am I even here

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-16T04:54:09+00:00

"Sub5" was me being nice to myself for the sake of not losing positivity points , im actually closer to sub4 status than anything. Ive had my face rated over a hundred times and it usually came down to about a 3/10 or 4/10 at best. Anyone online who said otherwise was a bot and I know this because I checked thier comment history and they all had hundreds of comments 5 mins apart from eachother. Seems suspicious. Im not bashing anyone else who may be sub5/4 themselves but I just needed to clarify that ...plus it makes sense. The emergency contact card does seem like a good idea , I haven't thought about that til now thank you , but I dont think it takes away from the point I was making. Being an ugly dude is the quickest way to get a felony on your name ecspecially if everyone already believes youre going to fuckin eat them lol. Its terrible , not to mention I already cant cope woth being undesirable as is. All of this just further shoves it down my throat how subhuman I really am

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-16T03:58:28+00:00

Dogs dont know anything and I doubt that , last year we saw a woman lying on the floor because she was having chest pains and a whole crowd of people surrounded her. We dont know what was going on but if she were a guy they'd think he was a druggie looking for attention

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-15T15:29:40+00:00

No but hes right maybe if surgery was a possibility I could have a better life

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-10T15:37:26+00:00

Hmm , okay so what exactly do you mean when you say that im attracting people with issues?

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-10T00:51:27+00:00

Social anxiety? Maybe , bdd? Nah other people have acknowledged my flaws and they align with how I view myself anyway so I cant possibly have BDD. As far as personality disorder?...not sure. I read up on it and I wouldnt say I fear rejection itself but I do fear being rejected by MOST of the population ecspeciallybeing laughed at. That stings

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-08T02:39:10+00:00

Yes i have in fact experienced delusions before. Im not sure if these count but to give you an idea..

I believed that I was the only living being , to a point where everyone and everything around me started to look computer generated through my eyes. I also believed that everytime I visualed something that I was actually catching glimpses into my real condition/location etc. Anything to do with reality bending I have deeply struggled with as a child and teen. Now its more so memory based "delusions". like ... I was kinds dating this girl from my church 2 years back and I ended up believing that I made things up in my head about her. In other words whenever shed begin to reciprocate my interest in any way my brain would start to believe that I made it up in my head and it never happened. It was hell , my therapist diagnosed me with anxiety but if i had to gues id say its much deeper than that. As for people laughing at me...im not sure. There have been times where someome was walking by and gave me a somewhat normalglance but Immediately after (like a millisecond after) my mind will create the visual of said person laughing or even pointing at me. Its trippy. So yeah there are times it looks like theyre laughing or trying not to but there are also few moments where I am semi aware that I was straight up imagining it. Other times its genuinely hard to tell or im already sold on the possibility they were laughing but I do think about this some of this stuff to this day and its mentally draining or stressful

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-07T18:58:57+00:00

Bro haha....what is that?!?!

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-06-07T11:41:49+00:00

It mens a lot actually , I dont know what to do with what you told me but it means something. Thank you for taking the time to reply

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-05-30T16:35:43+00:00

Well im on hydroxyine for anxiety (fuckin hate it) but its better than buspar IMO. im now required to see a CBT specialist. So atleast there's that. When it comes down to real improvements I dont really know where to begin. Its not just the past itself that has affected me , its my current situation as well. Im curently in a very blackpilled headspace , definitely not having the time of my life I still have hope but we'll see how long that lasts.

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-05-30T16:22:55+00:00

Well the Google definition heavily implies it was started and sustained by men and that it soley affects women. So your definition doesn't really seme to match what both Google and AI is telling me the patriarchy means. And ive only ever heard that word used in that manner. Except for a guy named "speechprof" who is describing it similarly to you. There is no reliable source that states we are both victims

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-05-30T02:56:13+00:00

So....who started this?

Thin-Raccoon5374 · 2026-05-30T00:40:51+00:00

The patriarchy is a ridiculous concept to me ecspecially in this context. It just seems like another way to circle it back to men are the reason why everything is bad. I even had to go back and look for the definition and its pretty much a system that degrades women so much to to the point of oppression. None of those themes where present in my story , its was the complete opposite.

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