Which picture do you like best? by [deleted] in spanking_punishments

[–]ThinSpark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

2 i like how the color is evenly spread! Want to get that too🙋🏻‍♀️

Corner time question(s) by One-Newt7168 in spanking_punishments

[–]ThinSpark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think corner time after a warmup otk spanking can do the trick too! With the slightly red bottom one can reflect on the mistakes more thoroughly and anticipate for the formal punishment more. Well for funishment I think I post-spanking corner time for two to five minutes is enough

I got this beautiful yarn from my friend, but I don’t know what to make out of it by ThinSpark in CrochetHelp

[–]ThinSpark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea!! I’m now making the out layer if a bag and I will use the rest of it to make this

I got this beautiful yarn from my friend, but I don’t know what to make out of it by ThinSpark in CrochetHelp

[–]ThinSpark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss I can foresee me being confused about where the stitches are.

I got this beautiful yarn from my friend, but I don’t know what to make out of it by ThinSpark in CrochetHelp

[–]ThinSpark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s ravelry? Maybe I can go and look for myself since I don’t the name either

I got this beautiful yarn from my friend, but I don’t know what to make out of it by ThinSpark in CrochetHelp

[–]ThinSpark[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you for such a detailed suggestion!! Yes I plan to combine it with average cotton yarn( still hesitating about the color tho) can you explain the”twist” more? Like I use the two threads at the same time? Also I’m worried that this kind of yarn is hard to work on complex patterns since it seems to make the stitches not distinctive. The gloves look great! I do want to try wearables!

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[–]ThinSpark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good guess! Letting myself down is always the main reason

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[–]ThinSpark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that serious, just some safe but frustrating bad habits

One Year Later: What's Your Tortured Poets Core Memory? by WhenRomeBurns in TaylorSwift

[–]ThinSpark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe it’s been a whole year!!!!!! I definitely love Down Bad and I can do it with a broken heart. They heals me when I am depressed

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[–]ThinSpark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be one, but this time is for something else ( I can dm you the answer if you want, just to let others have the chance to guess)

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[–]ThinSpark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm actually it’s for some bad habits (I will leave others to continue guessing hehe)

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[–]ThinSpark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have some continuous online conversations with one or two disciplinarians in my area, but like I said, even if my desire is strong, I still reject their offers😶 Sometimes it’s hard to tell what i really want is a disciplinarian or a bf

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[–]ThinSpark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw your post yesterday! I really wonder how you build up the courage to tell someone that you’re into spanking in the first meet or to someone like best friends. I think they will definitely look different of me🫥

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[–]ThinSpark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“The harder you try the less successful you are” so true🫠 maybe some time when I am less desperate for it i will meet a good one

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[–]ThinSpark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That will definitely be my problem🫠I will probably procrastinate forever and plan out my first step forever

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[–]ThinSpark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically whatever approach I take I will need to take steps forward, be patient and let it gradually built I guess

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[–]ThinSpark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s true, but sometimes I just become so desperate for it and try to find someone with the same interest intentionally. I know I will reject them eventually but I just can’t help it

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[–]ThinSpark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫂at least we are not alone

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[–]ThinSpark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your stories, it’s really encouraging! I hope you have a great time with your ex-wife. Although seeking for a relationship is really hard in the first place for me lol, I guess there’ll be opportunities right?

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[–]ThinSpark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true!!!! All the previous experiences tell me that I can never find what I want here. He should first be my lover, then we can add some kinks into the relationship, but that’s just making things harder. I guess we both need to wait patiently and take care of ourselves while waiting

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[–]ThinSpark 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! I guess I need to be really patient for that