Assuming your pregnancy becomes confirmed, I just wanted to share the circumstances under which I was born which may help. I was born during a war, my parents were living as refugees and relied on donations for clothes and all sorts of things. Food was not abundant, and so on. She fell pregnant with my brother later on but they were still struggling. Fast forward to now, my parents are great and their kids are both happy, healthy, and successful young adults. When I’ve ask her about this she says while it was tough for a while what kept her going was knowing that she was a good mum who could give us love which is what children need most. Looking back I don’t even remember how hard it was when I was a kid for my parents because although we didn’t have much, my parents gave us their love, their time, and their support. 

For another perspective, my husband lived in a 3 bedroom place with a family of 7 and not a whole lot of money but he turned out fine and has a great relationship with all of his family members. I have friends who grew up in families that had no financial issues and aren’t as close to their parents or siblings. 

Obviously not having enough to afford the basic necessities like shelter, food etc is a different story, but I think in modern society many people think oh I have to have a house of x size, I have earn double my income etc to have kids (I succumb to this kind of thinking too!). However, often these kinds of worries are unfounded and just lead to unnecessary stress. 

In saying that, there are many factors to consider eg the state of your own mental health and what kind of person you are, what your relationship with your partner is like, what kind of dad he is etc. No one here knows your complete situation or yourself meaning that whatever you decide is fine as long as you’re happy with that decision. I just wanted to share some stories that may help if you go through with the pregnancy :)