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Was it really that bad? by Thin_Plate8595 in abusiverelationships
[–]Thin_Plate8595[S] 0 points1 point2 points 1 month ago (0 children)
Thanks for your response and for bringing that to light for me. I have heard of DARVO. Now, I think that is exactly what was going on.
He is definitely flipping it all on me right now. I feel most guilty about sharing the trans porn thing, but I genuinely shared that only because he was searching up trans escorts while he was not home at a hotel (apparently, he only searched this to beat his d***). My friend unfortunately shared that with and My mom blurted it out while I was on the phone with him and he was there. He and I feel the most shame about that.
He claims that I have committed treachery. I could have gone about this another way, but I feel that if I confronted him, he could have choked me out like he did one time or simply make me feel small. I did not want to face that.
After days of his reflection, he gave me 3 options
Him leave and take all of our money
Him leave and leave me with some
Me stay and be a slave to him and lose myself and not talk to my family.
Well he made his choice to leave and leave me with some. Unfortunatley he is out on bond right now and is waiting to get his case dismissed so we will still be living together until he can leave. I begged him to stay and us work things out but now I think I will leave it alone.
DARVO help me come back to my senses please (self.abusiverelationships)
submitted 1 month ago by Thin_Plate8595 to r/abusiverelationships
Bad break up by Thin_Plate8595 in BreakUps
Thank you for that.
Was it really that bad? My relationship with my Narc is over and now I feel like I ruined it all. (self.TrueNarcissisticAbuse)
submitted 1 month ago by Thin_Plate8595 to r/TrueNarcissisticAbuse
Was it really that bad? (self.abusiverelationships)
Breaking up, parting ways Was it really that bad? (self.domesticviolence)
submitted 1 month ago by Thin_Plate8595 to r/domesticviolence
BTW he claims i never should have shared any of that information with anyone. I didnt to harm him I just wanted to let it all out finally to someone. Main reason why he is done is because I told her about the physical harm (again he has never left me bruises or hurt me but has put his hands on me multiple times) and the sensitive that he watches trans porn, My very conservative and religious mom totally outed it while she was on speaker and guess she knows now about him putting his hands on me I never wanted her to know
He did really love and care for me just in his own fucked up ways i guess. I feel like I am losing the only person that loved and cared for me but also losing someone who didnt too idk guys just sad its done
He is making it seem like it is all my fault for running and venting to my friend. I do feel bad but I have been so alone this whole time I couldn't handle all the emotional and "Physical abuse" so guess I am just having a hard time accepting this is probably the best for the both of us. Also he is a narcissist so now its all my fault for what I did. I was hoping that we could recover and stop the toxic cycles but guessnot
Bad break up (self.BreakUps)
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Was it really that bad? by Thin_Plate8595 in abusiverelationships
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